bf watch porn n diy

[glstunner]

Originally Posted by Ayakata

perhaps i just bad in bed then. not attractive to him. so he doesn't have the desire for me. sometime i really don't know. can be like 2-3 weeks, or even a month without doing anything although sleeping together. not even kissing, haha. is it true that together for too long, that's why?

He is getting bore with u...men always like 'fresh' things

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by Ayakata

perhaps i just bad in bed then. not attractive to him. so he doesn't have the desire for me. sometime i really don't know. can be like 2-3 weeks, or even a month without doing anything although sleeping together. not even kissing, haha. is it true that together for too long, that's why?

You try initiate laaa You go kiss him n cuddle him see how he reacts

[steelhorn]

Do you think is better you saw him DIY himself than seeing someone DIY for him?
TS, maybe is time to do some soul searching.

[Ayakata]

if initiate helps, i wont be here posting already. yup, perhaps soul searching

[513513]

IMHO

i do watch porn too, the reason is, there's something my gf will not comfortable to do while me making love. By watching porn, can fulfill the fantacy in man's mind.

[Edisonchan]

Its more of both parties looking for excitement in bed...... if everytime do the same routine and just finished off...... anybody will get bored and start looking for alternative.....

Men and women same, both wanted fun but reluctant to initial..... So pls look up on web, if not ask for help from ppl in sbf...... here do have a lot of Professor in Kamasutra if you need more info.....

[Blackenrose]

Originally Posted by Ayakata

if initiate helps, i wont be here posting already. yup, perhaps soul searching

To be frank, and just be prepared, sometimes it's because your guy might be seeing someone else already. But anyway, in the mean time try to spice up your relationship... Try going out with him more often, doll up a bit, and try to make him proud of you..

Guys sometimes get bored though.. just try out different things.. 1 of the best ways is to ”借酒行凶“, borrow the power of alcohol.. .

[Jiajiabebe]

Ya I myself don't understand why the bf has to hide here and there. Why har guys???

Actually i dont mind watching together with him and ... maybe even got happy ending for him.

[MIFAcafe]

Ask any man to choose.
1 chop off hand
2 divorce wife

Most will choose 2。we love our hands more than our wife. So ok to DIY.

[Summerhillt]

Originally Posted by fion.18

I would tell him there's no need to hide. If he really wants then watch tgt. Also no need to DIY what. Gfs/wives are there for a reason rite. Unless he really prefers to DIY himself.

Reminds me of my first gf.. jio me watch porn tgth and do the deed after that

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by Summerhillt

Reminds me of my first gf.. jio me watch porn tgth and do the deed after that

Happy ending mah

[demonhunter]

Originally Posted by Ayakata

perhaps i just bad in bed then. not attractive to him. so he doesn't have the desire for me. sometime i really don't know. can be like 2-3 weeks, or even a month without doing anything although sleeping together. not even kissing, haha. is it true that together for too long, that's why?

Just like being diagnosed with a serious illness , You should seek a second opinion on this matter .

meet me , and I can tell weather if you are really bad in bed or even finding you not attractive .

I might be able to teach you new tricks also ...

[big321big]

It's probably cos you are unable to give him what he needs. I think this is a common communication issue, rather than an 'attractiveness' issue. You guys need to start talking.

[TurningMeOn]

Originally Posted by Edisonchan

Its more of both parties looking for excitement in bed......

This is what i think as well

[nehnehhh]

Originally Posted by big321big

It's probably cos you are unable to give him what he needs. I think this is a common communication issue, rather than an 'attractiveness' issue. You guys need to start talking.

totally agree. Talk, just talk it out. this isn't something that can be "ok la nvm".
somewhere along the line in the future, if he gets tempted , he will go to the dark side if this continues.