Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I started this forum for Singaporeans to exchange information about commercial sex. It was NOT set up as a matchmaking and advice service for customers and their favourite prostitutes. If you start threads on this ridiculous subject, you should expect to receive negative feedback from those who are older and wiser than yourself.

We appreciate the presence of this forum and it is this forum that brought along the colourful aspects of commercial sex but then it brought matters and issues such as PM72’s. Then again, he is mature enough to know the path he is treading on and jolly well knows all the whiplash coming along. He is here to seek advice on getting visas, ROM not to debate if he had made his choice right.

Remember, without us, there is no need for the WLs, without them; there is no existence of this forum.

[Rof|maoxz]

Bro pussyman72 , I guess you have received my PM, although it doesn't help much. Since your thread has already attracted several knowledgable bros. You have already made a trip to MOM, did you give the officer her permit number to check? Yes, her pass is issued by Anti vice dept. but all permits are accounted by controller of MOM what. If MOM replied there's no information for her permit status, then they stand neutral for her marriage. ICA also can't commit to you on your marriage because they are the visa issuing authority.

I guess the main pain-in-the neck issue is to clear her SVP/LTSVP. Marriage shouldn't be a problem liao. I guess, in the end, at most ICA will grant her, like in the past, a one month social visa and she has to return back to her country for another few months. From there you will need to re-apply her social visa thru repeated application and MP visits.

[Malaysian Datuk]

Bro I share with you my experience......maybe some already mentioned by the bros here but I relate to you anyways....

Almost 10 years ago I decided to marry my cat40 tirak. After 1 and half years of her 2 years contract, we decided she go back to Thailand. She was told by AV she can never ever return to Singapore. She went back and returned with another passport (actually it's her sister's). We ROM and went thru the usual hassle of the monthly visit passes application. Later she got the long term pass when my son was born. Many times she was 'invited' to apply for PR but that wont do because once she does, she will be fingerprinted and the game will be up coz AV got her fingerprints record. So sometimes she got to stay away in Thailand for some months. This is best way because from what I know, ex licenced WL cannot marry Singaporeans and stay here. (correct me if I am wrong). The GL okts which you see with ex WL wives all probably do the same trick. It's not perfect situation but this is best way in my view.

Also ask yourself bro why you want to marry her the 'proper' way? PR/citizenship? HDB flat? Most Thais I know wont want to give up their thai citizenship anyway. And like SC mentioned HDB can go thru 'loophole' when ur 35.....do it this way, I can still 'enjoy' everything...I got the marriage cert to show our union, my son can still be Singaporean, she can stay in Singapore long term, This is best of the worst situation to be in

[pussyman72]

Hi Rof|maoxz, oceaneleven & malaysian datuk

Thanks for the advice and understanding me what im going thru.

I will be going down to mom this time to ask them to check, as for her permit no. she cannot remember but mom said they can check her passport no. name and birth date.

as for getting house i dont really need her to be PR so long she able to get long term visit pass it good enough. im able to buy my own house myself. just wants her to be with me here and start a family.

i just wanna make sure everything is clear from her side before we register and then apply for long term visit pass, i dont want her to get into trouble for nothing. PR i dare not to hope for. maybe after a few more yrs i will give it a try but for now a visit pass will be good enough.

[pussyman72]

to those that who raise your view about marrying a whore.

just a liitle info about me. i no stranger in WL and FL and i have seen bad n good relationship with this gers. yes they have been in this line so what is the problem if u think the are bunch of whore why still call them for sex when u think about STD AIDS or VD... even u use a cap does it mean u wont catch it....

also without this whore are u able to do your business selling sex videos.....

everyone has a past, everyone has a path to choose whether it bad or good the person have to face it if he have choose to go that path.

To Sam, if im using my dickhead to think i will not go thru the trouble to do so much things. im well aware of this gers capable of doing and im not a brainless person who do not know what this girls are thinking. i can said that i have seen how girls bluff guys money and then fook off. im no stranger in ur forum if u recall who im previously.

