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Haha, hv u been to GL, 40+ also jioing old man ..
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After all is said n done ... there are still gems to be uncovered. Maybe yours is the one, Good Luck to threadstarter, not to pour cold water ...
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condominium with security guards + toyota camry is also take care. she's not going to live forever. |
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GCB + LP640 is also take care.
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bro acidman, it seems u have make a decision in u. i tink no point trying hard to pull u out.
imho, i tink sumtimes u know u will get cheated but still wana try. why? becuz u never know when tis feeling may come again. honestly, do u enjoy the time wif her? do u feel happy and free when wif her? u are buying the time of happiness, do u tink worth it? if ur answer is yes. den go for it. such feeling might not come by everyday. life is so short, why not enjoy the happiness? doesnt mean u get a sg gal, u have such feelings. i wish u all the best but remember if u committed and fall, pls get up youself. my 0.02
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I must say that after having spent almost 5 years working and living in China not all PRC women are out to cheat you money or your feelings. There are also decent ones around. But like some of our local girls, if they want to marry a foreigner they would prefer a angmoh as they are perceived to be rich and generous. Its true that Singapore men are not their first choice, alot of PRC women i know think we are not "man" enough, heh perhaps they enjoy being abused by men? who knows. But really i think cheating, especially in the sense of sleeping around is perceived as a very normal thing here. In fact my gf here was surprised that I put so much weight on faithfulness and honesty...
Anyway marry a PRC woman? sure why not? but just make sure she is worth it... |
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personally I know 1 yandao bro from irc married with 1 chio bu prc, looks like finoa xie, and now live happily together, but this guy is not tupid and damn smart, and knows what he doing.
But for this young boy, let him be. As mentioned, a frog refused to jump out of the well to see the world, wont understand a single bit of what we trying to put across.
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Guess his mind is already set, so good luck bro....Anyway, its better to b bitten urself than to b told about other ppl's bite experiences.....Hope u can come out from it a stronger man....
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our advice is of good will.
we do not know each other but we dun wish another to get cheated. itz your life, u make decision. watever the decision resulted, u face the consequences. can u face it? would you trade ur time, feelings, money for the illusion happiness? as long u r happy, ttz important. dun live for other, live for yourself. my 0.02. hope itz not offensive or sensitve
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I guess you sort of sums up my feelings. Guess I'm at an age now where I think I don't have much time to find real happiness liao, so just enjoy the moment when I can. And you're right sg gal have not given me such feelings. |
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I guess man make alot of bad decisions in marriage. Some marry out of responsibility, some out of convenience. If man spent most of their time making ends need, then all is fine. But when they have some money and found someone they really fall in love with, that's where all the troubles start to come.
Can this be called mid life crisis? C'est la Vie. |
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Only time will tell. Meantime, I guess you can only let time to test her sincerity and for you to prove yours too. Stick to your belief until it is tested and then pick up from there where to head. Cheers!
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They r actress. They r paid to act. As long as they r paid, they'll carry on with whatever role that is needed for them to earn their pay. You r the paymaster, as long as u pay them, they'll act for u. Once u stop paying them, naturally they'll stop acting too.Can they act for other paymasters? As long as there is no binding contract, of course they can & even if there is one, as long as they r not caught, they can still try it.
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To pursue true happiness, one does hav to fall many times before achievin tat happiness...search deep within ur heart wat realli makes u happi Bro Acidman
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