Is there true love between us and PRC WL

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Bro porcheclub

Being married throws a spanner into the whole eqn.

Even for me, I am using this trip to gauge how far our relationship should go as I dun want things to get ultra deep for both of us before we are certain of our feelings for each other.

Like bros in many threads have posted before.. $$ can be earned back but the emotional hurt done will scar u for life

Sorry, bro I didn't read your full story but in the 1st place can you accept a WL as a wife? Someone who slept with countless others to be with you for the rest of the life or a moment in your life? If your love is strong enough to overcome this nagging Q, then go for it but she must give you her everything. Everything that she ever wants to be with you in the name of love. To be fair, you've screwed around as well huh

If you've done your research, now is the time to do the ground work but always make sure you have contigency plans. If the situation becomes fishy, do a "ghost" check & bail out.

Emotional pain will go away with time. Scars & memories will stay but life goes on. You still need to work & eat, find happiness till the day we die.

Btw, good luck.

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

I disagree... My GF told me that lucky I am not married else she will never be with me as she dun want to break up people's family.. bad karma

Anyway, she happily "carrot" those bros who dun mind buying her gifts too, give or sell them away the moment she is sick of it.

Thank goodness, she does not do it to me.. YET

Hahaha, mine told me the same. But each day she loves me more & she wants more of me. Then, she gets jealous about the wife. Wants me to really marry her in future then she'll have our kid (she only wants one). She will not want to be a single mother. When she has me, she'll be guaiguai & be a nice housewife. She won't need any house or whatever since she's THE wife.

I told her maybe we can get married in LasVegas

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Bro porscheclub, here's what i think.

Here's my suggestion to you....and it's the only logical one that you can N must take....
You luv her
You claim she became mother theresa for you
Ask her for a child
Yes a child
Only then you will get a place not for her but your kid with her rite to stay there
If not, watever it is, you loose.....
Tink abt it bro....all other options equals loose loose for you...but since you really luv her n she claims she luvs you...then having a family is a matter of time.......
Wat ya reckon?

Illegitimate kid? Not ideal for the future. I don't want a stranger coming over to my family to vie for money when I die. Another cruel thing is to have the child grow up without a proper family. This is the same reason why I'm in a painful state. I want my kids to have a family, the heart is not much with the wife anymore.

You guys may ask, 5/6 months with another woman to give up? I can say is even without the new woman. The heart faltered. The new one is a catalyst. I told my wife I may want to be a monk even before I met the new one.

Anyway, my gal's willing to have a kid with me provided I can marry her. Right now, she's willing to wait patiently while I provide her comfort. Haiiii no money no love. I'll see how much love she can give when there's no money.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

Sorry, bro I didn't read your full story but in the 1st place can you accept a WL as a wife? Someone who slept with countless others to be with you for the rest of the life or a moment in your life? If your love is strong enough to overcome this nagging Q, then go for it but she must give you her everything. Everything that she ever wants to be with you in the name of love. To be fair, you've screwed around as well huh

If you've done your research, now is the time to do the ground work but always make sure you have contigency plans. If the situation becomes fishy, do a "ghost" check & bail out.

Emotional pain will go away with time. Scars & memories will stay but life goes on. You still need to work & eat, find happiness till the day we die.

Btw, good luck.

I have thought about this and actually I am surprised that I have no issues with accepting her... Hengz my style is never to introduce FL to people who know we well in person as I dun want to have issues.

Anyway, her working look is totally different from normal look so most people will not recognise her.

Contingency plans is a must... and I will bail out if I find that she is lying to me...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Why did i suggest wat i suggested?
It's because we cannot think on the same normal plane like we do with most of our local gals.
It may sound cruel n selfish to most but remember, we hv to look from outside the box.
Do not look at it from the heart but look at it from an investment point of view.
She wants security/insurance from you fair...then wat about you?
Like a lamb on the chopping board waiting for the knife to come down?

Think with your brain but dun let your heart control you.
Time will reveal all....but now its still too early.