If i just wanna have my little bro to enjoy little hole i could have just base the girl there n screw her whenever i go up. i have done that many times not just thailand even in singapore i do that too.

I do not wish to said more only bros who have known me well enough will know what kind of person im.

i appreciate your advice but everyone has a path to go whether is a successful one or a failed one, the person just had to bear it. im not a cry baby coming to the forum n let everyone know i got ditch.....

i share my views and experience to other bros who is involve in this kind of relationships. I dont go insulting their girls cos i understand them very well. some pple just need a lending hand to listen out their problem or maybe giving them some advice. that is what forum are for.

To the bros who wants to talk on this. maybe u can come to this sawadee forum. it use to be very active but it been dead for awhile maybe bros who wants to talk there can maybe post your question or share info over here.

http://p082.ezboard.com/bsawadee85516

[_AXL_]

bro pussyman,

not going to talk about moral or ethical issues with u. obviously, u have given your thought on the matter. however, there r some things u need to know.

my ex-gf's mum was a GL WL donkey years ago with a work permit. got to know her husband, who was married at that time, stopped working when she got pregnant by him, which is still ver debatable cos his daughter looked nothing like him. gave birth to her in jb, came over with the daughter to stay until he got divorced several years after. when my ex parents tried to get married in sg, they were told that she is not allowed to get married. forget about pr status, putting her name in hdb flat or a six-mth visa. she needs to get her passport chopped every 2 weeks. so no choice, the WL forced the husband to get married in jb so that she and the daughter can have a legitimate claim on his fortune when he dies. end up the husband stays in jb after he retired cos he only needs to chop the passport monthly.

an ex-colleague of mine also got to know an ex-WL a few years back, gave up his well-paying job, got disowned by his family. now they r living in KL and got married there. Not allowed to get married in SG, and not allowed to get another work permit in SG after the girl has taken a WL permit. she was asked to sign a declaration which is unfair and does not make any sense. the government might have some reason for it, but as usual we do not need to know about it.

however, my ex-colleague seems to be doing well in KL and they recently had a baby daughter, unlike my ex and her mum who r only interested in grabbing as much $ as possible. too bad for the sucker that they didnt have DNA testing then.

think whether it works or not depends on the couple, the reasons for being together. love will keep us alive or no money, no honey.

by the way, sammy, nice forum but your comments are clearly out of line. dont remember u posting such antagonising views a few years back. if u were just using some other nick, i would have blamed it on the school holidays. just my worthless thoughts.

[Happywheel]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

Hi Rof|maoxz, oceaneleven & malaysian datuk

Thanks for the advice and understanding me what im going thru.

I will be going down to mom this time to ask them to check, as for her permit no. she cannot remember but mom said they can check her passport no. name and birth date.

as for getting house i dont really need her to be PR so long she able to get long term visit pass it good enough. im able to buy my own house myself. just wants her to be with me here and start a family.

i just wanna make sure everything is clear from her side before we register and then apply for long term visit pass, i dont want her to get into trouble for nothing. PR i dare not to hope for. maybe after a few more yrs i will give it a try but for now a visit pass will be good enough.

Bro maddog

wish you all the best...hopefully heaven is kind to you for this time.
You are fated to be with a TG.

cheers

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Happywheel

Bro maddog

wish you all the best...hopefully heaven is kind to you for this time.
You are fated to be with a TG.

cheers

yo thanks bro, bro what ur real nick previously. u know my old nick too >.< lol

It really happy to see all the old bros here. it been awhile ever since i cut down in cave digging

glad to see the old and new bros who give their support and advice to me. i feel much better now. now i just need to do things one step @ a time.

yes bro i do hope this time i will be successful, there is always a risk but im willing to give it a try again. i love TL and i will always do, nothing can do away this feeling i have for TL and TG.

