why would people are like that? im confused

[ColdBlood99]

Originally Posted by sane

Dont remind me of uncle xx ....



I quit it by placing a pack on the table, staring at it, see whoever will win, my willpower or that pack of ciggy

Haha phobia already? Still in beginning stage leh

Originally Posted by sane

I see it as a character flaw.. he doesn't need to make lotsa $ or support me but at the very least, able to support himself.

You are simple gal hor lol

[sane]

Originally Posted by HCKing

yup if a guy cant even be accountable to himself n his own life what more to say for other ppl's life?

I wouldnt fall for such a guy , i dun mind if he doesn't earn much and we can take turns to treat but not when he is so bo chup about his life, it's very tiring when u see no future with him.

[PikachuDoraemon]

Originally Posted by HCKing

there r smokers who always say they will quit after their next last stick. but their last stick never seems to come.

Originally Posted by HCKing

sometimes it's not a matter of whether he can find a job or not it's the effort which needs to be there. some simply gives up after a few tries and choose to escape from reality.

Originally Posted by sane

I see it as a character flaw.. he doesn't need to make lotsa $ or support me but at the very least, able to support himself.

okay but what if gal is this way? how bro will feel over here?

[sane]

Originally Posted by ColdBlood99

Haha phobia already? Still in beginning stage leh

You are simple gal hor lol

Phobia about beginning stage about u r getting bizarre leh

I am simple but not stupid

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by sane

Thanks bro rickey, u r as kind as ever

Thanks, sis sane for ur compliments ! ..Appreciate loads !...but u're a nice sis too, for sharing ur experiences n helping to advise other bros/sis here wif such r/s problems ...Kudos to you ! ..Btw, sis, how come ur nick has a 1 added to it suddenly
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Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

Personally do you ppl prefer ur Partner to be sticky or not? Will you take all his/her time everytime like meeting 1 week for 7 days? Don't even have time or freedom?

My boyfriend is pretty sticky, always wanted to meet, which make me very tired of him. All he was playing game all day but never go out find job to work.

I did give him chances to change but seem like he is not bucking up.

Seems like either gender do not like their partners to be 'sticky'...yes, can understand how 'suffocated' TS or any1 in tat situation would feel if 1 hv to be wif a particular person 24/7...tats prolly how problems in many marriages 1st arise...tink tis proverb "familiarity breeds contempt" might sound a familiar bell...

But on the other hand, being sticky means tat u r loved, treasured n missed...but whether is it for good reasons or not remains to be seen or tested on a case to case basis...TS is really nice to giv her b/f many chances...but nowadays many families find it hard or a struggle to sustain on dual-income let alone single-income, given 2day's high inflation n high COL...As sis sane hv mentioned b4...1 must not depend on another monetary wise at least...so wat more if TS's b/f being still young, chooses not to look for work....wonder how life would be for a family like tat...my best wishes to TS ...

[ColdBlood99]

Originally Posted by sane

Phobia about beginning stage about u r getting bizarre leh

I am simple but not stupid

Haha don't bother about me, I'm getting sleepy, finally I can slp early tomorrow for my soccer.

Why nv see u in chat room anymore?

[sane]

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

okay but what if gal is this way? how bro will feel over here?

Other than lust, I realise what makes a gal seem appealing is her ability to lead a life of her own maintaining her mystique without appearing too needy.

[PikachuDoraemon]

Originally Posted by sane

Other than lust, I realise what makes a gal seem appealing is her ability to lead a life of her own maintaining her mystique without appearing too needy.

what you meant by that?

[sane]

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

what you meant by that?

A woman have to be independent, don't appear too needy, yet maintain her charisma and mystery feel to capture her man's heart

[RAMS75]

Originally Posted by sane

Other than

Yeah never see you in chatroom anymore ?Busy?

[PikachuDoraemon]

Originally Posted by sane

A woman have to be independent, don't appear too needy, yet maintain her charisma and mystery feel to capture her man's heart

but what if she is not independent but love to rely on bf?

im just curious lor, since my bf is rely on me, just wanted to know guy and girl view

[sane]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Thanks, sis sane for ur compliments ! ..Appreciate loads !...but u're a nice sis too, for sharing ur experiences n helping to advise other bros/sis here wif such r/s problems ...Kudos to you ! ..Btw, sis, how come ur nick has a 1 added to it suddenly
..

Bro, sane and sane1 is the same

A r/s is like flying a kite knowing the right time to hold and to let go in order to let your partner breath without getting suffocated.

2 person get together must be happy, that's the main priority. If feel miserable, I don't see the point of being together just for the sake of it.

Originally Posted by ColdBlood99

Haha don't bother about me, I'm getting sleepy, finally I can slp early tomorrow for my soccer.

Why nv see u in chat room anymore?

Never see familiar faces so never log in. How about u?

[sane]

Originally Posted by RAMS75

Yeah never see you in chatroom anymore ?Busy?

Never see u guys around so stay a while and zao liao

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

but what if she is not independent but love to rely on bf?

im just curious lor, since my bf is rely on me, just wanted to know guy and girl view

I believe with a partner like that, it will take a toll on anyone eventually, heading to nowhere.

[ColdBlood99]

Originally Posted by sane

Bro, sane and sane1 is the same

A r/s is like flying a kite knowing the right time to hold and to let go in order to let your partner breath without getting suffocated.

2 person get together must be happy, that's the main priority. If feel miserable, I don't see the point of being together just for the sake of it.



Never see familiar faces so never log in. How about u?

I got online mah but nv see you leh haha else can talk 心事 with u lol

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

okay but what if gal is this way? how bro will feel over here?

i got an ex gf like that when i was young. even when i was dating her never once i intended to go serious with her. play play can oredi la.