Is there true love between us and PRC WL

[MichaelWinn]

Originally Posted by chrysler

I can't believe someone older than me could be so gullible...


Can you afford to go on like this. After you run out of fun money, do you think she's still going to be attracted to your newly poor as shit self? Alot of these girls have no impulse management as they are accustomed to spending as much as they earn. I've noticed most (although not all) have hardly any savings as they either spend profusely or give their money away quickly to money grubbing relatives or boyfriends. U want to be their atm for them?

Sigh, do as you please as you probably will but while zapping me, think a little. God gave us a brain and a dick. Use each for their respective purpose please.

that is why so many of these girls are still''stuck'' in the world's oldest profession after so many years, they spend as much as they earn or give money away quickly to relatives and family members, so they think nothing of conning us sillypore men, once a WL always a WL

[MichaelWinn]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Update on the situation I am with her now.

Now she pestering me to buy her a gold chain quoting that gold prices are cheaper in singapore than China. Wonder if there any true to that? Maybe it is a plot to chop carrot head?

She say that another reason to buy her it becos when she go back to china with me she can proudly show off the chain that is her BF which is me buy give her one. She quoted so can show off in front of her friends so she got face.

Really want to buy give her but me on a tight budget but sacred she might take it a wrong reason what i don't love her she want me to get her by this week damm headache.

any bros have any ideas to settle this matter than will benfits both partys? Too clouded in my mind to think.

based on my own experience, i would advise you not to buy,if she truly loves you, she will not ask you to buy something you can't really afford,i know of many cases of PRC girls who sell jewellery (sillypore men had given them ) once they return to china in order to give more money to their families or boyfriends, then they will tell their spore men they were robbed or pickpocketed in china,beware

[dirtyhairy]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

When your PRC gf/wife go holiday for 1 week, will she call you to inform you?

Minel calls me daily ...even now during this most trying period in China where fone communications are difficult! Thank god, she,family and condo are ok but they are terrified...esp with intermittent aftershocks, each running out and driving her car with family into open spaces just in case!

[chrysler]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

Hello guys.

I'm in more or less the same shit. Except that my story has a little twist.

I met this Dalian gal early this year & over the pass 5 months, we became a pair of yuanyang. She's a singer in a high class KTV & when we met, she's just 3 months into this scene or so she said. She does not sell (I've checked on it) & since she's just about 20 then, she's pretty green in this trade. She's got quite a temper to match as well & she's known to have walked out on a few customers who got touchy with her. Somehow.....we clicked, maybe it was love @ first sight.

I'm a reasonably seasoned cheongster & retired for several years. I had a serious relationship with a hostess before in my younger days as well.

She's very different from any PRCs I've known to date & no bullshit. She was trained as a gymnast since 7 and represented China a few times. She's also performed in a few countries before. I've seen those pictures of her since young but they pay her very little to support the family. She's completed pre university but her single working mother fell ill & couldn't support her through (same old story) university & her brother has gone to Korea to study for a degree on an exchange program. So, she's got to li-xiangbei jing to work & support the family. (I've spoken to her mum a few times since & even met her on webcam)

I've spent a great deal of effort & money to keep this relationship.

She calls me laogong. I got her a room in a serviced apartment for ourselves as hotel rooms & F/B became a mounting affair & pretty dangerous to get spotted. Life was a dream, our sex life was simply fantastic (some of you may have read my encounters). She'll wake up early to visit wet market, cook dinner for us & we'll go shopping/visits whenever I'm free. She's quite an amazing cook & often whipped up several restaurant grade food. In fact, we thought of opening a little eatery so she can support herself. I gave her an ATM card with controlled funds & we also went on two memorable holidays.

And because of "loving" me, she lost many potential clients & earn "very little" compared to her colleagues. There were a few times she actually paid for my bills like dinner & even KTV (few hundred bucks) Well, actually I tested her & she'll always do her best to help me save money every now & then. And so, we got closer & closer. I lavished her with some gifts over the period & she bought me some presents as well. She plans to marry me & introduced her school friends & relatives to me.

She gave up her job recently as she's tired of the nightlife & since I "bao" her & though not a lot, it's still a few S$Ks a month as I need to get her a place to stay, feed, cloth her, work permit & money to her mum/bro's school fees (told the bro to find a job during school holidays to ease my pain). She willingly downgraded to a HDB flat & we planned to rent the other rooms to other gals to collect some rental. I'll send her to learn English etc. All sounds a dream yeah?

Well, except I'm married with kids! Yes, shame on me but what to do? Cupid came & shot me again

Recently my OC found out about my little kingdom but luckily she didn't know what exactly happened but the week was one of the darkest hours..... An advice to bros. NEVER use your credit card bills for hotel rooms, restaurants, bars etc & if you must use, make sure you have valid witnesses/reasons!

