Would You Forgive?

[EricssonMan]

Repeated post

[curious75]

Originally Posted by humpcheepang

Man has big EGO, and Strong Pride, & very MCP at times.

"You can poke someone's else wife, but no one can poke your wife"

"Never Never poke someone's else wife if you do not allow someone to poke your wife"

BROS;

i totally agree with you,that's the reason i never poke someone wife.no matter how chio the women is,as long as she is married i will keep my hand off even there is once i got a chio bu as one night stand from disco,when we are both naked her husband called and i wear back my cloths and leave.

for me,if my wife fool ard,it depends on what kind of situation.i think i may forgive her due to i think i know my wife well.if she flirt more than once,i know she will leave me than i forgive her.

WE CAN MARRY A BITCH TO BE WIFE BUT NOT MARRYING A WIFE TO BE BITCH.

[man13utd13]

Originally Posted by no_faith

to me, it depends.

if the guy she had an affair is sibei yandao, hunkie, pretty boy, sweetie boy, i can forgive lah, who can resisit oppsite sex so attractive.

but if the guy she has an affair has far low quality than me, i cant forgive lah,
i felt insluted.

i juz speaking the truth.


peace

yah i once had an ex gf who dumped me for somebody fatter and uglier than me...and on the bed wise is comfrim lose one lah...i mean how can she fuck soemone who is so ugly and fat????
it makes my blood boil even up till this day

[man13utd13]

Originally Posted by jontay

someone once told me men find it more difficult to forgive a cheating partner becos of pride and lower EQ......

it is really difficult to forgive ....trust me the shadow will still be there after many many yrs

[man13utd13]

Originally Posted by jontay

someone once told me men find it more difficult to forgive a cheating partner becos of pride and lower EQ......

Face it lor, how many man can actually take it when someone comes up to you and say: hahahhahahahha I slept with your woman........

i ever did it to one man b4....
his gf was with me 2timing him at the same time when i found out i called the guy and here's wat happen...

"hi is this xxx?this is andy here"

"may i know which andy?and wat is it regarding?"

"i am calling in regards to sandy,can i ask how is she related to you?"

"mind if you tell me wat is it about?"

"no worries i have 1 more question for you before i will answer your questions,how long have you been with sandy?"

"we have been together for 3 years,so now can i ask you who are you?"

"oh my name is andy and i am the guy who has been fucking your girl for the past 9 months,dont believe me call sandy and ask her,i will sms you my number later"

and i hung up the phone
as promised i sms him my number

in the end nobody called back up till this day,not even sandy

[Megatronzombie]

Originally Posted by Missing Dog

I have also forgave my wife once and don't know whether it's a mistake. Crossing fingers and hopefully not. Cheer up Bro Megatronzombie, that's not the end of the world afterall.

Hey thanks bro ..er.. missing dog hehe..

[Kunotz]

Hmm, I ever had an affair with a married woman, the guilt feeling is always there .... but this affair broke off when she accidentally got preggie from me ... and had a secret abortion before the hubby found out ...

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by man13utd13

"oh my name is andy and i am the guy who has been fucking your girl for the past 9 months,dont believe me call sandy and ask her,i will sms you my number later"

this kind of 2 timing game i also played before, in the late 90s when i was single and suave. a lady friend intro me to her female friend who is already having a relatiionship with a married man. i didnt know that, so wooed her and bonked. one day this guy called my hp, very yar yar told me to "lay off" her or i'll be sorry.

i asked him to meet up with me and show me what he meant. you see, this ball less fucker used a private line to call me. then his fucking tone changed from lao lan to pitiful. i demanded for his hp number and we met the next day. he was big size but like a beggar, kept begging me to "release her to him". married man some more.

i talked to the girl and decided i couldnt forgive her for fucking elsewhere when we were already into it for several weeks. her excuse was that the married man didnt want to break off. this type of girl is ccb.

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by Castrol

this kind of 2 timing game i also played before, in the late 90s when i was single and suave. a lady friend intro me to her female friend who is already having a relatiionship with a married man. i didnt know that, so wooed her and bonked. one day this guy called my hp, very yar yar told me to "lay off" her or i'll be sorry.

Did you delicate this song "Please forgive me" by Bryan Adams?

