ShangHai Recommendation!

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Sigh... Failed in my weekend ONS attempts - Total failure. I think I am too Young that no one took me seriously

Dun worry, u r young n charming, 2nd to shengge.... u still have a lot of chances.

[nongho]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Hi Bro nongho,
I think you gave me the contact of Xiao Pang, right? Well, when I was there, I called her number, and she said she was not working there, and at that moment, she was with her mother. I therefore did not have a chance to meet her. I did meet one Dong Bei girl, and a NTTL girl. I did not do shuang fei with them as the Dong Bei girl was flat chested.

I look forward to meet you in person as well. But, I am now stuck in Euroland, sigh... with no activities. Last weekend scored zero, so ended up going back to my apartment alone.

With best regards

PTR

Yah Xiao Pan....oh she has already left the place. Well don't think I would be anywhere near to Sichuan in the near future. But really do hope so. I'll be going to HK more often. Hope to see you in Sichuan if possible.

Take care in Euroland

Cheers
nongho

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by nongho

Yah Xiao Pan....oh she has already left the place. Well don't think I would be anywhere near to Sichuan in the near future. But really do hope so. I'll be going to HK more often. Hope to see you in Sichuan if possible.

Take care in Euroland

Cheers
nongho

Dear Bro nongho,

The Dong Bei girl that I had knew Xiao Pan also. Sigh... Xiao Pan is definitely better than the one I had.

If I can make it to Hong Kong, I shall PM you as well. It has been quite a while since I last visited Hong Kong. Need a lead from you.

Regards from Euroland

PTR

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by nongho

Hi Bro PTR,

So long never checked in this thread have to skim through 10-20 pages to know what is happening.

I agree with what most of the bros here had mentioned regarding ONS. I seldom cheong pubs or discos anymore as age has caught up with me too. To me ONS is like what Bro shengge says “One night and No Sex”. So now only visit HC once a blue moon if the urge arises.

Personally I believe that TIME=MONEY, 时间就是金钱. If you have the time to spare by all means go hook up someone. For me I don’t have the time so I just pay to satisfy my needs. I’m considered an expat but getting a local expat meager salary, I have bills to pay, transport and food to cover. I’m not those that’s comes here with the company paying for all your expenses. So I do think twice about spending my money and where it goes.

Cheers
nongho

Yo Bro Nongho,Big Bro PTR & all,
Many very well said statements by all bros! ONS is a eventual monetary issue involvement afterall should those who have been asking for it here online......

Going in depth into the monies spent on dinner & wine prior to bonking the gal, isn't that equals up to paying a price eventually?? Sigh.......as Big Bro PTR, Shengge, Shanghian, Nongho yourself and afew other Snr & wise bros here mentioned 'There NO free lunch in this world'.....especially when it comes to Big Land China man!

A sincere word to those bros who's asking for 'ONS', pls bear in mind it might even comes with a big big price to pay in the end!

This is China, not a Developed Country........mentality still hasn't reached what the Developed countries culture as yet. Can wish for it still but don't expect it!

Cheers..........

[PuTonRen]

Hi Bro SGPShanghai69,

To add to what you have said in the last post on ONS, please allow me to share with brothers here an incident.

I was with a brother in Shanghai and both of us were with one "girl friend" each. After we had a long walk on the Nanjing Dong Lu shopping mall. We sat down at a cafe. There was a goldsmith shop nearby. The two girls happily walked into it, and both my friend and I continued to drink our coffee. Both came back empty handed. We did not ask why.

Later, my friend told me that his girl was interested to buy an item but found it to be expensive, My so call girl friend told her "Ask you Man to pay for it!" When I related this incident to another girl whom I have known for more than 5 years. She said "We, the Chinese girls will not use our own money to buy these expensive items! What are boy friends for then?"

If you want to maintain a relationship, be prepared to pay for these extras! ONS does not come cheap, there might be a lot of extras. Although the girl I was with has never done this to me, caused I made known to her our conditions to be together, but the in-borm character remains still very much in them. All Brothers, I do not generalise and I have no right to. The problem is how we know that the girl we are with does not fall into this category? It a million dollar question! The cheapest solution then is to exercise caution.

Best of luck to all from this sunny day in Euroland.

Regards

PTR

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Hi Bro SGPShanghai69,

To add to what you have said in the last post on ONS, please allow me to share with brothers here an incident.

If you want to maintain a relationship, be prepared to pay for these extras! ONS does not come cheap, there might be a lot of extras. Although the girl I was with has never done this to me, caused I made known to her our conditions to be together, but the in-borm character remains still very much in them. All Brothers, I do not generalise and I have no right to. The problem is how we know that the girl we are with does not fall into this category? It a million dollar question! The cheapest solution then is to exercise caution.

Best of luck to all from this sunny day in Euroland.

Regards

PTR

Hi there Big Bro PTR,
Greetings from Sunny Shanghai now...............