Thank goodness my gal's back in China now & my life's back to normal while she's waiting for my "work permit" to re-enter again. I love her (idiot me) & we comm every day via skype etc. However, I'm scared shit that if I do get discovered again & it'll be hell. I'll not divorce now or perhaps never. I've heard a lot of stories about mistresses & I always preached people never to keep but to have ONSes but now I'm in the same mudpool. My gal said she'll wait for me for 8 years & if I don't give her an answer then, at least she has 2 more years to find a husband before she turns old & worthless.

Oh yes, & did I forget to mention that she wants a flat for her & mum? (this costs about S$200K now) As they've been staying with a relative in a very small old apartment. Her bedroom is slightly bigger than our HDB bombshelter. I told her that's a distant dream but I must have a name in it since it's investment. Anyway, I have no money now & she says she can wait for a few years for "our home".

Well, one thing's for sure. She's a fairly talented young gal (has her blog etc), she's been faithful & honest with me all this while. She's mellowed a lot since knowing me. She's lead a simple life since young & never lavished with luxuries until she met me but she's fairly influenced by the worldly things. I'm probably a Robert but we do have feelings for each other & she did sacificed for us as well.

Let's see what happens....

Let's see what happens....???

U divorced and broke, your kids brought up by a woman who calls you the cheating son a bitch bastard.

Your gymast picks a wealthier prospect after you're unable to follow through on your promises due to the crippling alimony and child support payments

u alone, ostracised, humiliated, the butt of jokes.

"I'm probably a Robert"? You can remove the "probably" from that phrase.

Dumbass.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Bro porscheclub, here's what i think.
Whatever you spent on her & feel for her blah blah....it's your prob.....how you going to gain or get burnt its also your call.
Here's my take on this matter......
1) Do you think it's a brainer to buy her a place whether with 2 names or just yours after knowing her for less than 6mths? Yes for RMB1mil well....quite normal.....learn the law of the land...one or 2 names may not mean shit in PRC
If you rent a place even in Shanghai for RMB5K a month, it sets u back RMB60K a year and RMB600K in ten years....still not SGD200K
Mind you, an apt rent of RMB5K p/m in porche district in Beijing or Shanghai already damn tok kong liao
2) What insurance are you gonna have if you do decide to take this path and buy her a place???? Remember, these PRCs treat a place of their own like a NEED in life...they'll go thru get lengths to obtain it

Here's my suggestion to you....and it's the only logical one that you can N must take....
You luv her
You claim she became mother theresa for you
Ask her for a child
Yes a child
Only then you will get a place not for her but your kid with her rite to stay there
If not, watever it is, you loose.....
Tink abt it bro....all other options equals loose loose for you...but since you really luv her n she claims she luvs you...then having a family is a matter of time.......
Wat ya reckon?

Also, young, singer in a high end KTV and learnt the arts of dancing....hmmmmmm.......her bday just passed recenty??

[dirtyhairy]

[QUOTE=DO_YOU_BJ;2778361]...Here's my suggestion to you....and it's the only logical one that you can N must take....
You luv her
You claim she became mother theresa for you
Ask her for a child
Yes a child
Only then you will get a place not for her but your kid with her rite to stay thereIf not, watever it is, you loose.....
Tink abt it bro....all other options equals loose loose for you...but since you really luv her n she claims she luvs you...then having a family is a matter of time.......Wat ya reckon?QUOTE]


Yo Bro DYBJ...
like you say
mine super hoseh
she not only want to have my baby
she heartbroken when me cant go back regularly
bcos she wanna conceive so impatiently
in fact..next week she insists is her most fertile suit
so wants me to return to achieve fatherhood
perhaps dirtyhairy extremely lucky
to find such a gem of a PRC
kind of heart, good in bed, smart yet not greedy
but she's no syt but a hardworking, hardened divorcee
guess she's been thru life alot, she knows the rites/wrongs maybe
still uncle laobaby aka DH is thankful for having such a super lady

[dirtyhairy]

Originally Posted by MichaelWinn

based on my own experience, i would advise you not to buy,if she truly loves you, she will not ask you to buy something you can't really afford,i know of many cases of PRC girls who sell jewellery (sillypore men had given them ) once they return to china in order to give more money to their families or boyfriends, then they will tell their spore men they were robbed or pickpocketed in china,beware

But my gal is still wearing the Rolex watch, gold anklet, gold chain and the wonder bra tat I bought her
yet I have stopped wearing her gold ring, jaeger-le-c watch tat she bought me in exchange as I find them too showy.
as there are bad and sad cases, there are also happpy stories!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Bro DH, like you said...hosey....
Congrats.....
How long have you 2 been together???
U mentioned divorcee...so guess she's been there thus mentally more matured......
Well, as i've posted, one in a million...kudos to you.
I have one too, 2yrs already....min maintainance....so i understand how proud and happy you are.
But not like you, i needn't shower her wif gifts etc.....just lots of affection and a comfy place to stay in.
She has gone back to hangzhou since we've decided to be together & has never been back to work since.....
She only comes back when i can't go up

[Heart Break Kid]

PRC KTV girls always like to hook rich married men.. their ultimate contentment is break up a happy S'pore family

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

PRC KTV girls always like to hook rich married men.. their ultimate contentment is break up a happy S'pore family

Bro very neutral comment.
I totally dun agree wif you.
How can they break a happy family up if we dun allow them to????
We hold the key to our door...it's we who decide to open or keep the door closed.
Why does so many men end up in this situation, cos they lost in the mind game...that's all.....

