Is there true love between us and PRC WL

[warbird]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

...I met this Dalian gal early this year & over the pass 5 months, we became a pair of yuanyang. She's a singer in a high class KTV & when we met, she's just 3 months into this scene or so she said. She does not sell (I've checked on it) & since she's just about 20 then, she's pretty green in this trade. She's got quite a temper to match as well & she's known to have walked out on a few customers who got touchy with her. Somehow.....we clicked, maybe it was love @ first sight...

...Oh yes, & did I forget to mention that she wants a flat for her & mum? (this costs about S$200K now) ...

Did she work at a high-end KTV near Selegie Rd? According to my reliable frens, all the singers there are available for about 1k/1/1. They ar here for one thing only: as much money as possible in as little time as possible. I hv seen a few of them. They all want to catch a big fish. About 2 months ago, one of ur fellow men dropped 200k at the club in one night to celebrate his engagement to a singer there.

The other big problem in ur future relationship is her bad temper. You'll be miserable. Everything being equal, I would rather marry a 7/10 gal w/ a good temper than a 10/10 w/ a bad temper.

Just my 2 cents.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by warbird

Did she work at a high-end KTV near Selegie Rd? According to my reliable frens, all the singers there are available for about 1k/1/1. They ar here for one thing only: as much money as possible in as little time as possible. I hv seen a few of them. They all want to catch a big fish. About 2 months ago, one of ur fellow men dropped 200k at the club in one night to celebrate his engagement to a singer there.

The other big problem in ur future relationship is her bad temper. You'll be miserable. Everything being equal, I would rather marry a 7/10 gal w/ a good temper than a 10/10 w/ a bad temper.
Just my 2 cents.

here here... a toast to that.

[aczeta76]

Hmmm.... it is a "thinking" day for me..

Haiz.. after many weeks of trying to find Xiao Ping (From Sianren's thread) online, I finally chatted with her "LIVE"

For the entire period, failing to get a response from her after she told me she was safe at home was quite tormenting... We are friends so I tot if she also treat me like that, then me and my GF chances slim liao.

After YTD, felt better and yet strangely sad as I somehow yearn to hold her in my arms but in the end I said "Let's put things behind us and continue to be juz friends, I will visit u if I am around your hometown". That made me close the chapter and a happier man since now I have her as a friend with no SEX attached.

Miss my GF and after reading some online posting, felt worse... luckily, Wu Li is still around so I can get some GFE from her tomorrow (She reminds me of my 1st GF at age 16.. those simple, Chun Chun love)

Well, sharing the chinese postings below.

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[warbird]

Originally Posted by warbird

The other big problem in ur future relationship is her bad temper. You'll be miserable. Everything being equal, I would rather marry a 7/10 gal w/ a good temper than a 10/10 w/ a bad temper.

I meant to write: "Everything else being equal, I would rather marry a 7/10 gal w/ a good temper than a 10/10 w/ a bad temper." Sorry for the typo.

Of course one could make an exception if the 10/10 gal is also very wealthy...ha ha. The strategy here is to get hitched, bonk her everyday, try to stick around for couple of yrs; and when u really can't tahan her terrible temper, divorce her n collect ur tens of millions! But this is a dangerous game, suitable only for men w/ formidable emotional control n detachment. If u fall for her despite her hideous temper, u will be a miserable slave until eternity!

Joking aside, I hv seen both types of men described above. Ok, their wives are not exactly 10/10 but only 8-9/10.

Good night!

[wanrenmiok]

stay away from PRC WL: all these are fakes - my own experience:

In the past, I have known a PRC WL woman for 6 months, she is quite charming and likeable, even her voice sounded so sweet. She once told me I am her dearest person in her life and want to be together with me. Maybe I had told her everything about myself, my pay and expenses...But to prove myself right that she is out to suck me dry dry slowly, I then planned and cocked up a story about myself, how pitiful I had became, and how I lost all my savings convincingly in just 2 weeks.

True to my intuition, she then scolded me very nasty every few days, I also dont know what I have done to deserve that and nobody has ever scolded me that way in my life, she said she had given me many chances, asked me to stop bothering her, and stop calling her anymore, or she will change her hp number!!! Her true colors finally surfaced....

The scenario I wanted happened, how I wish she leave me faster haha!

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by wanrenmiok

stay away from PRC WL: all these are fakes - my own experience:

In the past, I have known a PRC WL woman for 6 months, she is quite charming and likeable, even her voice sounded so sweet. She once told me I am her dearest person in her life and want to be together with me. Maybe I had told her everything about myself, my pay and expenses...But to prove myself right that she is out to suck me dry dry slowly, I then planned and cocked up a story about myself, how pitiful I had became, and how I lost all my savings convincingly in just 2 weeks.

True to my intuition, she then scolded me very nasty every few days, I also dont know what I have done to deserve that and nobody has ever scolded me that way in my life, she said she had given me many chances, asked me to stop bothering her, and stop calling her anymore, or she will change her hp number!!! Her true colors finally surfaced....

The scenario I wanted happened, how I wish she leave me faster haha!

Not just to PRC WL only ..try tell your S'pore or Msia gf that you had no money & no saving for the future and see how they treat you

[Xena]

All chabors need guys to be their financial backer ... so if they dont feel like working, they can just resign, not like us guys ....