Golden words to us all from you, the Experienced, Weathered, Wise Young Man...................

Another sentence to share with those whom still believed in ONS here even after all these words shared herein by many bros.................

Exercise extra cautions.........and Pay & Forget!
Cheers to all.............

[Daemoon]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Hi Bro SGPShanghai69,

To add to what you have said in the last post on ONS, please allow me to share with brothers here an incident.

I was with a brother in Shanghai and both of us were with one "girl friend" each. After we had a long walk on the Nanjing Dong Lu shopping mall. We sat down at a cafe. There was a goldsmith shop nearby. The two girls happily walked into it, and both my friend and I continued to drink our coffee. Both came back empty handed. We did not ask why.

Later, my friend told me that his girl was interested to buy an item but found it to be expensive, My so call girl friend told her "Ask you Man to pay for it!" When I related this incident to another girl whom I have known for more than 5 years. She said "We, the Chinese girls will not use our own money to buy these expensive items! What are boy friends for then?"

If you want to maintain a relationship, be prepared to pay for these extras! ONS does not come cheap, there might be a lot of extras. Although the girl I was with has never done this to me, caused I made known to her our conditions to be together, but the in-borm character remains still very much in them. All Brothers, I do not generalise and I have no right to. The problem is how we know that the girl we are with does not fall into this category? It a million dollar question! The cheapest solution then is to exercise caution.

Best of luck to all from this sunny day in Euroland.

Regards

PTR

Dear Bro PTR..

Well said! I have been going with a Shanghai gal for 1 month, pay for all the shit when we go out, and still got to buy presents for her. Furthermore sometime she will call her other gals friends.. and i also pay for everything....
And until now... i still havent bonk her yet.. cos everytime she keep rejecting me once i advance to more than kissing....

So my personal advice to all bros to ONS... try at ur own risk.... maybe u guys will have better luck... anyway i have gave up on this girl.... better stick with HC....

daemoon

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by Daemoon

Dear Bro PTR..

Well said! I have been going with a Shanghai gal for 1 month, pay for all the shit when we go out, and still got to buy presents for her. Furthermore sometime she will call her other gals friends.. and i also pay for everything....
And until now... i still havent bonk her yet.. cos everytime she keep rejecting me once i advance to more than kissing....
daemoon

Yo Bro Daemoon,
Nice example shared herein with all bros. The consolation is you're not the only one that encountered it. Be it myself or any other bros here been there, done that!

Just contantly remind ourselves that they are what they are, just simply lay off if things are not getting along track as what we planned for.

End of the day, consider yourself fortunate that you haven't bonk her yet otherwise she'll start asking for a house from you bro.....................

Cheers!

[shanghian]

Originally Posted by Daemoon

Well said! I have been going with a Shanghai gal for 1 month, pay for all the shit when we go out, and still got to buy presents for her. Furthermore sometime she will call her other gals friends.. and i also pay for everything....
And until now... i still havent bonk her yet.. cos everytime she keep rejecting me once i advance to more than kissing....

Bro Daemoon,
Sad to hear of your progress towards ONS wif your Shanghai MM but you might be just soooooo close. One more meal, one more present...maybe???? worth a gamble??These "investments" are necessary for ONS and some may like the challenge ( don't like challenge go HC ..sure hit and fix cost RMB 680) but it requires a bit of patience and lots of "Chairman Mao".
I guess we all talk about ONS but no one said it was for free??? No Free Fucks is what I guess we are all saying...you either pay up front or pay later and my choice is to pay up front..fuck and forget else the bill can come to a sum I cannot afford to pay ... suggest you either drop her a hint about how frustrated you are or just drop her and write off your "investment" as bad debts ( or was it "bed" debts).

just my 2 cents

cheers

shanghian

[shengge]

Originally Posted by Daemoon

i still havent bonk her yet.. cos everytime she keep rejecting me once i advance to more than kissing....

So my personal advice to all bros to ONS... try at ur own risk.... maybe u guys will have better luck... anyway i have gave up on this girl.... better stick with HC....

Dear Bro Daemoon,
Thanks for sharing your encounter with us here.
Don't feel sad or bad, just that the wronged way to learn the lesson. This is the situation in China, you need "Chairman Mao" to get things settled.
After all, for your case still not that bad; some worst ones, like blackmail, rob and etc.

One story I heard many years ago was, one ang moh worked in Beijing, he went to Chongqing for a project commissioning start-up, staying there for a few months. Met this local mm, slowly he ended up staying at her home; got home cooked food, nicely treated from the mm mum. When project completed, he flew back to Beijing, thinking that he could run off with it. The mm went to Beijing with her mum to look for him. They camp right at the hall of the office building. In the end, he was fired, the company moved out of the building.

Well, many have pointed out the fact, but I guess, there are some "experts" out there still thinking that they can hit ONS at the very first nite and run after that. I think we have said enough, good luck to them.

