Falling in love with a Thai prostitute in Geylang.. Advice needed..

[MountainTurtle]

Originally Posted by singathai

Thank you for your comment. It might sound harsh but it does make sense to me. I know its hard to accept the fact that she's a "whore". You might think I'm naive, but I feel that no one wants to be a "whore". Everyone wants to live normally without being a "whore". She might have screwed up something some point of her life that made her so desperate for money. I know I might sound like an idiot, but we all only live once, don't we? What's the point of having a good career and money but not happy? I've also read the link you've attached. Its a really tragic incident that is unimaginable for me. I don't know what to do anymore.. Its just impossible for me to forget her..

Yes, no one wants to be a whore, but question here, she have a choice not to be one further more was she force to be one? Why are you defending her like an idiot, you got cast black magic by her isit?

Yes, we live once, we should live our life to the fullest every step and decesion we made is in our own hands. If one can betray her own body for money, I don't know what she will do next.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by heroseven2003

Whenever the need for some money arises, they can only think of the quickest way ie. to drop their pants for whoremongers like me

I can vouch for that. I have the photographic evidence!

[Killforsex]

@Singathai, if you have been speaking Thai and still don't see the con coming. If you don't speak Thai then please go and learn it, you will find out more. Good luck.

[BS KTV]

Originally Posted by singathai

Thank you for your comment. You seem to be an experienced person in this situation(looking at your signature). Did this happen to you and it turned out badly? I really don't know what to do. I can't forget her. I think I'll just continue persueing and get my self hurt so I'll stop. I just want to know how I can go about doing that.

My past experience are with PRC WL. To cut short my long story, I ended my relationships with those PRC WL that I went with. And more importantly cut ties with them and stop any contacts with them. I lost some money and got hurt but I am more mature now.

You should end the your relationship with her once she finish her stint here. Do not contact her anymore when she return to Thailand.

There are many threads in the forum and I do believe all are real life experience with WL. Many bros eventually did regretted. I am lucky to wake up early and quit while I can... quit while I am still young. That save me a lot of trouble, money and times for other important things in life

[cocacola2012]

i think one of the cores here is don't get involved the relationship, go release and then sayonara (no offence to anyone). the feeling she is giving you now is also the same when you were dating your gf previously, isn't it? just that you have forgotten only. Wake up before late! don't simply pick a wild flower while you are actually holding one on the road, how much you really know about how she grew??

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Stop being an idiot and come to your senses before it's too late.

by the way, i like to know if other countries men face KC traps too?

[singathai]

Okay okay guys.. I know I am an idiot to all of you.. I'll definitely do something that isn't gonna be of my disadvantage. I will think carefully before actually executing whatever I've said I'm gonna do. Thank you guys, for the good and bad comments. I'll take all the comments into consideration. Might not be important to you guys but I'll update you guys.

[SammyNewbie]

Is KC kena cheat? I think it is... but lol.. cause I am new, I will ask again.

I think other men are more exposed, so they kena a few times liao then know already, like those americans. Everyday fuck fuck use here use there.

Not like us, got these values taught into us, so less interaction with women so when KC the time, the consequences are greater.

[nacal]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

There are millions of Thai girls who have less money than your darling whore but they have sufficient pride and self respect to find an honorable way of making a living. Girls who choose to become whores do so because they have lost all their self esteem and sense of honor and shame and want to make a quick buck with the minimum of effort.

Have to agree with bro on this sentence. There are millions of Thai girls who have less money, and are prettier, but they are not in this line...

but i don despise them.. i only despise those who use this chance to KC or cheat or hurt other ppl. No worries.. to me there are millions out there who are worse than whores. At least they don rob or kidnap ppl or cheat ppl of their hard earn money,if they stick to their job strictly lol.

Thai WL sell their dignity, esteem for money.. some for own material gains.. Some to sponsor their bros/sis through universities. So many reasons.. some true some false. How to differentiate? Time..

Bro you have time on your side. Use it.. If she's serious, she will do something abt it. 1 yr, 2 yrs.. take your time to cool down, monitor and then prepare then decide. It's super tough to keep lying for 1-2 yrs and not leave any clues. DON commit anything within this month if possible, thats when u're passionately high!! Be prepared though.. she might give you a lot of pressure like closing a deal.

It's still considered high risk.. either you don take the risk like the bros advised. Or you take it by minimizing risk as much as possible. it's your call, bro, as no one knows it or her more than you yourself.

