I never thought it would happen to me

[weiwei09]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Don't kid yourself. It doesn't happen that way, trust me. If you allow yourself to fall deeper into this, once she is gone, you will start to miss her and do irrational things like buying airticket to visit her in China, call her over the phone and smsing her everday, listen to Chinese love songs, think of her all the time, visit the places that you used to go with her, eat her favourite food, etc, etc, etc.

If you want to cut it and forget about her, don't even allow yourself to be embroiled in this fantasy. Once you are in it, the awakening process is damn tough.

Been there done that.

I think you really got me there..thats exactly what was I thinking at one point of time? Care to share your story and how does yours end?

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Don't kid yourself. It doesn't happen that way, trust me. If you allow yourself to fall deeper into this, once she is gone, you will start to miss her and do irrational things like buying airticket to visit her in China, call her over the phone and smsing her everday, listen to Chinese love songs, think of her all the time, visit the places that you used to go with her, eat her favourite food, etc, etc, etc.

If you want to cut it and forget about her, don't even allow yourself to be embroiled in this fantasy. Once you are in it, the awakening process is damn tough.

Been there done that.

Wahahahaha... I was abt to post the same things, bro slider.
TS, trust us, it really doesn't happen that way.

[seeknewss]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Don't kid yourself. It doesn't happen that way, trust me. If you allow yourself to fall deeper into this, once she is gone, you will start to miss her and do irrational things like buying airticket to visit her in China, call her over the phone and smsing her everday, listen to Chinese love songs, think of her all the time, visit the places that you used to go with her, eat her favourite food, etc, etc, etc.

If you want to cut it and forget about her, don't even allow yourself to be embroiled in this fantasy. Once you are in it, the awakening process is damn tough.

Been there done that.

I like the part about "listen to Chinese love songs"... this action is seldom heard of but it did happen to me few years ago when I travelled to Beijing often on business. Those were the good old days... sigh..

[jojogigi]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Don't kid yourself. It doesn't happen that way, trust me. If you allow yourself to fall deeper into this, once she is gone, you will start to miss her and do irrational things like buying airticket to visit her in China, call her over the phone and smsing her everday, listen to Chinese love songs, think of her all the time, visit the places that you used to go with her, eat her favourite food, etc, etc, etc.

If you want to cut it and forget about her, don't even allow yourself to be embroiled in this fantasy. Once you are in it, the awakening process is damn tough.

Been there done that.

oh im buying an airticket to shenzhen alright! to visit another gf. ahahahah one last fuck b4 i say goodbye to her. quite irrational.. BUT I LIKE! can chiong shenzhen at the same time. LOL. No need to call and sms everyday. No need to listen to chinese song. Just remember myself of the sex is enough liao.... LOL

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by weiwei09

I think you really got me there..thats exactly what was I thinking at one point of time? Care to share your story and how does yours end?

Dun be lazy... read the other threads in "Matters of the Heart" and u will be imply amazed at how much some of those stories mirror your experiences.

[n733]

pls...love and sex is different pls dont get emo on such stuff......beside based on what u wrote abt her all those is jus norm flirting done esp by prc so whats the big deal.....wake up wake up......

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by weiwei09

I think you really got me there..thats exactly what was I thinking at one point of time? Care to share your story and how does yours end?

I hijacked bro lovemachine's thread titled "Tears for a PRC Prostitute". You can read part of my story there, you can start from page 24 of that thread.

How did my story end? Well I would like to think that it has ended but I dare not put my money where my mouth is. I am currently undergoing Mount Cold Turkey therapy and ceasing all contact with her. I don't know what may happen though if she comes back to look for me say a few months down the road.

Perhaps I may once again be affected by this disease called "irrational exuberance"?

[aces68]

Originally Posted by slider_72

I hijacked bro lovemachine's thread titled "Tears for a PRC Prostitute". You can read part of my story there, you can start from page 24 of that thread.

My story is also on that thread
where is our resident expert, bro DYBJ, maybe he can offer some inspiring comments about bro weiwei09's case..

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by aces68

My story is also on that thread
where is our resident expert, bro DYBJ, maybe he can offer some inspiring comments about bro weiwei09's case..

Maybe he still riding his roller coaster?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by aces68

My story is also on that thread
where is our resident expert, bro DYBJ, maybe he can offer some inspiring comments about bro weiwei09's case..

I have not posted anything yet cos from what i'm reading, some important info is missing, thus i'm waiting for more lite to be shed before commenting.

[colins]

haha...the KC trap part hasn't happened yet?

Luvy duvy's the stage now mate. No hold's bar falling, delusional stage starting, changed future planning, lots of daily communication, "vic's" worksite monitoring disorder, keen interest in other success/failure stories, acute reduction in self-restraint...the list goes on.

What's more man?

[weiwei09]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

I have not posted anything yet cos from what i'm reading, some important info is missing, thus i'm waiting for more lite to be shed before commenting.

er...no..all that has happened till now have been told..she haven leave yet..so i guess you guys know my mood..

[jojogigi]

Originally Posted by n733

pls...love and sex is different pls dont get emo on such stuff......beside based on what u wrote abt her all those is jus norm flirting done esp by prc so whats the big deal.....wake up wake up......

eh i thought u only belong in TH and FL threads only.. why suddenly crash here. ahahaha

[jojogigi]

Originally Posted by weiwei09

er...no..all that has happened till now have been told..she haven leave yet..so i guess you guys know my mood..

i would recommend u not to put ur feelings into this... a little bit can. and the rest for other girls. Walk around Geylang somemmore u might meet someone that might click with u again. Trust me. It'll happen. It happened to me. I was so bored when my gf went bk. Till i met another one. The story just goes on my friend. Give urself a break. Give urself some sex. Woot.

[Wooden_Handle]

Bro colins, I think the KC is already lurking behind the screen..

Originally Posted by colins

haha...the KC trap part hasn't happened yet?

Luvy duvy's the stage now mate.

What's more man?