Now single 30+ year old and all I need is paid sex. Are you same as me?

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by jnudes

And so far I discovered that regular exercise does indeed help me to keep fit and healthy. I do not go to gym but daily walk at a local park. Another thing I discovered it also help to reduce my stress level from high to normal without taking any medications.

Don't believe me? Try it by yourself and see the result after 30 days. Try to walk for 30 mins daily. That should be enough. If walk longer say 1 hour or more daily can cause leg and joint pain in the long term. Not recommended. Adjust and be flexible with your own time. Also always eat lots of fresh fruits and vegetables with minimum meat intake daily. This surely can help you achieve a standard BMI with a healthy body.

i also enjoy walking a lot...till then extent of going overseas like HK, i also end up walking most of the time.
so far my BMI haven't decrease so been wondering should i go back to swimming and jogging instead ?

[johnl]

Walking helps to reduce or maintain weight. It also increases serotonin.

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by arsenal_84

i also enjoy walking a lot...till then extent of going overseas like HK, i also end up walking most of the time.
so far my BMI haven't decrease so been wondering should i go back to swimming and jogging instead ?

Hmmm....I think this must be related to the daily food or drink that you take each day, every meal, etc. Do you go for supper daily? I only take 3 meals daily no supper and every meal I take is only 70% full. I had seen regular walker like me who are senior citizen but their belly fat never decreases. Still the same person with same weight. It's either to do with the food they eat or something to do with their genes, perhaps? Another reason is if you are born with large bones in your body which is impossible to reduce your weight.

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by jnudes

Hmmm....I think this must be related to the daily food or drink that you take each day, every meal, etc. Do you go for supper daily? I only take 3 meals daily no supper and every meal I take is only 70% full. I had seen regular walker like me who are senior citizen but their belly fat never decreases. Still the same person with same weight. It's either to do with the food they eat or something to do with their genes, perhaps? Another reason is if you are born with large bones in your body which is impossible to reduce your weight.

have no habit of eating supper but will tend to eat a full meal either during lunch or dinner.

food wise also cutting down on red meat as well as i sort of like mutton in the past, one intake per week.
not born with big bones also.

bmi 24 so need to train back to the healthy range of 23 and below or maybe lose some weight in the process.

[AADD]

im pretty close...

i am single and earning enough to have my own personal-paid fuck buddy.

but my parents are stressing me to get married...which they will do their best to introduce me to this that girl etc...

and my friends all slowly getting married....

its confidence issue on my side i feel that i can't be bothered doing the chase..

[Driftwood]

Originally Posted by AADD

im pretty close...

i am single and earning enough to have my own personal-paid fuck buddy.

but my parents are stressing me to get married...which they will do their best to introduce me to this that girl etc...

and my friends all slowly getting married....

its confidence issue on my side i feel that i can't be bothered doing the chase..

Have you tried going out with these girls whom your parents introduced? Maybe you could give it a shot. I wish I had these opportunities.

Enjoy this moment while it lasts bro. When we enter the next decade into our 40s, I'm pretty certain people won't be that bothered, concerned about us singletons anymore. It seems more likely than not that they would assign the lonely-hood status to us.

Btw, if you can have a paid FB, I think you should be fine. Anyone could have a confidence issue. I guess you just need something or someone to give you that back.

[cocky1234]

i have a gf, but gf not a sex type girl

so... i still look for FL, i just have unprotected RAW sex with a FL. now think back i feel worried.. not sure she clean or not. gonna remember this date and on 15 Feb 2016 will go for anonymous HIV test just for a peace of mind.. bastard me

[Boinkboinkboink]

Originally Posted by cocky1234

.. bastard me

Can't say that enough, bro.

[SgBoy86]

Was bored today so came into SBF to do some light reading, happened to chance upon this post in which I can resonate alot from what the brothers have shared here.

I started cheonging when I was 17 till now(late 20s), a decade of paid sex had taught me alot of things in life. Nowadays i still go for paid sex but its not that frequent as when I was younger, the scenes are the same, the acts are also the same, just fresh faces.
Guess I was addicted, I burnt alot of cash and eventually I'm still single.

For one paid sex does gives us instant gratification, easily accessible, hassle free. But at the end of the day when we leave the vicinity, a little "void" occupies my heart. I felt empty every single time and asked myself what have I actually done all these years. I do have a few r/s in between these 10+ years but fate is cruel and I'm left single again, I do want to get into a r/s because I like the feeling of someone being there for you at the end of the day. But ultimately I feel that being single is still more suitable for me for now due to my hectic work schedule, forcing me to be unable to have a normal social life.

There is nothing wrong with paid sex, its just a transaction at the end of the day. So what I can share to all my fellow bros here is to embrace solitude while we're single and enjoy life as it is, if there really comes a day where I meet my special one. I will move on with her, but for now. I intend to just live my life and travel more, there is more to life than just love.

My 2 cents.

[fictore]

in my 40s and same as people in their 30s .... LOL.....