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by Xena

All chabors need guys to be their financial backer ... so if they dont feel like working, they can just resign, not like us guys ....

In today world.. this is the fact of life. No money no honey

Minimum basics for girls to consider you - you must have money to buy a 4-room flat & stable income job

S'pore & Msia girls is already behaving money-minded ..let alone those PRC WL lah.

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

here here... a toast to that.

Yes, bro a toast to us indeed!

And i just came back after a holiday trip with my gal

We met in HongKong after a month. A week is tormenting not to mention four & a half. I picked her up @ the airport & we hugged each other for the longest time & tears flowed down her eyes. Luckily, her mascara is waterproof.

This was a sextified trip for both of us, we were literally raping each other like apes. 4D3N of non stop action packed holiday. We discussed many issues, went touring, prayed @ the huang tai xian temple, petted @ a quiet corner in the Peak with a full lighted view of HK nightscape behind us....

She's mellowed a lot & took care of me like a lover and no, she didn't asked for money or commitment. We ate simply, shopped briefly and made out passionately. She's really deeply in love with me. Her orgasm was so intense each time that her face is perpetually pinkish red, dreamy eyes with a moist tender body covered by our sweat. She would want to bear me a child but she'd like a wedding in a church. Young gal's dream....

[MOTORAZR]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

In today world.. this is the fact of life. No money no honey

Minimum basics for girls to consider you - you must have money to buy a 4-room flat & stable income job

S'pore & Msia girls is already behaving money-minded ..let alone those PRC WL lah.

It work like this:

China Girl: they will ask you outright how much you made, you will know most of them are in for the money and a better lifestyle. Sad to say this, but it is like a trade, you provide me with something and i will return in kind.

Singapore Girl: They say they are not materialise, then last time where the 5 Cs come from? They are not materialistic, but they want a guy with a degree, a stable job most likely a manager or something, then car will be an advantage and you have to be funny, caring and pour your concern over them. The best part is most singapore girls hardly or don't cook at all, they are usually terrible in cooking, they are not used to doing house chores. You can say that they earn more BUT they freakingly also spend much more.

Malaysia Girl: Dunno where to start and how to end for Malaysian girls. Hahahaha.

So end up, its really what you want out of a relationship, someone to take care of you or someone of the same level as u...

[Heart Break Kid]

Regardless of nationality, never look for KTV girls or WL lah... all these are low-life fucked up trashes.

Before China girls come to S'pore in 80's & 90's.. there are also s'pore & msia working in nightclubs as GRO selling their bodies but then now when is those old spore & msia niteclub's working ladies. They become old & disappear

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by warbird

Did she work at a high-end KTV near Selegie Rd? According to my reliable frens, all the singers there are available for about 1k/1/1. They ar here for one thing only: as much money as possible in as little time as possible. I hv seen a few of them. They all want to catch a big fish. About 2 months ago, one of ur fellow men dropped 200k at the club in one night to celebrate his engagement to a singer there.

The other big problem in ur future relationship is her bad temper. You'll be miserable. Everything being equal, I would rather marry a 7/10 gal w/ a good temper than a 10/10 w/ a bad temper.

Just my 2 cents.

Ya & 90% of them at Sophia Road are from Sichuan....wif the exception of 1 from singapore and from other places like shenyang...hahahaha

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by MOTORAZR

It work like this:
So end up, its really what you want out of a relationship, someone to take care of you or someone of the same level as u...

It's all the same everywhere & you've got to look beyond nationality. Look, when a woman wants to settle down, the man must be able to provide for her. Love alone cannot feed you. Unless, of course she can provide for herself and when your spouse makes more than you, how long can the prick in you tahan?

20yrs ago when a Singapore guy wants to marry a Malaysian girl. People talk.

Then, Vietnamese, Filipinos, Thai, PRC etc etc. citizens from there just want a better life than home so they'll look elsewhere. If Singapore is still stuck in a 70s era with low education & salary of no more than S$500 today, our gals will be working elsewhere & looking to marry off. What will those people gossip about us?

It's just that the PRCs come in such a huge army these days that the situation get magnified & of course their mentality to strike gold here.

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

Regardless of nationality, never look for KTV girls or WL lah... all these are low-life fucked up trashes.

Not quite true, either you haven't met the good ones or that my eyes got stamp

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

It's all the same everywhere & you've got to look beyond nationality. Look, when a woman wants to settle down, the man must be able to provide for her. Love alone cannot feed you. Unless, of course she can provide for herself and when your spouse makes more than you, how long can the prick in you tahan?

20yrs ago when a Singapore guy wants to marry a Malaysian girl. People talk.

Then, Vietnamese, Filipinos, Thai, PRC etc etc. citizens from there just want a better life than home so they'll look elsewhere. If Singapore is still stuck in a 70s era with low education & salary of no more than S$500 today, our gals will be working elsewhere & looking to marry off. What will those people gossip about us?

It's just that the PRCs come in such a huge army these days that the situation get magnified & of course their mentality to strike gold here.

I admired the PRC girls most because they not only just come to S'pore but also made the S'pore & Msia girls in this island - no place to stand