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

I'm in more or less the same shit.
:
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Let's see what happens....

Why start another family when you oredi have one now?
It'll indeed be the same old shit again.
These cycles will repeat itself - you'll still go KTV sometime down the road...

Anyway, since your OC has found out about your affairs, if she cannot accept it and you end up divorce, do not marry again. You're not suitable to lead a family lifestyle

[dirtyhairy]

Yo Bro DYBJ....many thanks for your wishes

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Bro DH, like you said...hosey....
Congrats.....
How long have you 2 been together???
[B]Slightly over a year...[/B]

U mentioned divorcee...so guess she's been there thus mentally more matured......
Indeed so and most understanding too...unlike syts and some scheming harlots...one just has to be extra careful bcos most are heartless..

Well, as i've posted, one in a million...kudos to you.
I have one too, 2yrs already....min maintainance....so i understand how proud and happy you are.
called it luck and divine protection...also...one often reaps what one sows... so it pays to be kind

But not like you, i needn't shower her wif gifts etc.....just lots of affection and a comfy place to stay in.
not really into gift showering but rather gift exchange as she's a biz lady.. and buys stuff for me...so had to reciprocate...so as in your case, not all PRCs are bad...there are gems waiting to be found..but you have to look carefully bcos most are not worthy

She has gone back to hangzhou since we've decided to be together & has never been back to work since.....She only comes back when i can't go up

[porscheclub]

I don't know about you guys. But looking back @ my galfriends, local & foreign, demure & devilish, I spent money on all of them to get a good fuck & find some love. And I didn't even F'ed all of them! It's just that the gifts get bigger when you grow older. The Mrs? Hell, she'll split half of your fortune & more later. The kids? You spend 5-6 figures on them in your lifetime, feed them, school them, guide them & that doesn't guarantee they will take care of you when you're old & worthless. Now all of us want our kids to be better than us, don't you? Look @ how many heartwrenching stories there are about unfilial adults (rich & poor, the wealthier the uglier) but of course there are equally good ones.

Life's about trading, nothing's free. We talk about karma, you do good to get better & you do bad to have worse. I've done some good in my life & some bad as well. All I know is I don't go around hurting people & do some good when I see someone in need. No, I don't mean gals. I've helped some people in accidents, saved at least 3 & only walked when they're in safe hands & my hands soiled by their blood. I don't even know them & they'll never know me.

I don't expect or try not to expect returns when I sow a seed but seeing the seed grow to a healthy plant is happiness & if it dies, I sow another. So, what price is happiness? I spent $500K on my 911 & yes it brought me great deal of joy when I drive it on my fav roads but the happiest moment was when I bought a scooter for S$180 as a student....the thing was rusty, it was falling apart @ 80 & can't even stop properly but the feeling of owning your own ride with the wind in your face & cruising down the tree lined Upp Thomson rd was simply priceless.

EOD, I feel that as long as both parties reciprocrate & she makes me really happy, I'll return the favour. Love is a double edged sword, it brings me fulfillment & it cuts deeper than black monday....

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by colins

bro porscheclub, my sympathies to you. Its sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along, remember the song?

Before you really proceed to see what else would come along, like to share with you that I have a friend who is similar to you.
Of cos, I'm just referring to my friend. Just hope that you're a wiser person. I just think that the 'see what happens next' attitude is beginning to sound very close to my friend's last words.

Bro Colins. Thank you for sharing & sympathy (some will say is it sympathy?)

We're here because we want some advises from strangers & listen to fictions & true stories.

I have a friend who's mistress went up to his family's house in the dead of night, knocked on the door told the shellshocked wife then slit her wrist in front of them....

Another, has the PRC mistress here. Has a boy with her & living a double life for many years now. He has a daughter with his wife.

Why I chose to keep a mistress? Get a good fuck & find some love. I'm sure you guys know, you screw around but 100% of all the 9/10 FRs are worthless IMHO. When you're doing it with someone who put in real love, raw & the explosive orgasm can sometimes knock your brains out to empty your bank

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

PRC KTV girls always like to hook rich married men.. their ultimate contentment is break up a happy S'pore family

I disagree... My GF told me that lucky I am not married else she will never be with me as she dun want to break up people's family.. bad karma

My GF told me that some guy about 40 y/o wanted to marry her in SG and get her PR. She declined and the fella went to marry another 30+y/o PRC who told him that she will work in SG as WL for 2 years to earn for their future.

My GF told me that the guy is an idiot and who the hell can accept their eife to work as WL after they are married in SG. Anyway, she happily "carrot" those bros who dun mind buying her gifts too, give or sell them away the moment she is sick of it.

Thank goodness, she does not do it to me.. YET