[Dating Advise Needed]Online-Offline Process & Procedure

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by hanysoh

That's some good advises.

As a matter of fact and it is real, most lady don't like to have fat man for a start especially if that is her first man.

That why have a house liao, then go buy wife. So much way higher chance than in my 20s. That why a lot 'sugarbabe' also target man in their 30-40s cause already have house , sure got 'spare money' to spent on them mah.

[iluvbreast]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

That why have a house liao, then go buy wife. So much way higher chance than in my 20s. That why a lot 'sugarbabe' also target man in their 30-40s cause already have house , sure got 'spare money' to spent on them mah.

I agree with you on the flat part, be it Maslow's hierarchy of needs or the Chinese thinking of 衣食住行...to have your own roof is basic otherwise even after you 'buy' your wife it will be a difficult marriage life for you.

The 'sugarbabe' part though is wrong, they don't really care as long as you spend money on them; it is fine, house no house they don't bother.

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by iluvbreast

I agree with you on the flat part, be it Maslow's hierarchy of needs or the Chinese thinking of 衣食住行...to have your own roof is basic otherwise even after you 'buy' your wife it will be a difficult marriage life for you.

The 'sugarbabe' part though is wrong, they don't really care as long as you spend money on them; it is fine, house no house they don't bother.

what I mean is Man in their 30-40s in term of finance stability sure way more than Man in their 20s. That why majority sugarbabe target Man in their 30-40s.

[iluvbreast]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

what I mean is Man in their 30-40s in term of finance stability sure way more than Man in their 20s. That why majority sugarbabe target Man in their 30-40s.

No TadaoKumagai, you still don't understand. Sugarbabes target men who are rich; regardless of age, in fact if the men are younger some SBs may like it more.

If you have rich friends you will know. My single friend who practices medicine started to 'bao' gals when he was studying for his MBBS but then again he got a very very rich daddy.

His problem is he cannot just have one woman, that is why till today he don't marry. He always tells me, it is so sad that men can only have 1 wife, 三妻四妾是比较合理的。

To celebrate his graduation, he took a month long holiday in Europe with his 3 sugar babes.

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by iluvbreast

No TadaoKumagai, you still don't understand. Sugarbabes target men who are rich; regardless of age, in fact if the men are younger some SBs may like it more.

If you have rich friends you will know. My single friend who practices medicine started to 'bao' gals when he was studying for his MBBS but then again he got a very very rich daddy.

His problem is he cannot just have one woman, that is why till today he don't marry. He always tells me, it is so sad that men can only have 1 wife, 三妻四妾是比较合理的。

To celebrate his graduation, he took a month long holiday in Europe with his 3 sugar babes.

Rich people have their ways, we commoner also have our own way. At least so far the Girl I manage to get my hands on, so far is up to my standard, of course not saying my standard is Model, Influencer etc those 9/10, 10/10 or super grade/quality one.
Budget people budget plan budget way of enjoying.

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by TomMAffolter

Sugarbabes are concerned with money spent on them, ie disposable income.
When in 20s earn not much but most stay home free food free accommodation, when 30s earn slightly more but then most have gf or wife so where is the extra cash, then 40s many have their mortgages to pay off.
In your situation as i mentioned earlier i really question given you low income and poor health whether you can even afford to but a hdb when you 35, and if you do after repayments where do you think you will find extra money to buy a wife.

Those 2-3 room flat whichever cheapest within my salary can afford lor.
As for how to get a wife after buying house and pay for those repayments? Simple. Just be frank and honest about it lor. After all marriage agency, private not those.commercial type will ask a lot question then after that spread it via mouth , village etc, will take some time for candidates to appear.
My option is, picture to my liking, 5.5/10 , 6/10 , 6.5/10 look decent enough can liao. I also open to Single Mother with Child younger than 3. But Single Mother must be at least 6.5/10 liao.
I dont mind raising other childs(been a sponsor via World Vision for some Child) as long as she willing to bear my offspring. As for ingrateful or look for his/her father after child grow up liao, up to them liao. Got to admit sponsoring child and raising one will be different, but at least for me. I am okay with it, not anti with it.

[singmarine]

Bro, rare to find true gentleman like you.

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

Those 2-3 room flat whichever cheapest within my salary can afford lor.
As for how to get a wife after buying house and pay for those repayments? Simple. Just be frank and honest about it lor. After all marriage agency, private not those.commercial type will ask a lot question then after that spread it via mouth , village etc, will take some time for candidates to appear.
My option is, picture to my liking, 5.5/10 , 6/10 , 6.5/10 look decent enough can liao. I also open to Single Mother with Child younger than 3. But Single Mother must be at least 6.5/10 liao.
I dont mind raising other childs(been a sponsor via World Vision for some Child) as long as she willing to bear my offspring. As for ingrateful or look for his/her father after child grow up liao, up to them liao. Got to admit sponsoring child and raising one will be different, but at least for me. I am okay with it, not anti with it.

[Naka_Timo]

Originally Posted by singmarine

Bro, rare to find true gentleman like you.

+144 for you

[TadaoKumagai]

Meanwhile. Using FB Dating etc to match as many as possible. 95% sure problematic (scammer) just add talk cock a bit and 'red alert' appear liao either siam or just play along lor. Some is those cyber sex scam(blackmail), then if you dont know how to protect yourself or etc, honggan liao. But if you know how to protect yourself, surely no problem. Can see chiobu (ofcourse got filter etc, still chiobu lor, see them masturbate video call with you, shiok sia)Mostly claim from Malaysia using Malaysia number, got a few is local number. Got chances to match up with a few legit one. Now match a few legit one, see how it goes. hopefully dont meetup intro products/insurances can liao.

[TadaoKumagai]

Make a contact with a Vietnam friend via Zalo, happen to see her timeline, so greet her and ask how her life. Anyone my main purpose was to ask if she have anyone to recommend me for relationship partner.
She recommend me her sister(blood sister) at the age of 18/19.
So now will be trying to forge a relationship with her with my friend(the older sister) help in making sure this relationship works.