31f in search of a m make out buddy

[rzarektor]

Criteria for make out buddy:
MY RESPONSE! (:

• Aged between 28-38 - pass with flying colours
• Chinese or mixed-race with Chinese blood male (I'm not racist, just have a preference when it comes to things like this) - got chinese blood but not chinese, so success!
• Preferably 1.72m or above - i 1.70m..sometimes shrink 1.69m..but definitely taller than you, sooo i pass?
• Slightly built, lean or pudgy (as long as not too muscular, too skinny or plump) - i am athletically lean
• Average or above average looking - definitely
• Preferably English-speaking and must be eloquent - i speak English 80% of the time
• Must be presentable (e.g. takes basic care in appearance, possesses basic table manners) - most definitely..and im putting on invisalign so that i can have the perfect smile for u!
• Must understand the importance of RESPECT, EMPATHY, MUTUAL BENEFIT and HONESTY in such arrangements - agreed and it's what i practise!

Email me pls!
[email protected]

(:

[TheGreatOne]

Wow so many criterias to meet...

Cannot imagine the level of awkwardness in the air if it is the choosen bro who decided to make a run for the nearest exit upon meeting the ts.

Malu to the max, baby!

[autumnbreeze7]

Originally Posted by TheGreatOne

Wow so many criterias to meet...

Cannot imagine the level of awkwardness in the air if it is the choosen bro who decided to make a run for the nearest exit upon meeting the ts.

Malu to the max, baby!

If you do read carefully, not everything listed in my list makes a 'criterion', some points are just descriptions of how I would like the arrangement to be (e.g. no sex and basic things like being treated with respect, empathy and honest, which I know some guys lack).

Also, most of the criteria isn't even demanding, did I say things like I'm only looking for someone who is good-looking and would be able to drive me around or pay for my expenses? In fact, I even stated I'm ok with someone thin or pudgy, just not skinny or plump. I'm just listing a few preferences I have for age, looks and disposition cos I'm not just looking for a piece of meat to fuck like many of the guys here, I'm looking for someone who's able to converse, is willing to hang out and I'll be attracted enough to Wanna get kinda physically intimate with.

If you guys think I have too many criteria and I'm being demanding then you guys probably don't know the meaning of the word 'criteria' or probably have really low standards or it could the combustion of the two.

And I know I'm not a head turner and my forthcoming-ness and non-no sense attitude may not be every guy's cup of tea but I've enough confidence in myself that no or few guys would wanna make a quick dash for the exit when they see me.

And for those whom I've shortlisted and contacted, I have been telling all of them the first meetup will be for both parties to assess if they are sufficiently attracted to the other party physically and mentally to wanna proceed with the arrangement. I'm totally comfortable with turning down guys and guys turning me down. So please 😒 Stop insinuating that I think too highly of myself and am being demanding.

[autumnbreeze7]

Everyone,

[SIZE="6"]I've received overwhelming response to my proposal and have also seen some disappointing comments and messages. Hence, I'm going to close this thread for good.[/SIZE] It's starting to seem like it could be a mistake to post in this forum with some of the responses that I've been getting. Please do not send in anymore "applications".

Is there a way for me to delete this thread since the search is now closed for good?

[BlackBirdFly]

Originally Posted by autumnbreeze7

Everyone,

[SIZE="6"]I've received overwhelming response to my proposal and have also seen some disappointing comments and messages. Hence, I'm going to close this thread for good.[/SIZE] It's starting to seem like it could be a mistake to post in this forum with some of the responses that I've been getting. Please do not send in anymore "applications".

Is there a way for me to delete this thread since the search is now closed for good?

Hi there,

I've been reading your thread for quite a bit. I didn't get to send in an application thou.

This is the way the people here act. As much as they think you are thinking highly of yourself, they didn't realise the point that they are the ones doing so, being judgmental.

Best way to let this move on is to not reply to this thread and will just die down eventually. (:

[jazp]

Originally Posted by autumnbreeze7

Everyone,

[SIZE="6"]I've received overwhelming response to my proposal and have also seen some disappointing comments and messages. Hence, I'm going to close this thread for good.[/SIZE] It's starting to seem like it could be a mistake to post in this forum with some of the responses that I've been getting. Please do not send in anymore "applications".

Is there a way for me to delete this thread since the search is now closed for good?

You can ask the moderator to close it or just leave it alone so it can die down on its own eventually. Change a new account if you still want to use this forum with no one sending you new applications. A fresh new start.

[jazp]

Originally Posted by autumnbreeze7

If you do read carefully, not everything listed in my list makes a 'criterion', some points are just descriptions of how I would like the arrangement to be (e.g. no sex and basic things like being treated with respect, empathy and honest, which I know some guys lack).

