Sexless marriage

[Calebchua]

Well..men and women are wired differently. I agree that everyone has their own needs. Just like women need care and love in a marriage, men do value physical intimacy as well..to deny each party what they want for something that is normal in a marriage, its being selfish.

[Serenade]

Women give sex to a man, for love.
Men give love to a woman, for sex.

Win-win, if all goes well

[kether]

hi TS, i would advice u to seek professional help. mainly ppl why get married is bcos they cant hold the passion and wanna enjoy sex to the fullest.

many ppl may not agree with me, but i feel that the only way to enjoy sex to the fullest without any worries is with ur spouse.

if anything, please pm me, i believe i could be of some help in giving advice privately.

[parrotkid]

I agree that a sexless marriage is very difficult to maintain. I heard of many guys having sex with their wives only once in a few months and i wonder how they can sustain their marriage.

[lotsfits80]

Originally Posted by HCKing

marriage is not so much physical needs but emotional needs. its always good to knw that there's someone beside u who can understand and be supportive towards u. that's the good point of getting married. those who marry out of sex only will be in 4 a tougher time when the woman lost interest in sex or the sex has gotten boring as there r no longer any other compensating factors to hold on to the r/s.

I think most women do not understand that men satisfy their emotional needs by physical acts. This is why men like physical activities like sports whereas women satisfy their emotional needs by talking and reading romantic novels, etc.

Women love romantic talks to get aroused while men prefer more visual and physical such as striptease. Men need sex to satisfy their intimate needs, and this satisfaction can only come from sex with someone they feel attached with. Sex with other is just for the 'high', that's why many people like GFE feeling when fucking outside.

[Allanooi]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

I agree that a sexless marriage is very difficult to maintain. I heard of many guys having sex with their wives only once in a few months and i wonder how they can sustain their marriage.

Once a month ??? The Threadstarter had zero in 3 yrs since married ....

[parrotkid]

A shocking statistic i gathered from ict. Most men are not fucking their wives much. Maybe like once in half a yr. some even once in a few yrs. What the fuck is wrong?

[limdavid911]

brother, I believe your wife might having ECA outside just that you dun know that why she not giving you sex.

3 years is a long time, if you continue like this you will have cancer later on.....sex is a must fucking a woman is shiok and just think you thrushing her hard and making her begging you for more.......go and rape her and maybe she just it or put sleeping pills inside her drink to fuck her

[limdavid911]

I got a good friend also 4 years so sex liao....he always thinking of looking for FL to fuck he said his cock always very itches

[naan1974]

TS what does it mean 3 years once and not completed?
Is yr wife a virgin? Did you even penetrated into her?
Did she resist sex for the last 3 year because of painful experience
and loses interest in sex altogether? if so what she needs is a BIG ORGASM and she will be begging you every night

[BC88]

http://sbf.directory/showthr...light=wife+sex

see this long thread that has been around talking about this problem

[Fruggnuts]

TS,

You need to make her feel special again and by the looks of it her work is keeping her preoccupied so you need to take that away from her ! Temperary of cos !

Best would be a short 2-3 nights holiday let her shop and relax abit make sure she doesn't bring her work with her! Then okay dinner must set the atmostphere n mood cause apparently when u forced and jump on it you hit the off switch...

Well see how that goes for awhile don't give up on ur marriage too quickly!

Cheers !
All the best bro
James Duncan

[(o)(o) Tuner]

TS, seems like your problem is very serious. I can't believe it when you said 3 years without sex, did you? Ok anyway, I can see you have already spent a lot of effort to revive healthy sexual life with wife and it still didn't work quite well.

If that is the case, why not treat her with some Spanish fly and boost her sexual urge? If this works on her, I tell you in no time it's your turn to be the master.

[KobeBeef]

TS, you never had sex or petting before marrying your wife ?

[massage1001]

Marriage is not all about sex, but sex is still a very important component of any r/s regardless married or not... Spend some time talk to your wife