The one you marry, is not the one you loved most? - Page 34

vesfreq · #**496** 18-01-2007, 12:39 AM

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Originally Posted by dj1979

sorry bros, will be spending V day alone.. will be a sad day for mi, just hide in own room. wont be going out, cant take the couple holding hands scene.

Don't be. Its not that bad a day. I used to hide in the room, but life has to go on.

Deztruct · #**497** 18-01-2007, 01:05 AM

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Originally Posted by vesfreq

Don't be. Its not that bad a day. I used to hide in the room, but life has to go on.

life goes on but sometimes u cant help but to hide..for this v day..i chose to go overseas..actually all along my plans to travel for tat day are not firm yet but todae i saw her again face to face..but when tat moment we chose to turn our eyes away..i made up to go away and immediately..i made plans and confirm my tix

dom01 · #**498** 18-01-2007, 04:50 AM

Well, sometimes.. I think what is love?
It is about finding the right person?
OR
Loving the one you found?

jng1103 · #**499** 18-01-2007, 05:26 AM

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Originally Posted by dom01

Well, sometimes.. I think what is love?
It is about finding the right person?
OR
Loving the one you found?

Good question...!!! Regardless of the answer, I still prefer to being loved more than I love her. Once bitten twice shy... just to pretect myself bah...

jimbo

Happywheel · #**500** 18-01-2007, 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Deztruct

life goes on but sometimes u cant help but to hide..for this v day..i chose to go overseas..actually all along my plans to travel for tat day are not firm yet but todae i saw her again face to face..but when tat moment we chose to turn our eyes away..i made up to go away and immediately..i made plans and confirm my tix

find a part-time gf in overseas...unfortunately i can't overseas as v'day is few days away from CNY..
hehehe otherwise i will also want to fly off to somewhere

dirtymonk82 · #**501** 18-01-2007, 11:08 AM

这年頭...愛情都被狗狗吃嘞

OceanEleven · #**502** 18-01-2007, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by dirtymonk82

这年頭...愛情都被狗狗吃嘞

或许你还没找到那个可以令你感到晴天霹雳，倾国倾城，掏心陶肺的她吧。

vesfreq · #**503** 18-01-2007, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Deztruct

life goes on but sometimes u cant help but to hide..for this v day..i chose to go overseas..actually all along my plans to travel for tat day are not firm yet but todae i saw her again face to face..but when tat moment we chose to turn our eyes away..i made up to go away and immediately..i made plans and confirm my tix

Oh boy. Its heartaching. Going abroad just to avoid her?

I used to turn away whenever I was about to be emotionally involved. The more I tried to walk away, the more painful. The more I stopped running away, the better it felt.

Love is like that lovely stalk of rose which you saw lying peacefully in the garden. The moment you know this is the rose, what would you do? Leave the rose and pretend that you had never seen it before or to just spend just a few moments appreciating its fragrance and beaut?

Cheer up. Hope u have a good overseas trip too.

surfer888 · #**504** 18-01-2007, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by vesfreq

Love is like that lovely stalk of rose which you saw lying peacefully in the garden. The moment you know this is the rose, what would you do? Leave the rose and pretend that you had never seen it before or to just spend just a few moments appreciating its fragrance and beaut?

The alternative would be to pluck the rose, enjoy it to oneself while it wilts away?

Deztruct · #**505** 19-01-2007, 01:18 AM

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Originally Posted by vesfreq

Oh boy. Its heartaching. Going abroad just to avoid her?

I used to turn away whenever I was about to be emotionally involved. The more I tried to walk away, the more painful. The more I stopped running away, the better it felt.

Cheer up. Hope u have a good overseas trip too.

I noe tat its beta to face it than to run away..there is only so far u can run..1 thing i hv learned is that ur body can run away but ur heart will always remain..but for me tis time round..i guess there is no reason for me to stay on v day..as much as i tried..i realised tat somehow i still get affected by her whenever i see her..when i dun see her..its ok...the only gd thing tat when she see me these few times..i happen to be with different gers..so mayb she will think tat i already got over her

jinrenhe · #**506** 19-01-2007, 02:40 AM

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Originally Posted by dj1979

sorry bros, will be spending V day alone.. will be a sad day for mi, just hide in own room. wont be going out, cant take the couple holding hands scene.

My suggestion for all bros who similarly dread the day is to stay at home but enjoy urself.

This is usually my plan for such plan--- after class, quickly dash for the exit as soon as possible, very important to avoid the crowd since u may see many happy couples, worse is see the gal u like with her date... that happen to me before, literally spoil my day

ok, then put on a cap & head for the video rental store near my place and rent a few nice movies that always too busy to watch, preferable to rent those comedy or the main character is a lonely man that type ... got one i intend to rent is Russian bride , about a lonelyman paying for a bride from russia (nicole kidman) hehehe... then go to the hawker centre ta pau some nice food like black pepper steak (dun go Jack plc lar, meant for candle-light dinner), satay, ngoh-hiang etc and bring all the barack barack home..
Go home close door, open a can of Heinken beer (my fav) and play movie...

it's important to enjoy oneself, esp since no one to enjoy with...

dom01 · #**507** 19-01-2007, 04:31 AM

Well.. love is like flying a kite.
When the string is too tight, release more
Too slack, pull tight.
Dun like? Change the kite.

Y did the gal run away? B'coz I started "chasing" her. I chase harder, she ran even further away. Hahah... is life....

OceanEleven · #**508** 19-01-2007, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by dom01

Well.. love is like flying a kite.

Y did the gal run away? B'coz I started "chasing" her. I chase harder, she ran even further away. Hahah... is life....

No pain no gain, never try never know.

vesfreq · #**509** 19-01-2007, 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Deztruct

I noe tat its beta to face it than to run away..there is only so far u can run..1 thing i hv learned is that ur body can run away but ur heart will always remain..but for me tis time round..i guess there is no reason for me to stay on v day..as much as i tried..i realised tat somehow i still get affected by her whenever i see her..when i dun see her..its ok...the only gd thing tat when she see me these few times..i happen to be with different gers..so mayb she will think tat i already got over her

The more you try the harder it is. Love is like a labyrinth full of mirrors. The harder you try, the more you find yourself caught in it.

If everything can be like a fairy tale from Cinderella where the guy and the girl will end up together, life would have been more beautiful. But, fairy tales are only possible, if one is willing. To put everyone's hands together and to try to weave things into the way everyone would want the ending to be.

The coming of the end is when we stop believing. Yet, do we mean what we do sometimes? To grief in the heart, while pretending no tear was shed.

The feeling of being in love is like a feeling above the heavens... indescribable.

Often, when she tells me "Ai Yi Ge Ren Bu Yi Ding Yao Yong You", I would feel a kind of grief. Does it mean we are chasing after shadows? To pretend that forever means being able to see her tomorrow and again. Eternity feels like a dream that can never be caught with my mortal hands. It vanishes as how snow flakes would melt and seep away from my hands... leaving behind the bitter sweetness of that feeling of ever being in love.

Perhaps, it would be better that man never had the ability to miss, so all love relationships that began will never come with regret.

vesfreq · #**510** 19-01-2007, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by surfer888

The alternative would be to pluck the rose, enjoy it to oneself while it wilts away?

Thanks. That was what I thought.