Trust me dude, I ain't saying that she's one bad bitch but think about it this way....
If you set your mind to the worst, anything that happens, you're ready n mentally prepared to take the blow......anything better is plain bonus and you will appreciate more.....but if you look the other way, then you'll have lots more to loose.

Like you said but i'll rephrase it for you...
NO MONEY NO HONEY
LUV CAN'T FILL ONE'S TUMMY...$$$ WILL
That's int'l dude not just PRC

[EtherC]

Bro Porsche a wife is not a sex toy. You can't just get tired and think of abandoning her. She bore you 2 kids, doesn't that amount to anything? I have to say you're one hell of a selfish prick. You have responsibilities as a father and a husband, those are your priorities. Firstly you chose to get married to this woman. Secondly your kids didn't choose to be born as your children. As a parent you should not be thinking what your children can do for you, parental love is unconditional. These are not pedigree dogs you rear to earn you dough at dog shows. You talk about karma and becoming a monk, you should jolly well know that your sins won't be absolved by choosing monkhood as an escape route. Moreover are you sure you won't get tired of this new love? Do you wish to spend your life renewing this vicious cycle of leaving old loves for new flames and in turn getting poorer and accumulating more sins? I don't believe you to be some naive fool and I'm writing this because I think you just need a change in perspective. Happiness can be found in the simplest things in life, are you looking in the right direction?

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Why did i suggest wat i suggested?
It's because we cannot think on the same normal plane like we do with most of our local gals.
It may sound cruel n selfish to most but remember, we hv to look from outside the box.
Do not look at it from the heart but look at it from an investment point of view.
She wants security/insurance from you fair...then wat about you?
Like a lamb on the chopping board waiting for the knife to come down?

Think with your brain but dun let your heart control you.
Time will reveal all....but now its still too early.

Trust me dude, I ain't saying that she's one bad bitch but think about it this way....
If you set your mind to the worst, anything that happens, you're ready n mentally prepared to take the blow......anything better is plain bonus and you will appreciate more.....but if you look the other way, then you'll have lots more to loose.

Like you said but i'll rephrase it for you...
NO MONEY NO HONEY
LUV CAN'T FILL ONE'S TUMMY...$$$ WILL
That's int'l dude not just PRC

Ya.. it applies to all girls nowadays... haiz

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

Illegitimate kid? Not ideal for the future. I don't want a stranger coming over to my family to vie for money when I die. Another cruel thing is to have the child grow up without a proper family. This is the same reason why I'm in a painful state. I want my kids to have a family, the heart is not much with the wife anymore.

Bro, since you say that, what about your current family and kids?
If eventually you leave the wife for this gal then i suppose your current kids will be left with nothing but an incomplete family.
I am not sure and are in no position to comment about your issues with the wife, but cherish what you REALLY have at present. They(your kids) are your flesh and blood, you are thier teacher and hero in life.

Lets put this way, if you are a 20 yr old now and in truth and evidence your dad keeps a mistress and had not walk out of the current marraige. What will you feel towards your dad??

And lets put it in another way. If you are a 20 yr old and your gf had a lover behind you. What will you feel towards her??

I know, her words are sweet, her body is electrifying, her companionship makes you feel 18 again, the sex was good. But, is she worth more than your kids??

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Ya.. it applies to all girls nowadays... haiz

Yup maybe bros here might be thinking I am making excuses but i don't think she is wrong in asking the man she love to provide her for $$$ security as it is the most realistic form of security you can get out there.

It is only wrong if she know that that guy is at his financial limit and yet she keep milking him for more dough and yes she know after I give her the 2.5k I will be a bit hard up so thus she stop asking me to buy things & go eat at restaurants or upscale eatery. Meals now happily settled at GL kopi tiam.

From the things I have posted on this thread, bros might think i am hard which I am not 100% denying, It is just I have to scrimp & save slightly a bit more from now on.