Also, most of the criteria isn't even demanding, did I say things like I'm only looking for someone who is good-looking and would be able to drive me around or pay for my expenses? In fact, I even stated I'm ok with someone thin or pudgy, just not skinny or plump. I'm just listing a few preferences I have for age, looks and disposition cos I'm not just looking for a piece of meat to fuck like many of the guys here, I'm looking for someone who's able to converse, is willing to hang out and I'll be attracted enough to Wanna get kinda physically intimate with.

If you guys think I have too many criteria and I'm being demanding then you guys probably don't know the meaning of the word 'criteria' or probably have really low standards or it could the combustion of the two.

And I know I'm not a head turner and my forthcoming-ness and non-no sense attitude may not be every guy's cup of tea but I've enough confidence in myself that no or few guys would wanna make a quick dash for the exit when they see me.

And for those whom I've shortlisted and contacted, I have been telling all of them the first meetup will be for both parties to assess if they are sufficiently attracted to the other party physically and mentally to wanna proceed with the arrangement. I'm totally comfortable with turning down guys and guys turning me down. So please �� Stop insinuating that I think too highly of myself and am being demanding.

Personally i don't think you're demanding. You just know what you want and its perfectly fine. Life is a game of acceptance and rejections. It's a supply and demand curve no matter where you look at even in the animal kingdom as well. This forum has got much more m than f so its no surprise you get such overwhelming responses, both good and bad ones.

Honestly speaking, its pretty hard to filter your options with just text alone. Meetup is the best option and of course I understand you can't meet just anyone and everyone. Some may just end up to be time wasters. I can't see any other option better than simply meeting up and chatting though.

My one single reason going this route is cos I don't wish to get married so i dont go for girls on the normal route of eventually wanting to get married. I don't want to burn their youthful period but I have my needs too thus I applied to you. Take me for example. I can promise you that chatting with me can be interesting and exciting that there will never be one dull session as long as you're with me but you can't take my word for it. Thus, the meetup which I'm sure you know just that there're too many.

You've been searching for a year right? I myself have been searching for as long as you. Don't give up. You'll eventually find the person you want and hopefully its me. Haha.

[fakestar45]

hope i would be able to sign up for this... it seems reasonable on the requirement actually..

[TheGreatOne]

Supposed there aren't gonna be any guys insensitive enough to literally dash for the nearest exit upon meeting his date, supposed it is a blind date for that matter.

So I was just saying, if you got what I mean.

Don't get too serious, ya?

Happy dating!

Originally Posted by autumnbreeze7

If you do read carefully, not everything listed in my list makes a 'criterion', some points are just descriptions of how I would like the arrangement to be (e.g. no sex and basic things like being treated with respect, empathy and honest, which I know some guys lack).

Also, most of the criteria isn't even demanding, did I say things like I'm only looking for someone who is good-looking and would be able to drive me around or pay for my expenses? In fact, I even stated I'm ok with someone thin or pudgy, just not skinny or plump. I'm just listing a few preferences I have for age, looks and disposition cos I'm not just looking for a piece of meat to fuck like many of the guys here, I'm looking for someone who's able to converse, is willing to hang out and I'll be attracted enough to Wanna get kinda physically intimate with.

If you guys think I have too many criteria and I'm being demanding then you guys probably don't know the meaning of the word 'criteria' or probably have really low standards or it could the combustion of the two.

And I know I'm not a head turner and my forthcoming-ness and non-no sense attitude may not be every guy's cup of tea but I've enough confidence in myself that no or few guys would wanna make a quick dash for the exit when they see me.

And for those whom I've shortlisted and contacted, I have been telling all of them the first meetup will be for both parties to assess if they are sufficiently attracted to the other party physically and mentally to wanna proceed with the arrangement. I'm totally comfortable with turning down guys and guys turning me down. So please 😒 Stop insinuating that I think too highly of myself and am being demanding.

[ExBros]

Hi TS...

Don't worry about the naysayers and people who just like to tcss... I do that my self too!!

But I'm generally supportive of folks like urself willing and daring to step out of ur comfort zone to ask for what u need n want...

I've been searching for many times longer (sexless for 6 if u really like to know, and ED for 3) than you before I Found something/one that is close to ideal and after 3+ glorious years it was over. (Long story and see if I live another day to tell)

So guys, no need to feel jealous of my occasional luck and rare streaks of success in dating a SYT for breakfast in the morning, a chiobu for lunch and a slim MILF for hitea (haven't had such luck for n a long time too)..

Until u pay ur dues in being celibate for 6yrs (thru no choice of yours...) And $,000s literally to upgrade skills to attract them to come... Dun b! Ur turn will come!

TS. Since u already started the ball rolling.. Why dun u cont, filter what u like and ignore or delete what u dun and wishing u all the best in hopes of finding ur ideal. At least u didn't get zapped till thy kingdom come like me...

[nameltneg]

Ts
just be yourself and find what's happier for yourself.
ignore the negatives and embrace the positives to the max.
for me I'm still searching for the one lady whom I could really chat with comfortably btw.