Be prepared for the worst, and hope for the best then.. btw i like thai gers, though i just interact with few of them fr mps/fls in sg/bangkok. Generally i find most of them to be polite and very family oriented. And due to the high demand and thus high pay.. they took this fast & easy path, similar to MLM/prop agents/ FA here..

[nacal]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

by the way, i like to know if other countries men face KC traps too?

i believe jap/hk/korea/prc (kena own kind lol)/SG/my/taiwan... aiyo so many.. sure face it. Maybe those countries that don have are the middle east countries? lol

[dOiOb]

TS. Read the BOSS's signature and learn from it! Be a player not a playee!

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by singathai

I'll definitely do something that isn't gonna be of my disadvantage. I will think carefully before actually executing whatever I've said I'm gonna do.

Don't bother thinking because you're not in the right state of mind for rational thought to take place. Just do as we tell you.

When you look back at this episode in a couple of year's time, you'll be thankful that you managed to get yourself out of this mess without too much harm done.

If you want to do a bit of research, read

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limbic_system
http://www.youramazingbrain.org/lovesex/sciencelove.htm

You can also read "The cocaine girlfriend" chapter of the "Winners' Bible". I provided the link here.

In your case, what has happened is that your commercial sex episode resulted in the excessive release of oxytocin that has paralysed your rational thought centres of the frontal cortex of you brain.

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by nacal

Have to agree with bro on this sentence. There are millions of Thai girls who have less money, and are prettier, but they are not in this line...

but i don despise them.. i only despise those who use this chance to KC or cheat or hurt other ppl. No worries.. to me there are millions out there who are worse than whores. At least they don rob or kidnap ppl or cheat ppl of their hard earn money,if they stick to their job strictly lol.

Thai WL sell their dignity, esteem for money.. some for own material gains.. Some to sponsor their bros/sis through universities. So many reasons.. some true some false. How to differentiate? Time..

Bro you have time on your side. Use it.. If she's serious, she will do something abt it. 1 yr, 2 yrs.. take your time to cool down, monitor and then prepare then decide. It's super tough to keep lying for 1-2 yrs and not leave any clues. DON commit anything within this month if possible, thats when u're passionately high!! Be prepared though.. she might give you a lot of pressure like closing a deal.

It's still considered high risk.. either you don take the risk like the bros advised. Or you take it by minimizing risk as much as possible. it's your call, bro, as no one knows it or her more than you yourself.

Be prepared for the worst, and hope for the best then.. btw i like thai gers, though i just interact with few of them fr mps/fls in sg/bangkok. Generally i find most of them to be polite and very family oriented. And due to the high demand and thus high pay.. they took this fast & easy path, similar to MLM/prop agents/ FA here..

Agreed with what you say...no matter what reasons they have, they are doing this for a sideline and even some for years for the money. Even if these girls say they have feelings for you, they still love money more. Surely, u have exceptional cases where its real love and your guy fren lives happily for a damn long time with the WL. But chances are really slim and i wont not invest all my time and money just to get that rare opportunity which maybe you can see only once or twice or not even once in your lifetime.

Dun wanna sound to be realistic, but to safeguard we chiongsters interest here, for most of the time, say 98 percent, treat who you met or what you find in this trade as a partial investment. The KC trap thing is deadly and sometimes they will just lie and not tell u how they really feel.

Thus you wanna find out more about 'her' and u gamble your money and time away for a long period of time. This becomes like a 'permanent' investment gradually. For this case, i think you need to access and observe intentively on 'her'. You may even need to make trips down to her homeland just to convince urself that 'she' is worth it. No matter how nice she can be, chances are back at her hometown, shes not what she seems to be and you get really devastated by the truth....

However, there is no right or wrong in relationships but always remember there is always a higher chance to have a real and solid relationship with a decent normal girl, be it shes a thai, vietnamese or other nationalities.

Personally, having roam the bars of JC and GL to search for the 'vietnam' gem (which some of my friends got it now fortunately) since 2006, I did chanced upon one viet bar girl who i think is worth my permanent investment when i was chionging in geylang here three years ago. But i blew it and regretted when i did not make the trip down to her homeland to find out more about her. She has this ''C'' Cup which i die, shes even drinks my cum after sex(no joke) and she was so attentive to what i say.