Plan to do so as I already have the intention to go on the long run with her by bringing her over here. So thus lesser bonking trips to GL can save up quite a bit. Haha

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Yup maybe bros here might be thinking I am making excuses but i don't think she is wrong in asking the man she love to provide her for $$$ security as it is the most realistic form of security you can get out there.

It is only wrong if she know that that guy is at his financial limit and yet she keep milking him for more dough and yes she know after I give her the 2.5k I will be a bit hard up so thus she stop asking me to buy things & go eat at restaurants or upscale eatery. Meals now happily settled at GL kopi tiam.

From the things I have posted on this thread, bros might think i am hard which I am not 100% denying, It is just I have to scrimp & save slightly a bit more from now on.

Plan to do so as I already have the intention to go on the long run with her by bringing her over here. So thus lesser bonking trips to GL can save up quite a bit. Haha

Erhhh... u tinking of bonking others so soon??

aiyoh... She is still here ley... hahaha

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Yup maybe bros here might be thinking I am making excuses but i don't think she is wrong in asking the man she love to provide her for $$$ security as it is the most realistic form of security you can get out there.

It is only wrong if she know that that guy is at his financial limit and yet she keep milking him for more dough and yes she know after I give her the 2.5k I will be a bit hard up so thus she stop asking me to buy things & go eat at restaurants or upscale eatery.

Well, I am very proud of you.
It ain't everyday we see a carrot head to be proudly proclaim his KILL when he's actually the KILL..haha
Like I just can't understand why you post so much in all those threads.....
It's like washing all your dirty linen in public and looking for a tap on the back....hey...you gotta leave lala land & come back to the real world.....

Trust me, the killer here is this, the feeling.
Humping for the sake of flesh never feels that good when it's with feeling ya...
Like I always use this on PRCs 被人插跟做爱的感觉永远不一样的
This is the HOOK that's pulling U

If she had brains, she won't need to milk you.....you'll milk yourself for her....and then proclaim like you're doing it n she didn't ask for anything...all your willing intention...not her fault blah blah...so poor thing....

All your posts to date are textbook of a statistic.

Remember this post bro, for you will bang your head when u are forced to reflect back.

I am feeling evil, any bros out there wanna start a sidebet to see if this guy kills or becomes a kill??????

Tip, go check her phone log once you're there and see if you can see anymore SG numbers besides yours...lots of PRCs dunno the log function of phones...only know how to delete dialed, received, sent & received SMSs

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Tip, go check her phone log once you're there and see if you can see anymore SG numbers besides yours...lots of PRCs dunno the log function of phones...only know how to delete dialed, received, sent & received SMSs

U "evil" ler... hahaha...

But I did check my GF phone when she was still in SG... quite satisfied that most numbers are overseas and she later voluntarily admit that one of the entries was for her ex-bf who loan her VISA money to come SG

I checked on her China numbers by asking friends in PRC to call them and find some info so ... (Anyway, if she really want to hide anything, she will keep those records on paper and not on phone loh)

I pretend I dun know anything though as I have found the best way to treat a WL before u can trust her is to be as cunning as them.. throw in half-truths and pretend to be smart yet sometime act silly so that they dun know wat the hell in on your mind.

I know mind games are bad but they are essential for the first part of any relationships esp if the other party is a season player..I am juz glad that I dun haf to play such games with her now.

[ekemono]

isn't easy for anyone with 2 cents worth of brain to learn how to delete call log? I mean they do come in chinese langauge menu.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by ekemono

isn't easy for anyone with 2 cents worth of brain to learn how to delete call log? I mean they do come in chinese langauge menu.

Haha u'd be surprised.......
Think to date only 2 that i know actually knows how to use the log...the others use the traditional method of deleting without knowing the log got all......hahaha

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by EtherC

Happiness can be found in the simplest things in life, are you looking in the right direction?

Yes, that's why don't anyhow get married. I'm sure a lot of people out there knows that deep inside, the one they married is not the one they love most.

We're all sinful. Or wouldn't be looking @ this site