Advice on GF needed

[Slaveatwork]

Appreciate all bros here taking the time to reply, especially those who share their personal experiences. Also some very hilarious comments which made me laugh. So thank you for making the effort to reply.

I firmly believe a healthy and happy sex life is key to a relationship. It's just the way I am. I'm an extremely visual creature and nice boobs are key for me. It works differently for others: some bros just care about their partners looks, some care about frequency or willingness to experiment. Some girls don't give Bjs and that's a deal breaker but others don't care etc etc. The point is the body wants what the body wants.

I thank you all for leaving me with something to ponder. At least I know there are bros out there who share my experience

[stoked]

Originally Posted by Slaveatwork

Appreciate all bros here taking the time to reply, especially those who share their personal experiences. Also some very hilarious comments which made me laugh. So thank you for making the effort to reply.

I firmly believe a healthy and happy sex life is key to a relationship. It's just the way I am. I'm an extremely visual creature and nice boobs are key for me. It works differently for others: some bros just care about their partners looks, some care about frequency or willingness to experiment. Some girls don't give Bjs and that's a deal breaker but others don't care etc etc. The point is the body wants what the body wants.

I thank you all for leaving me with something to ponder. At least I know there are bros out there who share my experience

Bro TS, you told her about it? One of my former FBs recently texted me asking about her boobs. She said her current bf complain it's tiny. Unlikely to be same person but you never know. I told her god is fair. She's great person with good skills in bed so if she has nice boobs then god isn't fair liao.

[larue]

The sanctimony in this this thread makes me want to vomit.

I was once at an event, some sort of guys' event that went on for hours. Guy was there with his girlfriend, who stayed there the whole time even when clearly bored to death, possibly because she thought she wanted to support him or make a show of being there for him.

One day she will hate him for the fact that she put up with that shit, even though she made a conscious choice to do so in the first place. Such is human nature.

[computerGuy]

TS, of course keep her la.
You can pay for big boobs outside(FL or 1 night stand), but a lady who is well-reserved and keep to herself(and only her man) is hard to find..

[heartlock]

Personality nice is more Important than boob. Everyone not perfect.pls treasure your gf n wife because it very fortunate to
Able to have someone you love.
If you really mind her boob, then I dun think you really love her. U lucky your gf not dinosaur

[joncheong]

Originally Posted by ironmaiden2015

Many men will pay for what you have now..

Anyway, I have fetish for small boobs girls.. so dont mind me..

P.S. how do you feel when she writes on another forum complaining that your cock is small?

that's a good one...

[kepodang]

TS.. I am all for personality and character. But you got to ask yourself this: if 6mths in the relationship you have already thoughts of 'the grass is greener on the other side', then i think you should take a step back and relook at your priorities.

Love is blind and fools rush in. And we are suckers for boobies.

Make the right choice.

[sarahxx]

a lot has been said about how personality weighs more than looks, and im sure you know that very well yourself.. so im not gona try to convince you to think that way.

my take on this is whatever floats your boat. you've said it yourself, nice boobs are key to your relationship, if its gona affect you that much visually, sexually, ultimately it's gona affect your happiness and satisfaction in this relationship. i don't see a point being with a partner and still yearn for greener grass on the other side, or asking her to go for implants like what some have advised. as a woman myself, its not fair and it can be quite hurtful.

i think you need to ask yourself if you love her enough and willing to accept her entirety. if you're not able to and its affecting you that much, you probably should reconsider this relationship. bcos the temptation to cheat when you meet another that is able to satisfy that void is gona be high.

funny how men always expect women to be perfect. great boobs, great body, great personality, great sex. but really, we're also human w flaws.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by sarahxx

a lot has been said about how personality weighs more than looks, and im sure you know that very well yourself.. so im not gona try to convince you to think that way.

my take on this is whatever floats your boat. you've said it yourself, nice boobs are key to your relationship, if its gona affect you that much visually, sexually, ultimately it's gona affect your happiness and satisfaction in this relationship. i don't see a point being with a partner and still yearn for greener grass on the other side, or asking her to go for implants like what some have advised. as a woman myself, its not fair and it can be quite hurtful.

i think you need to ask yourself if you love her enough and willing to accept her entirety. if you're not able to and its affecting you that much, you probably should reconsider this relationship. bcos the temptation to cheat when you meet another that is able to satisfy that void is gona be high.

funny how men always expect women to be perfect. great boobs, great body, great personality, great sex. but really, we're also human w flaws.

Not only is the temptation to cheat high, it will most likely happen !...Very well said by sis sarahxx ! ...thanks for yr input sis... empathize wif TS...tink it's really a tough decision for him to make...nothing in tis world is 100% ...we may win some, but we may oso lose many in the process...in real life, we do not get wat we really want most of the time, it's usually 2nd best at most & many of us are left devoid, unfulfilled & hunger for more at the end of the day...there are many trade offs we hv to make...take tat which is most impt to you & live wif it...even if you're not happy about it....though must say tis is something most of us find it difficult to do...my 2 cents worth

[bonbong88]

This post makes me feel like TS is so superficial. Looks is not everything, what's more important is the lady willing to go through hardship with you and anything.

[Continental]

Originally Posted by unsung80

Bro you should be doing self reflection instead of missing her body. Body is just an empty shell.

Yes, think TS should. But even if the body is an empty shell, it is still important as it is a source of much sexual pleasure and satisfaction for many of us when it is being used alive something which we all enjoy a lot at one time or another with each other. Think none of us can deny that i am sure Sad that TS is faced with a such a big dilemma

[LonerLoner]

Don't understand TS. You had an ex with big boobs and can imagine it goes up down left right, go see porn with big boobs DIY and be happy already.

Better than having current small boob gf as first and never get to try/see other things.

Like some bro said here, make her gain weight or get her pregnant. Boob size upsized.