Gf meeting up ex bf. What's your take?

[Big_sam]

I think depend on how serious you are with your Gf.

Everything has its chances of happening and should not be too complacent like other suggestion at least send her to the guy home or wait at the void deck lo. That's provided you care else you can always use the word trust when you are eating outside using this case as a example lol

Honestly speaking i have my doubt why would she want back those clothes lol?

[LilG]

Originally Posted by jasdude

Trust her and have confidence in her and yourself but it does not mean you can be complacent. If the person wants to stray, there are many ways and various times to do so. It takes two hands to clap. Whats yours is yours. Whats not its not worth fighting for.

Well said bro jasdude. There's only so much you can do. If the girl decided to stray in the heat of moment, it could be during some time when you least expect it.

Loving someone can be painful, that's why the saying 被爱比爱一个人更幸福 is true to me.

[cubeslover]

Thanks bros for all your kind comments. Appreciate the concern.

Let me share on what I meant by our open relationship. If you have read my old postings my Gf was introduced to the hotwife/cuckolding lifestyle by me. It was my fetish and shes the only gf who agreed and was sporting enough to try it. I encouraged her to have flings and sex with other males while with me. I knew i had it coming when it all ended last year when she eventually decided to leave me for her fling. It devastated me as I believed we had a great relationship and trust going on and that kept us in the lifestyle for so long. But it seems the fish still prefers the big sea. I let her go unwillingly. She ended that fling after a few months and went on to another guy who was introduced by her besties. Her reasons for leaving me was because of my job as I had to work overseas quite frequently and also she wanted to settle down while I wasn't quite ready. I sorted out my thoughts and chased her back. I really love her and now I wanted her all to myself. I don't want to share her anymore and decided to kick my fetish.

We finally got back together earlier this year. Sex was great as we tried our best not to bring up the past. I fucked her almost everyday for the 1st month we patch up. As much as I want to kick the fetish, in my mind i kept imagining how she got fucked by her 2 exes. Whenever we have sex the images of her sucking their cock and getting fucked comes to mind. She KNEW I always get super horny whenever she tells me how she gets fucked by her flings. Whenever we have sex she will try to tease me while i try my best not to react. But its futile. My raging hormones and erection is proof that shes making me excited. She will put on her lingerie and seduce me. Telling me how her ex loves to have her walking around in sexy lingerie. She will tell me how her bf always like to attack her from behind and bang her over the table. When she's blowing me, she will pay more attention to my balls and tell me how her ex love it when she suckle on their balls. Part of me gets very horny and jealous yet another part tells me not to so as not to encourage her to stray anymore and have sex behind my back. We agreed that after we got back together she will be faithful to me.

All was going well until we met his exbf at a club few weeks back. She introduced me to him and afterwards told me that he was Alfred. The exbf that her besties introduced. He's an engineer, quite decent looking tall guy with good prospects. According to her, he's 35, divorced and stays alone in a condo. I wasnt interested in what she's telling me about him. She teased me yet again in between our beers as she whispered into my ear "im sure you are jealous. Cos hes got a bigger cock then u..." I pulled her closer and kissed her and told her "i dont care. You are my girl now and hes not going to fuck u anymore" she stared at me for awhile. That look in her eyes tells me shes affirmative with my statement as we kissed more and we went back that night for hot sex again. I fucked her with full vigor to make a point that I'm not letting him touch her anymore and only I can fuck her now. She was fully satisfied and reassured me she was just teasing me as she knows i like it. I admited to her that i was aroused by it but it was her that really made me horny. We never felt more in love.

[cheatingchris]

last time when i was young maybe 23 yrs old i oso had a gf, said go ex-bf house take things.

knn, i page few times no reply. i wait wait cant sleep cant eat.

next morning called me said sorry, she still love ex-bf and had sex. sibehhh tulan, i sit and cry for few days.

2 months later, she called me and cry said ex bf cheat her +++. tat time young so already got new gf. but i whack her a few more times and dumped her after.

so TS, check out for signs... see how long she stay there take things. if next day attitude towards you change le.. something wrong liao.

[president86]

Originally Posted by cheatingchris

last time when i was young maybe 23 yrs old i oso had a gf, said go ex-bf house take things.

knn, i page few times no reply. i wait wait cant sleep cant eat.

next morning called me said sorry, she still love ex-bf and had sex. sibehhh tulan, i sit and cry for few days.

