Is sex a major factor for a happy marriage? - Page 3

genesis · #31 10-03-2005, 03:22 PM

i think love n lust come as a package....

logonpal · #32 10-03-2005, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by monster.cookie

I think the subject should be changed to "Is good sex a major factor for a happy marriage?"

For me, i think great sex is like a reward for nurturing a healthy communicative relationship. When 2 people are in sync, sex will be good. In this case, the couple will be telling their friends, "Sex is a major issue in a relationship."

If you cannot see eye to eye with each other and quarrel all day long (bad communication), sex (getting any sometimes in these cases is difficult) will be a run-of-the-mill, flip-over-and-sleep-after affair when it happens. After a while, both parties will be looking for foreign talent to service them. When they finally break up, they will be saying "Sex (lack of) is a major issue in a relationship."

Well said... bravo..... we all want good sex, great sex, wet sex and great cum sex!!!!

Pal

Randi_Candi · #33 10-03-2005, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Looksee

Major = more than 50%? i dun think it can be measured tat way......

Sex is 1 of the KEY factor for a happy marriage......

me married for the last 15 years liao..........

Tats means u had been having a goot sex life for 15yrs
Keep it up

Looksee · #34 10-03-2005, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Randi_Candi

Tats means u had been having a goot sex life for 15yrs
Keep it up

good sex life - yes

with the same partner - not neccessary

milkman · #35 10-03-2005, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Looksee

good sex life - yes

with the same partner - not neccessary

best answer so far

mayday · #36 10-03-2005, 05:13 PM

sex as a major factor in marriage? i would say its more of one of the many many things that makes a happy and lasting marriage. like wat other bros here have said, there is the comms part, the money part, the sex part and lastly i think most bros here have left out is the commitment part. and i think the commitment part is the major part in any relationship.

not to dampen the spirits ard here but i think in the case of marriage, its a sacred thing after all, u wun jus go ard marryin any jane, mary and lucy that u come across rite? yer wife surely got smthng tt makes u wanna spend the rest of yer life tog. y not work hard for that special thing? working hard would means comms w yer wife, and with better comms, naturally, sex and i mean good sex will come forth. money wise, i think as long as both are realistic w their lot in money as in not to be overtly materialistic. the money part shld be ok. after all, if u are not handicap and not lazy, its diff to starve to death in sg.

anyways, this is all just my 2 cents worth of views and IMHO only. maybe more seasoned bros can correct me as i am still not married yet. haha.

kingcopa · #37 10-03-2005, 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Eastpipper

Just wanna get some bro's view on this question?
"Is sex a major factor for a happy marriage?"
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To me sex is a big part to a happy marriage but to my wife........ i dun think so

Eastpipper · #38 10-03-2005, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by kingcopa

To me sex is a big part to a happy marriage but to my wife........ i dun think so

y?can share?

dragko · #39 10-03-2005, 08:20 PM

As most of you have already mentioned, the many factors in happy marriage are (not in any order of importance)

Sex, Money, Communication, Committment.

I don't think any one of them can be considered the most important. All of them are and IMHO are related to each other.

No Sex ?
Result in less communication, as you don't want her to know too much, if you slip your tongue and she finds out you are bonking somebody else? Result in less committment, and when cheong outside equals money spent.

No Money ?
Everytime worry about bills and working late (some lucky guys get free bonks with OL), where got energy/mood when reach home. Also no time for communication.

No Communication ?
How to fullfill your sex desire, don't know when she is up to it? When you horny then finds out her aunty is here!

No committment ?
Means bonking outside, less at home.

But agree that sometimes must eat something else than you will appreciate your shark fins.

Eastpipper · #40 10-03-2005, 08:23 PM

bro dragko,i agree w u,tks

#41 10-03-2005, 08:29 PM

Bro, i am 5 yrs into a relationship, not married, but planning..these 5 yrs, initially still got some hot petting in hostel, few yrs of working already...now worst..its just simple bj n hj and no sex still...

My gf parents are the strict "chi-na" type, so her mind is probably set that sex is taboo, dirty, and just for the sake of having children...

sigh....i dun feel like thinking about marriage liao..

LocalFruit · #42 10-03-2005, 08:41 PM

Sex is one of the major factor for a happy marriage. I have been married for 4 years now. Before I was married or newly wedded, I was having sex at a frequency of about 3 times a week. I was happy. Now I know to know that she has a low sex drive. I would be lucky to get it once every 2 weeks, and I have to bloody beg for it. Nah beh!!!!
If I knew that she has such a low libido, I would have think twice before marrying her.

xxpp_z · #43 10-03-2005, 11:03 PM

Of course, sex keeps marriage alive. Think it over bro, is there any gal marry u for the sake of live under one roof with u only? Without sex, marriage is as boring as go to work

#44 11-03-2005, 12:57 AM

IS SEX A MAJOR FACTOR FOR A HAPPY MARRIGE??? Let me say YES,I been married for 13 years with no kids,cause I not very fond of kid and now I'm 35.Both of us working,and not to say that I never eat outside but not too often because I feel that outside is a transaction,and nothing is good to be with my own wife.We sex about 5-6 times a weeks and not only at home,some time also out doors,she love it as long I accompany her.We usually will chat and talk about sex at where tonight and so on.That is why we can mantain till now,no joke.Couple to be open in all issue including sex.I also tell my wife not to wear any bra or string

when we out for drinks and other at first she dislike and now she enjoy it.And that why we sex outdoor often.

boobers · #45 11-03-2005, 02:10 AM

Bro Localfruit, I share your thoughts as I too have a wife who doesn't like sex. Must fight for sex, that also seldom get. If fact, u get frus and then lose interest all together. Other than that, we're a loving couple. Conclusion, drink "milk" outside lor.....