[tiffanytan]

Some guys in real life also try to get into your pants..
Finding a companion online is perfectly fine..
autumnbreeze7 is brave enough to do that, maybe I shall consider that too.. haha!!

[restlessDD]

Definitely agree with you bro...
I've had some good ones but the last one just put me off totally.. lost faith in girls for a while..

Originally Posted by ExBros

Hi TS...

Don't worry about the naysayers and people who just like to tcss... I do that my self too!!

But I'm generally supportive of folks like urself willing and daring to step out of ur comfort zone to ask for what u need n want...

I've been searching for many times longer (sexless for 6 if u really like to know, and ED for 3) than you before I Found something/one that is close to ideal and after 3+ glorious years it was over. (Long story and see if I live another day to tell)

So guys, no need to feel jealous of my occasional luck and rare streaks of success in dating a SYT for breakfast in the morning, a chiobu for lunch and a slim MILF for hitea (haven't had such luck for n a long time too)..

Until u pay ur dues in being celibate for 6yrs (thru no choice of yours...) And $,000s literally to upgrade skills to attract them to come... Dun b! Ur turn will come!

TS. Since u already started the ball rolling.. Why dun u cont, filter what u like and ignore or delete what u dun and wishing u all the best in hopes of finding ur ideal. At least u didn't get zapped till thy kingdom come like me...

[autumnbreeze7]

Originally Posted by jazp

Personally i don't think you're demanding. You just know what you want and its perfectly fine. Life is a game of acceptance and rejections. It's a supply and demand curve no matter where you look at even in the animal kingdom as well. This forum has got much more m than f so its no surprise you get such overwhelming responses, both good and bad ones.

Honestly speaking, its pretty hard to filter your options with just text alone. Meetup is the best option and of course I understand you can't meet just anyone and everyone. Some may just end up to be time wasters. I can't see any other option better than simply meeting up and chatting though.

My one single reason going this route is cos I don't wish to get married so i dont go for girls on the normal route of eventually wanting to get married. I don't want to burn their youthful period but I have my needs too thus I applied to you. Take me for example. I can promise you that chatting with me can be interesting and exciting that there will never be one dull session as long as you're with me but you can't take my word for it. Thus, the meetup which I'm sure you know just that there're too many.

You've been searching for a year right? I myself have been searching for as long as you. Don't give up. You'll eventually find the person you want and hopefully its me. Haha.

Hey Jasp,

Understand and agree that it's better to filter my options after meeting up and chats rather than just based on messages alone. However, you can straight away tell some people will be time wasters just based on their messages alone. And for those who sound like they would be highly suitable candidates through their messages, I can't meet or chat with ALL of them cos that would be unrealistic so naturally I can only shortlist a few to engage more with before I decide on whom I should proceed with the arrangement finally.

I've been meaning to reply to you but a moderated account meant I could only reply to messages and posts every 5 minutes or so. It got really tedious. And I haven't had the chance to reply the last 2 days. Anyways, I've also just pm-ed you. And it seems like the ID you've given me is not showing up under my search.

Yeap, I've been searching for about a year plus, moving on from one arrangement to another because it almost won't work out (for long). I feel like I should give up soon cos I've started to lose faith in men for a while already but the desire to have my need for companionship with a guy whom I can click with and be comfortable with and for limited physical intimacy is still there. I won't go into the details here. Also, local men tend not to be attracted to my thoughts and personality, those who are, for various reasons, we don't work out. This is my last search, I think. Seriously quite tired of a lot of the nonsense I've been dished.

[infinitiumus]

Originally Posted by autumnbreeze7

Hey Jasp,

Understand and agree that it's better to filter my options after meeting up and chats rather than just based on messages alone. However, you can straight away tell some people will be time wasters just based on their messages alone. And for those who sound like they would be highly suitable candidates through their messages, I can't meet or chat with ALL of them cos that would be unrealistic so naturally I can only shortlist a few to engage more with before I decide on whom I should proceed with the arrangement finally.

I've been meaning to reply to you but a moderated account meant I could only reply to messages and posts every 5 minutes or so. It got really tedious. And I haven't had the chance to reply the last 2 days. Anyways, I've also just pm-ed you. And it seems like the ID you've given me is not showing up under my search.

Yeap, I've been searching for about a year plus, moving on from one arrangement to another because it almost won't work out (for long). I feel like I should give up soon cos I've started to lose faith in men for a while already but the desire to have my need for companionship with a guy whom I can click with and be comfortable with and for limited physical intimacy is still there. I won't go into the details here. Also, local men tend not to be attracted to my thoughts and personality, those who are, for various reasons, we don't work out. This is my last search, I think. Seriously quite tired of a lot of the nonsense I've been dished.

When you are in moderation the best is to communicate via email or wechat and such.
It is much less frustrating.

Those that can respond appropriately via email then yyou move them to wechat. Then those you comfortable chatting can proceed to meet.

finding someone that can click is tough. It takes patience and at times luck.

good luck. I just passing by and kpo a bit.