When i tell her to talk softly on the phone as she always kinda rude( its viet culture lah i think), she toned down. When i ask her don wear so skimpy dress, she stopped. Super touch but DAMN.... gone liao then come and KPKB, drink beer like mad also no use.... . Lets face it, we guys wanna find a hot wife whos good in bed and good to you in person. She had both quality but i was so cautious as my frens keep warning me they lie alot. And i should have gave her a chance and observe more but of course not blindly just give her money.

If 'she'' really likes you, you can feel it to a certain extent if you alreeady know the effects of KC trap due to your long years of chionging in this trade. For newbies who do not knoe this, then please do not give up the ''forest'' here for this tree.

I know some guys here are desperate for something loving and good in your lives due to your not so solid relationship in your current lives, but learn and experience more in this trade(it takes years man) and then make the 'permanent' investment. Rather than bank on the '1 out of the 50 working gals' who is a true gem for a true relationship( i think now the figures are getting worst thanks to capitalisation and modernisation), Why not just live suavely, sophiscatedly and live like the casanova, treat them well and this 'sexual aka friend friend' relationship can still exist and it boosts your ego and makes you happy still...

However, dont sound to be biased, its really so hard to find a less materialistic and nice girl of the chinese ethnicity, korean and japanese, so i am rooting for the Puyings, spring Rolls, pinoys, Laos, Burmish, Myanmmar in this decade lolx.... The greed for statue and money is so evident......wad to do , haizzz... nice and pretty girls who tend to like you back will never settle for the simple life.

But on the otherhand, i may sound contradicting here, TO hell with that logic. Some of my frens are having that kind of awesome girls who they met in this nightlife scene in their lives now and they are happy, i will never give up on the search for that perfect gem in the nightlife scene and the normal scene....

Dun give up on both scenes, lol... i like consoling myself as i write this LOL... Just hate the sour grapes feeling as i envy my bloody friends with their thai fiancee or vietnam wife to be.......

Oh as always, the inevitable sin that we men always make, we think with our dicks and hearts at all times. Its time to be also brainiac in some situations lol...

[BS KTV]

I just want to share a bit more here on SG men & WL

Despite my past experience were with PRC WL, I think Thai WL shall be no different. These WL will follow old men who had deepest pocket and they will not hesitate to leave you once a rich sugar daddy take interest in her. WL will only retire once she find a rich old man to settle down and to maintain a ex-WL wife will cost SGD 5,000 a monthly allowance at minimum. That why I said usually WL will settle down with rich old men. I never see guys in 20s or 30s looking for true love or true relationship with WL.

SG men - There are 2 of kinds.

1. Decent-minded proper educated guys - These guys go out to play & have fun. Yes, they looked for WL for sex but not love or relationships. These guys will not take WL as real girlfriends because of their complicated nature and not exclusive to them.

2. Night scene old men & fat men - These men are exceptionally different from the previous group of guys that I mentioned. These men can accept relationships that are not exclusive to them and involved in their complicated night scene circle that filled with betrayal & money-oriented environment. These WL can be nightclub singers, KTV girls, massage girls or even streetwalkers. These group of men usually spent the most money on these WL by visiting their hometown, buying lavish gifts for them and remitting money to them. Some men even on brink of been bankrupt because they owe banks money and need their parents to bail them out.


Bro singathai, unless you are very well-off and you can give your Thai WL & her family a good life. If not, don't ever to think of long term relationship with her or marry her. Money will never be enough for such people.

[MountainTurtle]

Originally Posted by mackewell

Agreed with what you say...no matter what reasons they have, they are doing this for a sideline and even some for years for the money. Even if these girls say they have feelings for you, they still love money more. Surely, u have exceptional cases where its real love and your guy fren lives happily for a damn long time with the WL. But chances are really slim
gave her a chance and observe more but of course not blindly just give her money.

Some of my frens are having that kind of awesome girls who they met in this nightlife scene in their lives now and they are happy, i will never give up on the search for that perfect gem in the nightlife scene and the normal scene....

Dun give up on both scenes, lol... i like consoling myself as i write this LOL... Just hate the sour grapes feeling as i envy my bloody friends with their thai fiancee or vietnam wife to be.......

Oh as always, the inevitable sin that we men always make, we think with our dicks and hearts at all times. Its time to be also brainiac in some situations lol...

Well said, fair posting. Really agree to max. Personally I think with your fair judgement and experience you should actually contact this TS personally and guide him through this stage. After reading your post it actually remind me that even fairytales have their odds of not having a happy ending that will be "The little mermaid."