Fantasy Gal - Bros pls share yur Object of Lust real life stories (pics)

[ansonsohna]

Now royally screwed! Didn't realize that Monday is V-Day.

How can I deny or even siam sammi when she travelled on the way (at her expense) to visit me? How can I come up with excuse to not meet Olive on this day when the preceding days she visited me?

The only good thing is that my MC is over .... wrecking my brain? This is like Singapore Tonardo the serial....

[calex]

i think you should make up who do you want to spend with on the v day. and choose somewhere you need to go to 2 different restauarant at the same shopping centre.. take care and update us with good news..
jiayou bro

[KallIan]

Hmm this is a tricky situation. But I'm sure bro Anson is witty enuf to think of something. Maybe u celebrate with olive on Sunday n tell her Monday u need to OT? Make her happy happy with flower n gift. Then Monday can spend with sammi. Do update us I'm sure all the bro here will be praying all will turn out fine for u

[eurodc]

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

Now royally screwed! Didn't realize that Monday is V-Day.

Bro hope you survive the situation, all praying for you

[calex]

dunnoe how is bro anson fighting his fire... ??? we all here will back you up... need any help.. pm us...

[ansonsohna]

Originally Posted by eurodc

Bro hope you survive the situation, all praying for you

Originally Posted by calex

i think you should make up who do you want to spend with on the v day. and choose somewhere you need to go to 2 different restauarant at the same shopping centre.. take care and update us with good news..
jiayou bro

Just a quick update and an elaboration later:

1) Sammi got back yesterday. I am already missing her. I am also a little insuecure as I mentioned to her that I am "sort of dating" someone from Singapore.

I asked her to confirm our relationship and date exclusive. But Sammi says that she is not ready.

2) Rabbit year is not good for me health-wise. Kena relapse. (That's why never update for so long).

Don't know if Hoong Ki and alcohol is the main cause - but its no more alcohol for me. Fuck still must have - if not might as die!

Write soon. And much kum-siahs for your encouragements. Its very much appreciated.

[calex]

bro, wish you have a fast recovery and take care..

[KallIan]

Bro it's good to hear from u. Rest well n speedy recovery. Remember health is the most important. No health =no money and bonk

[eurodc]

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

Don't know if Hoong Ki and alcohol is the main cause - but its no more alcohol for me. Fuck still must have - if not might as die!

Write soon. And much kum-siahs for your encouragements. Its very much appreciated.

Hey bro, do smoke and drink less for your good health

Not sure how are things between u, sammi and olive but hope to hear from you soon

[KallIan]

Haven't heard from bro anson for awhile. Hope u have fully recovered and can give us some updates soon.

[ansonsohna]

Like to apologise to all for this very loooong break in posting.

I sure that some of you may have guessed the reason. Health and work aside, the main reason is that there is a temporary "cooling" period between me and sammi.

and because of this "cooling" period, got no mood to write anything. so sorry about that guys. hope you understand - gals the beauty and personality of sammi comes to me (at least) once in a life time. even now, i go to vegas, china doll, club infinitude but still cannot find a gal comparable with sammi in terms of looks and appearance (don't even mention the gentle personality bit).

anyway the key reason for the cooling period is because of sammi's knowledge of the existence of Olive.

sammi told me to sort out my relationship with olive as she refused to be a third party. i lied (shamelessly) that me and olive are on the breakup, but sammi told me to be 100% sure as she doesn't not want any wayang and complications in her next relationship.

from sammi mouth (i call her only three times a week - not daily like previously), she says that she is still unattached but is not looking to be attached as she wants to enjoy her "uncomplicated life as a single lady" for a wee bit more.

i have verified with ayumi who confirmed that sammi is still unattached. the bitch even laugh at me and said - "wah! "lao hero" broken heart!"

anyway, given that sammi is so special, i will not give up without a fight. so i made plans to go down to shanghai in april to re-ignite the sparks of the relationship.

(okay okay, i bastard - i still leading olive on and use her as a fallback should my efforts fail with sammi. don't feel good about it but what to do?)

kum siah for your encouragement and support .... the thread still have life! cross fingers and scratch balls!

[eurodc]

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

Like to apologise to all for this very loooong break in posting.

I sure that some of you may have guessed the reason. Health and work aside, the main reason is that there is a temporary "cooling" period between me and sammi.

Hey bro, glad to hear from you again.

Don't worry about writing anything for ur readers, sometimes just pop in to say hi to us, we will be very happy.

Whatever happens, i wish u all the best to reignite the flames with Sammi

[ansonsohna]

Originally Posted by eurodc

Hey bro, glad to hear from you again.

Don't worry about writing anything for ur readers, sometimes just pop in to say hi to us, we will be very happy.

Whatever happens, i wish u all the best to reignite the flames with Sammi

Bro eurodc, thank you for support and encouragement. yurs is a voice of reason.

appreciate your feedback and views on the situation. yes, i do feel bad about treating olive like second hand rose, a fall back shud i not land my fantasy girl.

but yet i cannot and don't want to 'play fair' and do the gentleman thing. breakup with her and go wooing sammi unemcumbered. i want to get sammi first and shud i succeed then release olive. let's face it sammi is a lofty target - not only for me but as well as several other suiters. chances of success far from guaranteed.

so what do you think of this "bastard" attitude? how many if in a similar situation will do what i do? sometimes when i see olive and saw her 'sweet' ways i feel sorry for her and depise myself for treating her such ....

ah yah, the love dilemma: the one you love or the one who loves you ..... conflicted.

PS: .... oh yah, interesting gossip: office lao hiao may have a new bf. so far she refused to elaborate but i suspected that she may know him through the internet. This proves that internet dating is indeed dangerous!

[eurodc]

Bro, i gave you some personal opinion via PM.

Wish you good luck

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

Bro eurodc, thank you for support and encouragement. yurs is a voice of reason.

appreciate your feedback and views on the situation. yes, i do feel bad about treating olive like second hand rose, a fall back shud i not land my fantasy girl.

[ansonsohna]

Originally Posted by eurodc

Bro, i gave you some personal opinion via PM.

Wish you good luck

Bro eurodc, thanks so very much for taking the effort to pen your opinion. Its brilliant and wonderful - you can be a professional counseler or a Dr. Phil bro.

You made one particular point - which I have not considered until now - and it absolutely floored me with its insight!

To quote an extract of your pm: .... "Now u choose whether you want to spend the rest of your life being loved by Olive and spend the rest of your life trying to constantly prove to Sammi she made a right choice to be with you" (emphasis mine!)

wow ... just wow .... I am speechless with the brilliant simplicity and powerful way you put this point across. tks a mil!