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

Did you delicate this song "Please forgive me" by Bryan Adams?

oh yes, the 3 of us also sang "all for love" together...

[MMLL]

It didn't occurred to me this profound situation. My wife? I wouldn't know what to do. Well, life is unfair, fucking unfair.

[curious75]

Originally Posted by Castrol

this kind of 2 timing game i also played before, in the late 90s when i was single and suave. a lady friend intro me to her female friend who is already having a relatiionship with a married man. i didnt know that, so wooed her and bonked. one day this guy called my hp, very yar yar told me to "lay off" her or i'll be sorry.

i asked him to meet up with me and show me what he meant. you see, this ball less fucker used a private line to call me. then his fucking tone changed from lao lan to pitiful. i demanded for his hp number and we met the next day. he was big size but like a beggar, kept begging me to "release her to him". married man some more.

i talked to the girl and decided i couldnt forgive her for fucking elsewhere when we were already into it for several weeks. her excuse was that the married man didnt want to break off. this type of girl is ccb.

BROS;

i have met such incident b4 also,but the guys is her bf or someone aftering her.call me and tell me all the nonsense,i told him since you know my working place,at any time you can do anything to me if you dare to,somemore he is a so call gangsters.in the end he came to my working place and tell me who he is and treat her nice.sometime i wonder why man at certain stage go to this,why not have a good talk.its just a hole with two fleshy meaty ball on top.right!

that why in the past there is a saying mui chee mong kok,wee cha bor pa tiong kok.what a SIGH

[WillamSexsphere]

Actually, for a gf or wife to go to that extreme would mean the end of a relationship, breaking an ROM sworn oath of faithfulness both to society and to each other. A female would never go to that extreme unless she finds her relationship with the guy lacking in certain or many things, her desires not fulfilled. In this modern Mcdonald age of instant gratification, unlike the past, there is little or no more tolerance.

So what is there to forgive when an oath had been broken and a relationship at an end?

However, should the female realizes the error of her ways, a mistake, a misjudgement, a misunderstanding, comes clean and resolve not to do it again, what more can i, an imperfect and flawed human being, to forgive and let go of the eposide and live our short lives more happier?

So what if a guy comes up and brag he bonked your wife? For him to be that indiscreet would mean he had no love for the poor woman at all, only to fulfil his own sexual needs, cheating the lady of her feelings. Our society looks down on such people for they are crass and dirty, a subhuman. He may gloat, but not many people will associate with him, just only to use and abuse him. No one will pity him if the hubby choses to smash him to pulp or destroy his career. Its the consequence of his irresponsible act.

True love is more than just a piece of meat. As long as there is honesty, faith and trust can be restored. Be an evolved being, and not behave like a spoilt schoolyard brat.

Just a personal view.



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[highkia]

wah.. simply a classic qns....
it's quite ok to forgive if you love your other half..
but to forget, i think it's almost impossible..
how to forget????
becoz if u love her deeply, u will forgive her.. but if to forget,
i dun think so as like the other broz also say le, when make love to her
will think of hw she make love to the other guy..
so i guess there is always a crack in this relationship..

[sonice82]

if u really love the woman i think u can forgive.(most pple i guess) impossible to forget and the cracks will certainly be there.

sometimes some women thought man are stupid. i haf a gal fren who was relating how she was involved with another 2 guy while still attached to the bf. finally the bf found out one day and broke up with her. on the very day can still call me and cry like no tmr but in less then 2 weeks go bkk holidays liao..wtf..

once a woman's heart changed its very hard to get her back.

my ex-gf was another one. everything seems so fine then she start to give me the cold shoulder and subsequently broke off. but we got back on for a shortwhile; until the same thing happened for again but this time for good. when asked if there is a 3rd party she says no. just said we incompatible. knn when fuck together in bed also never hear her say incompatible??

the more i think the more i buey tahan. so one day drove to her place and spy her from afar while smoking away. knn saw a late 20s guy driving a fucking mazda 6 send her back. cb..until today i guess she still dunno wat i saw tat day.

forgive? i think i would never. lol cuz i dun eat behind when i'm attached so i expect the same. so if one fine day my wife would to do the same to me, i guess i also wont forgive.