2 months later, she called me and cry said ex bf cheat her +++. tat time young so already got new gf. but i whack her a few more times and dumped her after.

so TS, check out for signs... see how long she stay there take things. if next day attitude towards you change le.. something wrong liao.

ya bro… must check for signs..

eh ask you, do you feel turn on now, thinking abt yr ex having sex with other man?

[ian_rider]

Women is just like all men.
Frankly, we men love to have sex with many partners. We are easy to do that since Geylang offer service to men.

For women? They are not easy to get since Geylang do not service women. For daring women, they log in to chat room and try their luck, or they visit Batam massage centre to get one. Most dare not.

My ex gf always give excuse to visit her ex as she can have sex with a different man not because she still love him but just want to have sex with someone else.

Women and men are just like a cat. Cat eat all type of fishes.

Sorry if My take create worries.

[lotsfits80]

Originally Posted by cubeslover

will they have reminiscence sex? For some strange erotic reasons, this thought came to mind. The other day we happened to bump into 1 of her exbf during clubbing. I was introduced and i let them chat for awhile and they agreed to keep in touch. Few days later gf told me he texted her about returning some of her clothing from his place. She wanted to go over tonight and informed me just now after she knock off work. I trust her and agreed without 2nd thoughts.

Now i'm wondering will she be doing him behind my back? Especially since we are having an open relationship. Butterflies in my stomach now. What's your take on this?

porn logic.

[Big_sam]

If you had your fetish , I believe she has her fetish too. So I guess you should not be worrying too much after all it's your fetish too since you say you are "trying" to kick the fetish .. Last time you are not that concern about another guy banging her in front of you why all of the sudden being so concern about another guy banging her?

All i can say is if it started like that and you want to continue the relationship, your trust level between you and her gonna be very high. If you really suspect anything, i think it's better for you to end it earlier.

[cubeslover]

Originally Posted by Big_sam

If you had your fetish , I believe she has her fetish too. So I guess you should not be worrying too much after all it's your fetish too since you say you are "trying" to kick the fetish .. Last time you are not that concern about another guy banging her in front of you why all of the sudden being so concern about another guy banging her?

All i can say is if it started like that and you want to continue the relationship, your trust level between you and her gonna be very high. If you really suspect anything, i think it's better for you to end it earlier.

Yes I agreed its my fetish to begin with and it's me who introduced her to this and allowed her permission. But now I'm concerned cos I want to marry this woman and I don't wish to share her with anyone anymore. The experience of our breakup has made me realize how much I love her. It's messed up. Sexually I'm aroused yet emotionally I'm worried.

Some bros here told me to accompany her to his place. I would if I could! I am overseas for a week on a working trip. Do u guys think they did it that night? How will I find out?

[cubeslover]

Originally Posted by Lauhuu

The last time while we had our separation, she visited our house to collect some stuffs. Also ended up fucking her. The feeling was very dif i must say. Nce.

You just made me more worried...

[DemonicSS]

Hi TS,

First off, I'd say that for such questions, we can't answer as we do not know your girlfriend. Hence we won't know if she might cheat or not. So it's something we can't really answer.

So she previously left you, and then came back to you means that she prefers you after trying the rest out. So it's a good indication that even if you let her 'eat out', she won't be leaving you. Or she could be fickle minded. Once again sadly, we do not know her enough to say anything but time will reveal the answers to your questions and be patient about it.

Also, why curb what you like? You are who you are. D

[georgemagnum]

If I'm in this situation, forget about the stuffs in her ex place. So much risks involved ..... Too much risks ...... Jus my 2yen worth, no offence, TS.

My focus is on the risks .... When the risks are too high, trust takes a backseat generally .....

gm

[DemonicSS]

Originally Posted by georgemagnum

If I'm in this situation, forget about the stuffs in her ex place. So much risks involved ..... Too much risks ...... Jus my 2yen worth, no offence, TS.

My focus is on the risks .... When the risks are too high, trust takes a backseat generally .....

gm

I do recall a proverb about "You have the power to control yourself but not others"?

My opinion is as much as you want your love to remain with you forever,, we have to accept that love is free. To control it would either stifle it or delay its departure.

[sentsggirls]

time to go G land bro, relax and enjoy

[cubeslover]

Originally Posted by Asakura

seems like u dunno how to play the open relationship game

I know how the open relationship works. I know it's wrong for me to want out now when I'm the one who brought her into this. Now I'm wondering if I should take it in stride that she might be cuckolding me again.