questions after bonking..... - Page 3

medicheng · #31 25-01-2005, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by mayday

wah! in wat ways??

you never know wat she did in the past? like how many guys she bonk etc... haha

Optimus_Prime · #32 25-01-2005, 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Richard L

Hi Bro,
I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for awhile .. You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman." And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either

HA HA HA !!

Fell off my chair man !!

Flinger2 · #33 25-01-2005, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Richard L

Hi Bro,

I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for awhile .. You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman." And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either

The best thing I ever read!!! . *Bows to the Master*

banana · #34 25-01-2005, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by benz

finger masters medicheng and MachoDevilX

please accept me as your disciple

personally don't think it's a good idea to mix sex and friendship.

you might be feeling hollow coz you are not getting what you are looking for in your current relationship? perhaps you could talk to your gf and work things out.

greetings, shifu medicheng and MachoDevilX.
greetings, da shi xiong benz.

medicheng · #35 26-01-2005, 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by banana

greetings, shifu medicheng and MachoDevilX.
greetings, da shi xiong benz.

since when u ru meng?

medicheng · #36 26-01-2005, 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by jeronimo

I think its very common for people to feel lost
My best friends fcuk around too and they do it big time
But at the end of the day, they finish the business then its game over time
But those are strictly transactional basis

Who don't want a perfect lady in the house that can cook, click, tease?
I have not been tru many relationhips but no to the extent of only 1 (pleeezzz) but I do not shun the possibility of a new relationship that could spell the end of the drought
If going in just to get out or even before getting in, you are afraid to lose.
Then the greater would be your loss

There's no harm in going into another alley, if you walk the right one you would be on your sunshine avenue, else backtrack again

Just my thoughts aloud

sorry i miss ur post yesterday, now replying u back...

yeah i agreed nowadays u never know who girls fuck around and who they sleep with and what dirty linen they did in the past. For me as long as in the future when she is with me she dun do all these things i wont mind.... but then some guys do mind. How many guys can really dare to say that they wont mind accepting a girl who used to be a FL? haha... maybe I am trying to brag about myself, but for me I wont mind... as long as she dun mind anything about me.... I was with a FL before and a divorcee... for me is they are just another girl for me to understand and try out to see if can be together or not.... simple as that......

well, I am lost, after doing it with some girl i knew as a good friend... and i used to love alot... caring about her alot.... haiz...

i think should fuck happy and forget about the whole thing and remain good friend with her is the best way out...

right?

damn, dun feel like aiming at the china insurance mei mei liao.....

Brinjal · #37 26-01-2005, 08:40 AM

I'm no moralist and I think wat medicheng is going thru is juz a passing phase. I'm selfish and I care for my satisfaction more than her emotions. Man use love to get sex. Woman use sex to get love. It has worked all this while and SNAG or not, it's not going to change. I feel it's easy for me to separate lust and love altogether. No guilt feelings. No strings attached.

medicheng · #38 26-01-2005, 09:01 AM

Love will lead to lust while lust will never lead you to love? keke

Brinjal · #39 26-01-2005, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by medicheng

Love will lead to lust while lust will never lead you to love? keke

it's sexual gratification

Optimus_Prime · #40 26-01-2005, 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Brinjal

Man use love to get sex. Woman use sex to get love. It has worked all this while and SNAG or not, it's not going to change.

well said. No TRUER words have been spoken.

medicheng · #41 26-01-2005, 09:27 AM

man also use money to get sex... remember?

jeronimo · #42 26-01-2005, 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by medicheng

yeah i agreed nowadays u never know who girls fuck around and who they sleep with and what dirty linen they did in the past. For me as long as in the future when she is with me she dun do all these things i wont mind.... but then some guys do mind. How many guys can really dare to say that they wont mind accepting a girl who used to be a FL? haha... maybe I am trying to brag about myself, but for me I wont mind... as long as she dun mind anything about me.... I was with a FL before and a divorcee... for me is they are just another girl for me to understand and try out to see if can be together or not.... simple as that......

well, I am lost, after doing it with some girl i knew as a good friend... and i used to love alot... caring about her alot.... haiz...

i think should fuck happy and forget about the whole thing and remain good friend with her is the best way out...

right?

damn, dun feel like aiming at the china insurance mei mei liao.....

I was still under moderation when I posted it
As for the feeling between you and your partner, I believe in mutual agreement. I know of a FL who is not in Singyland but still treats me like the best friend in the world, asking if she should go for bust enhancements? If she should accept this guy who is crazy in love with her?
We maintained a relationship based on feeling but to me I told her that she was working and I still would pay her a token sum everytime we were together even if she don't say it.
That was better in a way because through the times we were together I respected her, we talked, we had fun but I maintained it that way. Perhaps if you set your mind straight on what you wanted and be opened with the friend you had a relationship with, it would not have bothered it?

As for your relationship with the FL and divorcee, I guess everyone wanted to have a nice SYT to fall in love and share their lives. If by chance this question had been popped to me 10 yrs, I would have said a no no to relationship involving divorcee or FL. However over the years, man age and so does the thinking change.
Does it mean divorcee are bad? C'mon, they may not be the one sleeping with other man behind their man's back, they could have been victimised by callous man having flings. On the contrary, SYTs have ample of chance to stray

Anyway there is always 2 sides to a coin
Hope I am not too long winded

, just my thoughts aloud

medicheng · #43 26-01-2005, 10:23 AM

nope you are not long winded. haha. I agreed people mindset do change over the years... just like me... but then sometimes after u bonk, u r happy, but then emotionally u still feel empty... wonder how to solve it...

HauntedSex · #44 26-01-2005, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by medicheng

nope you are not long winded. haha. I agreed people mindset do change over the years... just like me... but then sometimes after u bonk, u r happy, but then emotionally u still feel empty... wonder how to solve it...

Bro medicheng,

agree, Brain is a funny thing, Sometimes ago,I had such feeling too... My way to solve this: find something that can let u emotinally attached to, eg works, girlfriends, family, friends, maybe a hobby.(healthy ones, not sex!!)

Enjoy!!
HauntedSex

Orgasmic · #45 26-01-2005, 10:43 AM

seems that i cant find someone who seriously feel extremely guilty like me in this forum....

donno why but i seriously have no gratification for any kind of gals and i actually feel very sad after any sessions... its like a serious guilt weighing down on u and u promise yourself that next time u wont do it again.

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Originally Posted by HauntedSex

Bro medicheng,

agree, Brain is a funny thing, Sometimes ago,I had such feeling too... My way to solve this: find something that can let u emotinally attached to, eg works, girlfriends, family, friends, maybe a hobby.(healthy ones, not sex!!)

Enjoy!!
HauntedSex