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[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

never ever leave any incriminating evidence on one pc only for some else to discover it later....it really smacks of stupidity...

What is really stupid is the fact that you are being unfaithful!

If you behaved yourself and remained faithful, there would be no evidence to hide in the first place.

How would you like it if your girl was doing the same to you?

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

What is really stupid is the fact that you are being unfaithful!

If you behaved yourself and remained faithful, there would be no evidence to hide in the first place.

How would you like it if your girl was doing the same to you?

if you got to be stupid in the first place then at least learn to limit the level of stupidity...even intelligence are graded according to level of IQ...like wise for stupidity...but then again boz dun think you get it cos your IQ too high to stoop to the level of my stupidity..

[The_Unrepentant]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

He's hardly "cham". It sounds as if he's been having a great life... a fuck buddy, a girlfriend, regular trips to FLs etc. Many men would give an arm and a leg to enjoy a similar lifestyle.

He's lost his current girlfriend but that's no big deal. He still has a Fuck buddy and he can still screw his choice of FLs. Once he has found a new girlfriend, his life will be back to where it was before.

My only grouse is that he was selfish and did not share his pictures and videos. He should have uploaded them here and deleted them from his hard drive. He wouldn't have been caught out if the spirit of sharing had been maintained.

the ppl means us . we so cham never get to see those 'real live' pic unless we subscribe.

TS? wat abt him?I never give a damn abt him in the first place.

[Toyota Honda]

Originally Posted by gentleman

I doing well in my career, but lust is my weakness. I feel that i'm not suitable to engage in marriage as i easy attracted by pretty girl. It's all my fault to spoil this relationship.
I am so stupid. Chasing short term shiok, end up with losing my gf. Its hurt me, and i hurt my gf

Bro,

This is where a man's priority comes in. I was like you before. I regretted it... Its the past...

You have to ask yourself... Are you willing to give up your other girls forever if she comes back? If you can't even convince yourself, how are you gonna convince her? You have to really think over what you want...

1) A good career with a happy family to go home with every night after work?

2) Or to fling around after work and go to a home lonely with no true love by your side?

Success and riches are nothing if you don't have someone you love and loves you to share with...

I always remember a show Stephen Chow acted in as a bastard playboy.. He said to his eldest brother who acted as an unfaithful husband with a virtuous wife."I always believe that a HUSBAND MUST be faithful to his wife... Thats why I choose not to get married." Funny, but very true..

Play when you have the right to.. Stop when you have to...

Sorry for being naggy to everyone here...

[Toyota Honda]

Originally Posted by bunnytease

there won't be comforting words from me.
cause i feel you deserve to be ditched.

if u cheat.
you'll get find out ulitmately.
there no need to feel sad tt she has left you.
be happy that she finally can have a new life..
with a much better guy that won't cheat on her.

sorry..if it sounds mean.
in order to be kind..you need to be cruel.

My comments from what you have said...

1st para - you are really mean...

2nd para - you slowly exude your naive side after being mean
(esp your last sentence of para 2)..

3rd para - you have a heart, but use your human sense...

In simple terms, there are no guys who will be faithful. You really have to understand this point. Its a matter of whether guys are respionsible or not. Meaning, they will still chiong, but they still love and take very good care of his family.

If you are a girl, I wish you all the best for your guy not to hurt you cos you are really nasty. Imagine your bf doing the same thing to you and pple shoot you down with your para 1.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by gentleman

This morning she calls me and she not able to forgive me and break off with me. I am very sad now. I very disappoint with what i did because we planning to get married this year....

Count yourself LUCKY that you had not marry her. You are still a free man with nothing lost... more time for FB and FL. Enjoy to the fullest before you commit.

If you are married and she found out about the photos, all your money for FL and choinging will go to her as maintenance.

Move on and enjoy singlehood.

[Toyota Honda]

I got zapped for saying no guys would be faithful.. But this faithful guy did not leave his nick behind.. Wonder y.. Else we can verify if he ever called up any OKTs available in SBF for FLs or not...

I think there is definitely some system flaw in the rep points issue... It encourages cowards... implicating the corageous who dares to speak up (of cos not the Dr Chee SJ way ah).

Whats wrong with airing your views here? Shows how petty some pple can be. Its like.. like... like.. you are happily having drinks with your friends annd chatting away. Then you friend said something wrong, and you just flare up without any signs abnd punch your friend.. And what do you call him..... Loooooosssseeeerrrrr...........

Anymore Looooooossssseeeerrrrr, come zap me, deduct my points... Its free anyway

[Deztruct]

i think the best is to use encryption software to protect ur files..after all u neva noe when u might lose ur phone, ext storage device etc etc..at least they are still being protected by password..for me i am using this software Kruptos 2 - Reviews and free Kruptos 2 downloads at Download.com

[bunnytease]

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

My comments from what you have said...

1st para - you are really mean...

2nd para - you slowly exude your naive side after being mean
(esp your last sentence of para 2)..

3rd para - you have a heart, but use your human sense...

In simple terms, there are no guys who will be faithful. You really have to understand this point. Its a matter of whether guys are respionsible or not. Meaning, they will still chiong, but they still love and take very good care of his family.

If you are a girl, I wish you all the best for your guy not to hurt you cos you are really nasty. Imagine your bf doing the same thing to you and pple shoot you down with your para 1.

