The one you marry, is not the one you loved most? - Page 31

GLHunter · #**451** 10-01-2007, 11:48 PM

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Originally Posted by JWNY

My friend called off a wedding once when she and her potential husband couldn't decide on the venue (apparently their parents were involved with the bickering too)...i'm not sure if that was the "real" reason though...

JWNY

my frd more power, told me a couple of times that she got married becoz she wanted to have a own hse, simple as that. i think she juz want to see whether i have any feeling left for her & ask her to re-consider.

Now that i ve got over her, i feel that it may be a blessing in disguise that i dun get to be with her last, but i pity her husband ..

JWNY · #**452** 11-01-2007, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by GLHunter

but i pity her husband ..

Maybe...not as bad as you think bro?

JWNY

tissue · #**453** 11-01-2007, 03:22 AM

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Originally Posted by JWNY

My friend called off a wedding once when she and her potential husband couldn't decide on the venue (apparently their parents were involved with the bickering too)...i'm not sure if that was the "real" reason though...

JWNY

I had a friend whogot married because she wanted a kid and she did not want her child to be illegitimate so the marriage...

Cheers / Tissue

surfer888 · #**454** 11-01-2007, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by GLHunter

my frd more power, told me a couple of times that she got married becoz she wanted to have a own hse, simple as that.

Sounds like my wife... married me for the house.

JWNY · #**455** 11-01-2007, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by tissue

I had a friend whogot married because she wanted a kid and she did not want her child to be illegitimate so the marriage...

Cheers / Tissue

Did she like the father or...?

JWNY

JWNY · #**456** 11-01-2007, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by surfer888

Sounds like my wife... married me for the house.

As in, the sake of freedom for her own house away from her parents or purely monetary to get YOUR house bro?

JWNY

boon huat · #**457** 11-01-2007, 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by mantikore

Any opinions are welcomed but constructive ones pls......

bro, pls consider really carefully abt divorce leh....y dun try counselling see whether can salvage ur marriage?

GLHunter · #**458** 11-01-2007, 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by JWNY

Maybe...not as bad as you think bro?

JWNY

if a to-be-wife can go around saying that she is not entirely keen about marriage when it is already around the corner, i think she is not worth all
the time, effort & money the man has invested.

mantikore · #**459** 12-01-2007, 03:25 AM

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Originally Posted by boon huat

bro, pls consider really carefully abt divorce leh....y dun try counselling see whether can salvage ur marriage?

been really thinking about divorce...... really tired and frustrating for me in the marriage. i feel i will be and am happier when i am single.

jng1103 · #**460** 12-01-2007, 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by GLHunter

if a to-be-wife can go around saying that she is not entirely keen about marriage when it is already around the corner, i think she is not worth all the time, effort & money the man has invested.

What if the guy said so?

jimbo

vesfreq · #**461** 12-01-2007, 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Deztruct

haa...posted in the other thread..havent been +++kin to her for 1 mth liao..its finally over..everythin finally come to an end..whether we still can b frds anot..its all boil down to fate..but i once told her very sincerely tat in the next life i wish to b her frd again..tis time i wan to noe her when she is young so tat i can hv a chance to be together with her n hv a chance to eat at all the places we wanted to go

it hurt esp the first 2 weeks when we not +++kin..in the end..i bcome so numb tat i dun really feel a thing now..i not feelin hurt..juz feelin numbed...whether i deserve any happiness anot..i not sure..did some pretty bad things before in life..haa

hope u hv the happiness u deserved in ur life too..merry xmas..juz wan to quote a line from my fav xmas movie..love actually is all ard if u look closely enuf

Be happy man. The tragedy of life is that destiny is never always within our hands. I know a girl and had always wished I knew her earlier. But, would that change things?

Its never easy sometimes. We all know that if time was within our control, many things could turn out for the better. Perhaps, it is also fate's way of teaching us to learn how to cherish things better.

Only when there is this feeling of loss, will we learn how to cherish the person in our lives.

I always like to look at life like a play. A play where you are the director/ producer. How it ends... depends on how you script the ending. No one is born to be an Edward Scissorhands, but everyone has the opportunity to change the way things are (around them, at least).

When I received a phone call from this someone, I was filled with indescribable jubilance... Its nice to know that there is someone who cares.

A happy (early) valentine's to all.

hose_lover · #**462** 12-01-2007, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by vesfreq

Be happy man. The tragedy of life is that destiny is never always within our hands. I know a girl and had always wished I knew her earlier. But, would that change things?

Its never easy sometimes. We all know that if time was within our control, many things could turn out for the better. Perhaps, it is also fate's way of teaching us to learn how to cherish things better.

Only when there is this feeling of loss, will we learn how to cherish the person in our lives.

I always like to look at life like a play. A play where you are the director/ producer. How it ends... depends on how you script the ending. No one is born to be an Edward Scissorhands, but everyone has the opportunity to change the way things are (around them, at least).

When I received a phone call from this someone, I was filled with indescribable jubilance... Its nice to know that there is someone who cares.

A happy (early) valentine's to all.

Totally agree.
There was this gal in my company which I actually likes, but too many thoughts came to my mind and I din make an effort to go after her.
5 years later, when i actually talked to her and realised she was married,
all of the sudden I felt a deep sense of loss in me. Dunno why.
But the feeling is a mix of remorse and regret.

It is as if all of the sudden, I wake up and came to realise something.
Why I din go after her?

So bos, take heart. If you have a alight feel for someone, go for it. And tried hard. Never mind the outcome. At least u tried and have no regrets.

suteerak1099 · #**463** 12-01-2007, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by vesfreq

Be happy man. The tragedy of life is that destiny is never always within our hands. I know a girl and had always wished I knew her earlier. But, would that change things?

Its never easy sometimes. We all know that if time was within our control, many things could turn out for the better. Perhaps, it is also fate's way of teaching us to learn how to cherish things better.

Only when there is this feeling of loss, will we learn how to cherish the person in our lives.

I always like to look at life like a play. A play where you are the director/ producer. How it ends... depends on how you script the ending. No one is born to be an Edward Scissorhands, but everyone has the opportunity to change the way things are (around them, at least).

When I received a phone call from this someone, I was filled with indescribable jubilance... Its nice to know that there is someone who cares.

A happy (early) valentine's to all.

Simon Yam once shared that his ideals of a successful marriage/relationship, is not just to cherish, nor to be mundane, but to take/make everyday (if we got that kinda time) as if it were the 1st day of courtship.

i believe it could get pretty tiring, but if, romance was fresh on each passing day, and accumulative on a monogamy relationship, i suppose the results should prove to be a bond that's not easily tested.

well, that afterall is just Simon Yam... what works for 1 may not work for every1 under the sun. we wont know till we try.

tissue · #**464** 12-01-2007, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by JWNY

Did she like the father or...?

JWNY

She is not very in love with him..Just feel that he would be a good husband as he is a very 'homely' man..But the love is not there and she just wants to have a child..

Cheers / Tissue

JWNY · #**465** 12-01-2007, 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted by GLHunter

if a to-be-wife can go around saying that she is not entirely keen about marriage when it is already around the corner, i think she is not worth all
the time, effort & money the man has invested.

Money..we men can earn back..efforts can be repeated...but TIME is too precious to waste

JWNY