Very lost in life

[fantasyrulz]

If a relationship is bad ask yourself if u can fix it.

If not worth then divorce simple be man alpha.

All your feeling of guilty ah etc I understand 100%
You have to be cold hearted and break it to your wife and treat her like a friend. Cry sad sentimental thoughts will come but you got to man up.

How many more years u want to torture yourself and her if u stay on this toxic broken relationship?

Break it so both of u can start healing and carry on with life

Trust me I have been through more shyt then most people here.
Went through divorced and I initiated it, never cheated whatsoever no third-party, no ktv, kio girls all this no smoke no alcohol whatsoever.

No children, Sexless marriage, never sleep together, communication break down, toxic behavior, strange habit, bad relationship with my parents etc I fking endure everything

I was alone all the fking way. U at least got a misstress to share your burden I got NONE.

Yet I endured the whole divorce drama, talk about past talk about love that we used to have the memories the things we buy the places we go bla bla bla

All these toxic confirm u will understand yet u gotta man up. Let her go. Your not dead but just ending a bad relationship.

[fantasyrulz]

If a relationship is bad ask yourself if u can fix it.

If not worth then divorce simple be man alpha.

All your feeling of guilty ah etc I understand 100%
You have to be cold hearted and break it to your wife and treat her like a friend. Cry sad sentimental thoughts will come but you got to man up.

How many more years u want to torture yourself and her if u stay on this toxic broken relationship?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Needsomeadvice

I feel that my love for my wife has become a responsibility instead and there is no more growth in our relationship

I’m not sure if I’m willing to throw away my marriage of 8years for this girl

Wake up your idea. It is stupid to let go a 8 year marriage for a girl that you just know for few months.

It is love that grew into responsibility. What no growth?

When you accept a person’s love, you have certain obligations to that person. When you accept a person’s love in marriage and your spouse gives you her whole life, you become responsible for your her; and you have obligations to that person that you must meet.

Originally Posted by Needsomeadvice

Actually my wife is not Singaporean too, and they are from the same country
Wife is still on long term pass

Been sitting down and thinking about many things, but can’t seem to find the right answer

My circle of friends are the same breed as me, love to go whoring
And occasionally have a mistress

Can’t get any advice from them
Feeling damn messed up from feeling sorry about my wife, and can’t bear to let the new one go

When I was at your age, me and my group of SBF buddies same same like go pick up vietnamese girls at pub/ktv and keep as number 2 / mistress. But we all know that once they want to climb up to be number 1, it is time to let go of them.

Can't bear but still must let go the new one.

Originally Posted by Needsomeadvice

My gf actually realised this and before we could talk
She started crying and say things like

If you leave me, I’m gonna jump off a bridge
Or
If you leave me, I’m gonna kill you and poison myself

Pattern more than badminton.

Originally Posted by Needsomeadvice

This is exactly my thought
Just that I need to balance time between my work, wife and gf
And hopefully I don’t get caught 😳

Fact that I need to travel for work, saves me tons of explanation

I got caught many times for fooling around and keeping mistress.
Not all wife are same forgiving. So when eat out, always clean up before going home to the wife

[milfbeater]

obsession over girls and sex is just a phase
once u get over it, it doesnt become a big deal

[LuSiWen]

hahahaha!!!! true not every women forgive like me