1. I'm not mean, just truthful.

2. My last 2 para are naive? look whos talking. naive are for ppl who only think of themselves but not others.

3. human sense? you meaning cheating on ur gf is having human sense? then i dun think you have any.

4. No guys will be faithful? you're 1 man, not all men. if you're unfaithful...so be it. dun drag everyone down with ur pityful soul. I guess poor mum of urs is being cheated too, cause simply...your dad is a man. wad type of bullshit theory is this. anyway..it's responsible not respionsible (can totally understand why u dunno how to spell this word.)

5. I didn't shoot him cause he's been cheated on, but i did tt cause he was cheating. i feel no wrong in doing so. imagine ur gf cheat on you..i dun think u will be so gracious.

with love,
bunnytease

[newbird26]

looook ahead and move on la... mai waste time

[Toyota Honda]

Originally Posted by bunnytease

2. My last 2 para are naive? look whos talking. naive are for ppl who only think of themselves but not others.

3. human sense? you meaning cheating on ur gf is having human sense? then i dun think you have any.

4. No guys will be faithful? you're 1 man, not all men. if you're unfaithful...so be it. dun drag everyone down with ur pityful soul. I guess poor mum of urs is being cheated too, cause simply...your dad is a man. wad type of bullshit theory is this. anyway..it's responsible not respionsible (can totally understand why u dunno how to spell this word.)

5. I didn't shoot him cause he's been cheated on, but i did tt cause he was cheating. i feel no wrong in doing so. imagine ur gf cheat on you..i dun think u will be so gracious.

with love,
bunnytease

Point 2 - Naive means u think the angel out of everyone when u shouldn't.

Point 3 - Was I referring cheating on gf to be human sense? Did you actually comprehend what I was saying? In case you don't concur, comprehend means understand. And concur means agree with understanding... My god...

Point 4 - we are talking about this matter, y drag parents down? Ya, my dad is unfaithful.. my mum knows, but she is understanding... Her theory is, can eat outside, just don't bring home and must come home every night and be a RESPONSIBLE HUSBAND and FATHER. And ya, My english standard is not as good. But at least I UNDERSTAND things better.. Look, Intelligence is not a matter of whether one is good in a particular language, rather its the ability to understand things well enough...

Point 5 - Did our dear bro get cheated on? See what I mean? See what I mean??! Understanding my friend.... My ex cheated on me and left.. Been there done that.. I let her go cos I love her, I even shook hand with that guy who took her away when they were together.. Is that gracious enough? I hope yo know the meaning of gracious.

Realise I don't even bother zapping your points away even though I have the power to? What for..


Okok, move on.. Peace ya.. Peace.. Don't Osama liao...

With more love,
TYTHD

[gentleman]

Thank you for bros who comforting me. There is slim hope to be with her anymore.

Personally being zapped by some bros here. Worst still ! got bro asking for photos? . sorry

[Ice Milo]

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

In simple terms, there are no guys who will be faithful. You really have to understand this point. Its a matter of whether guys are respionsible or not.

Please leh!! Friend!! For you to come up with this kind of theory. Your face not red ah?? No doubt what you say can apply to some of the guys but for you to say ALL, It only show how ignorant, arrogant(thinking that you have seen the light), narrow minded person you are and nothing else.

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

Point 2 - Naive means u think the angel out of everyone when u shouldn't.

Oh ya I forgot naive too, cause you think the every single guy in this entire world behaves and think the same way when you shouldn't.

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

Ya, my dad is unfaithful.. my mum knows, but she is understanding... Her theory is, can eat outside, just don't bring home and must come home every night and be a RESPONSIBLE HUSBAND and FATHER.

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

My ex cheated on me and left.. Been there done that.. I let her go cos I love her, I even shook hand with that guy who took her away when they were together.. Is that gracious enough? I hope yo know the meaning of gracious.

Please I beg you to broaden your prospective of life!! Don't look at the world through that little hole of your's.

Your dad, granddad or whatever guy in your family can cheat all they want. That don't make it ok.

Your mom, grandmon can forgive them all they want, don't mean that EVERY girl should forgive their cheating spouse because to YOU think that it's normal and perfectly alright as long as the other half is a RESPONSIBLE caring husband or whatever. Please don't perverse the term "Responsible husband" with your twisted thinking.

Your every single GF can cheated on you with your best friend and you can forgive every single 1 of them but don't ever ever think that, that puts you on higher moral grounds and you can start telling people what they should accept and what is perfectly normal.

You have every right to have as many theories as you want, I respect your right to express them but it really shows your character when you start calling people naive or accusing people of not understanding when they disagree with you.

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

And ya, My english standard is not as good. But at least I UNDERSTAND things better.. Look, Intelligence is not a matter of whether one is good in a particular language, rather its the ability to understand things well enough...

I beg to differ that you UNDERSTAND the simple mind of ALL male species.

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

Realise I don't even bother zapping your points away even though I have the power to? What for..

Saying this kind of things only show how desperate you are to make yourself sound like the better person here.

[poison]

Originally Posted by gentleman

I born in "Horse" year, this year is very difficult year to those people who born in "horse" year. ....

sorry to hear that at the beginning of the year, but the difficult year for "horse" ppl will only start after Feb CNY, not now, so might have chance to chase her back again. Wish u all the best.