I have even think for the worst even she cannot come to singapore. she have agree to get married with me in TL n ROM there so will be doing the translation in a couple of months after i find out more about this.

I have a friend going to help me check with his friend who maybe able to link up with ICA . so hopefully he can help me to get some info.

Now a days pple call me KT leow lol KT = Khonthai

Cheers n take care mate

[oldcar]

Hi Pussyman

There are few things you really need to clear up.

1. You really need to talk to you girl to find out all the facts clearly...I mean facts and not just she say and think.. to why there a problem for her to come Singapore and what wrong when she was here.
2. When all fact clear and you still want her and still cannot get her to Singapore..consider set her up in JB. It only take 3-4K Rm per year to get a maid visa in Malaysia..I had keep mine there for 3 year before. But you have to be sure you two don't have kid, as this make thing problematic for you and the kid. I know, because of this, I give up PR status and bring mine gers and kid back to HK.
3. You don't need to care other bros say or think, especially in SB, but you have to be really sure that you really love her and that same for her.

[pussyman72]

yo thanks bro oldcar

i appreciate your advice. i have actually told my girl to tell me the truth and also try to remember what was being told to her when she left singapore.

cos if not i will have more problem.

If worst case comes, there is high chance i moving up but i hope not cos i need to find something to do that else i cant live there @ all.

if my girl really love me i will give up here but only time will tell. I will only decide that later.

I will still try all way to get her for the good for both of us.

As for others, i dont really care just that i dont like pple insulting my girl, insult me but not her.

cheers bud

[Mr.romance]

Originally Posted by xilverzap

Great! Thanks BOSS... my english not so good lah. A lot of all these silly mistakes..

Kao jai ok leow na.. Think forum is like tat one lah... Got good advice, got bad advice, and perfect english writers and those non so perfect ones, some also singlish...

Sorry if too many mistakes... and this little interuption.

Xilver

Forum is after all watever people feel like typing which could end up negative or positive & eventually arguments & flaming....To me its like a football match...when the Scoreline is 3-0, some people say the winner is just "Heng"....Some will say the winner will never make mistake to lose...Some will even say "Kelong" lah...it will go on & On...

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

If worst case comes, there is high chance i moving up but i hope not cos i need to find something to do that else i cant live there @ all.
cheers bud

This is the main issue in BKK, either you know the language and culture and start a small business or come loaded with surplus to splash. Else looking for a job there is as good as digging your own grave. Still pondering over this.

[sakurada]

Pussyman72,

I'm sure u r old enough to make yr own decisions, especially on a super big thing such as marriage. Although WL are humans too, it is usually much harder for most people to accept one as wife, especially a GL WL, where numerous (7 to 11 per day x estimated 200 days = 1,400 to 2,200 !!!) men have done her before. Good luck to your imminent marriage. Focus on the big issues. The PR or residence thingy is just a irritation (go and ask yr PAP MP to solve the problem or else threaten to vote for WP but pls vote WP in any case).

Sad to say, I'm also "hook" on to one WL myself although marriage is never in my mind. I dun mind having kids with her but not marriage. Sammyboy may say I'm a loser in love but wat to do? The same logic as to why some incapable people holds big paying jobs while some intelligent and qualified people drive taxis or hold temp jobs.

[peterfish]

I know of a such sad fuck who is currently waiting for his CAT40 tirak to finish her tour of duty so that he could marry her. Everyday he lives in pain when he knows his gal can't answer his call cos must be serving customers. "mouth full-can't talk". He tried to discourage ppls from trying her some more!

Why go through such things?

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

to those that who raise your view about marrying a whore.

just a liitle info about me. i no stranger in WL and FL and i have seen bad n good relationship with this gers. yes they have been in this line so what is the problem if u think the are bunch of whore why still call them for sex when u think about STD AIDS or VD... even u use a cap does it mean u wont catch it....

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kio kway and marrying a kway is different.