Ever wonder why "SHOPPING in the Parkson Department Store at Central HuaiHai Road, Shanghai, one could easily mistake the weekdays for weekends" as posted at page 352, may be there are a lot of carrot head buying stuff for the mm mah..................haha!

Got to go! Enjoy your stay in Shanghai!
Cheers!
Shengge!

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Yo Bro Daemoon,
Nice example shared herein with all bros. The consolation is you're not the only one that encountered it. Be it myself or any other bros here been there, done that!

Just contantly remind ourselves that they are what they are, just simply lay off if things are not getting along track as what we planned for.

End of the day, consider yourself fortunate that you haven't bonk her yet otherwise she'll start asking for a house from you bro.....................

Cheers!

Brother Daemoon, Shanghian and SGPShanghai ,

Sure enough, there are still many people who still think like I always preach on the excuse that the brothers give themselves: "She is different, she is not after my money". They realised, ONLY after having spent so much, that they have been had. Bro Daemoon, take it as a blessing that you had finally pulled out from this trick. The worst things is to know what the girls are talking amongst themselves, quoting what I have overheard one day in a small chinese restaurant where two girls were talking "that man is so stupid, until now, he is still paying for everything I wanted to buy. He said that he would pay for my rent as well. I only allow him to touch my toe, and I am sure he would come back so that I would go to bed with him!".

As for me, I had an encounter, the same Harbin girl that Bro SGPShanghai69 and I were talking about. She just bought a new Nokia phone herself. After he had seen tHE Motorola V70 that my friend was holding, she kept pestering me to buy her one. Of course I did not. One day along Huai Hai lu, outside the KFC, she smashed her new phone on the road and told me that her phone was spoit and she needed a new one. I told her to fly kite and reminded her that she smashed the phone herself. She then said that if I did not buy, I would not be able to contact her. I said "that's okay, you have my phone number, you can contact me if you want to see me again", and walked off. We must be firm and always ready to let go of her.

My 2 cent worth.

Regards from Euroland.


PTR

[nongho]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

I told her to fly kite and reminded her that she smashed the phone herself. She then said that if I did not buy, I would not be able to contact her. I said "that's okay, you have my phone number, you can contact me if you want to see me again", and walked off. We must be firm and always ready to let go of her.

My 2 cent worth.

Regards from Euroland.


PTR

Wah Bro PTR...you are my new idol liao....so MAN!!!....
hahaha...must learn from you already....
Ask her go "fly kite" which bro shengge would totally agree too...
I would probably give her 2 tight slap and bring her face down and smash with my knee.

This doesn't just apply to us expats. It applies to the local shanghainese guy as well. Heard this story from collegues that a guy friend of theirs has a girlfriend that like asking the boyfriend to buy her new mobile everytime she fancies something new. Her boyfriend already like bought her like 3 mobile phones already and yet the guy himself is still carrying those old models without colour screen type. The mobiles which the girl used before is given to her parents as they have agreed. The guy is like so broke that he had to borrow money from other people to buy the new 4000rmb phone. Is it love? or just the saying of shanghainese men are weak?

I don't know and I don't give a damn but I think the girl would deserve my 2 tight slaps and knee.

cheers
nongho

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by nongho

Wah Bro PTR...you are my new idol liao....so MAN!!!....
hahaha...must learn from you already....
Ask her go "fly kite" which bro shengge would totally agree too...
I would probably give her 2 tight slap and bring her face down and smash with my knee.

This doesn't just apply to us expats. It applies to the local shanghainese guy as well.
I don't know and I don't give a damn but I think the girl would deserve my 2 tight slaps and knee.

cheers
nongho

Bro Nongho,

Don't make me shy lah! I am just sharing my humble experience with brothers here. I did have moments of weakness during which, I have to face the music. It is just that with age, one gets to be wiser due to the accummulation of expensive experiences.

Who knows I would have slapped her hard hard if I were young at that time. I just felt that I did not want to dirty my hands. In fact, for my sake, Bro SGPShanghai69 hates her for what she was doing to me. Thanks Bro!

I had written quite a lot of my bad experiences in this thread, in which you will see my moments of weakness, that go to show that I am just like any other ordinary man, well, Old man.

With best regards from Euroland

PTR

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

I had written quite a lot of my bad experiences in this thread, in which you will see my moments of weakness, that go to show that I am just like any other ordinary man, well, Old man.

A lot of cheongsters, including me this old man has bad experiences. Who in this world always make the right decision/choice??? BTW pls refrain from using the above bold n bigger font word to describe yourself. Young man, when shall we have dinner again?? In which country??

[Daemoon]

Yo Bro Daemoon,
End of the day, consider yourself fortunate that you haven't bonk her yet otherwise she'll start asking for a house from you bro.....................

Cheers![/QUOTE]

Bro SGPshanghai69,

After thinking about wat you have said... i think this could be a blessing in disguise after all...... the cost of a house in Shanghai can allow me to go HC.... for a long long long time...

cheers
daemoon