my affair with my sis in law - Page 38

loverloverlover · #**556** 21-07-2012, 05:44 AM

A very nice sharing story.
Read it for the whole night.
Really caught my interest of all the threads.

Kenneleon · #**557** 26-07-2012, 10:28 AM

Finally finished all 38 pages of story n comments..great story.
Many great advice and sympathetic audiences..

Wonder how is ts n j now..
But if ts really love j..ts will never try to get back with j..

Jus wondering when ts sl said had tried spicin things up with wife but "we" just couldnt do it..was it mutual or jus bro sl??cuz on other parts,u mentioned ur wife is actually very loving to u..

burney · #**558** 27-07-2012, 02:12 PM

bro thanks for your story ...i love it

wilson80 · #**559** 27-07-2012, 06:20 PM

Any updates. Camping here.

raul1333 · #**560** 13-08-2012, 06:40 PM

hi bro,
Have been following your solid story for some time now.
Any conclusion to this story?Pls update

limesmile · #**561** 13-08-2012, 08:19 PM

very well written, kudos to you

TD0620G · #**562** 13-08-2012, 08:53 PM

Just read your 38 pages of story, thanks for sharing your experience with us..really moving story! Will up u when I find out how to do so.. Haven't been here for many years.

crew · #**563** 14-08-2012, 01:58 AM

Your story is really heart-wrenching...
I can somehow feel the emotions in your text...
Sometimes life doesnt go our way, but its up to us bring it back on track.
Hope all is well, life goes on bro.
All the best!! You'll be fine!!

<<totally>> · #**564** 14-08-2012, 10:11 AM

Completed reading ts's encounter with his SIL and I was moved by what I have read. The main attraction in his story wasn't about how erotic and wild were his sessions surprisingly.
It is the alluring feelings of him for J and J for him that misdirected him in a wrong direction..leading to a relationship that will never be approved. If only that relationship was allowed with some changes of a status and time, TS will be happy guy but that's no going to happen for sure.
TS penned down a pit hole he faced which can lead to serious damages to a family. The aim of the write up is to serve all others a reminder before attempting to handle more that what you think you can chewed.
Unaffected with the mixed reactions from the readers,TS hang on and completed his work hoping to redirect all those in the same plights back onto the correct course.

Nice one, TS

pussyslime · #**565** 14-08-2012, 10:55 AM

Nice Story, keep it up

sukan69@hotmail · #**566** 14-08-2012, 11:56 AM

bro, very meaningful, read the lyrics, take care.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature...&v=HtQrzFSP8w4

reflexk · #**567** 19-08-2012, 11:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by seowlang

she stood up and left.

My stomach was still churning but somewhat still very happy about how the day went. At least J was finally talking to me rather normally now.

And then? ...

Please continue asap, bro seowlang.

randompig · #**568** 20-08-2012, 05:44 AM

Hi brother,

Firstly, I would like to thank you for sharing such an intimate story of your life with the bros here. It is definitely one of the best story ive read in recent years. I finished reading all 38 pages at one shot and was already on bed but can't sleep as I felt the need to ask a question.

Bro, may I know where do you intent to bring your relationship with j till? I know that it is very hard for you to forget about the times u had with her but I just can't see where this relationship is going. I mean you're already married and I'm pretty sure you treasure this marriage very much. If you do, I don't think it's appropriate to lead j along even though she offered to buy you lunch when u had that hangover. From the story you provided, it just seems to me that you can't move along. I don't mean to be rude or intrusive but what I really believe now is that since u already endured the 1 and a half year breakup, why make yourself suffer again by reigniting that flame that might just burn not just you but your marriage?

Do you see where I'm going bro? Since j has already stepped up and cut the relationship off before it can hurt anyone else, why must you keep going back? What I think is the better step to take now is to give j a closure by telling her that you guys should remain as friends but draw the line and not cross it. It might be tempting on both sides but then again, what can you offer her? A weekend only when your wife is busy? A relationship without a title? I might be a little straightforward by I'm sure you do not want to waste J's youth just like that. You know u can't provide her your 'full' love and she deserves better.

I guess it's only this way that you're able to put your guilt to rest and not ruin a girls life. That is unless u have a better plan with a two time relationship which if you don't mind share with us how you would like to execute it.

I feel you bro.
Sincerely

PS. I would like to hear more about any suspicious act from your wife?

randompig · #**569** 20-08-2012, 05:48 AM

Hi brother,

Firstly, I would like to thank you for sharing such an intimate story of your life with the bros here. It is definitely one of the best story ive read in recent years. I finished reading all 38 pages at one shot and was already on bed but can't sleep as I felt the need to ask a question.

Bro, may I know where do you intent to bring your relationship with j till? I know that it is very hard for you to forget about the times u had with her but I just can't see where this relationship is going. I mean you're already married and I'm pretty sure you treasure this marriage very much. If you do, I don't think it's appropriate to lead j along even though she offered to buy you lunch when u had that hangover. From the story you provided, it just seems to me that you can't move along. I don't mean to be rude or intrusive but what I really believe now is that since u already endured the 1 and a half year breakup, why make yourself suffer again by reigniting that flame that might just burn not just you but your marriage?

Do you see where I'm going bro? Since j has already stepped up and cut the relationship off before it can hurt anyone else, why must you keep going back? What I think is the better step to take now is to give j a closure by telling her that you guys should remain as friends but draw the line and not cross it. It might be tempting on both sides but then again, what can you offer her? A weekend only when your wife is busy? A relationship without a title? I might be a little straightforward by I'm sure you do not want to waste J's youth just like that. You know u can't provide her your 'full' love and she deserves better.

I guess it's only this way that you're able to put your guilt to rest and not ruin a girls life. That is unless u have a better plan with a two time relationship which if you don't mind share with us how you would like to execute it.

I feel you bro.
Sincerely

PS. I would like to hear more about any suspicious act from your wife?

Dzakomo · #**570** 20-08-2012, 07:55 PM

Just finished the story from pg 1-39 at one go. TS I like your story. Just my point of view on how I see the whole situation.

You, thread starter, after many tryst with "J" started to get comfortable. Eg. Back from your USA business trips and many other times you demonstrated that "J" will always be 2nd priority to your wife, or even your work. At the beginning it's ok but once the relationship progress and you continue to do that, it's not ok. So at the very least don't state it. White lies are ok too. That incident in the car showroom, going with your wife's colour (black) instead of hers (white) had a devastating effect. It caused her not to feel good about herself and the r/ship. TS you are too honest, but with women white lies are really necessary.

It was natural that one day she would want to end it. It's unbearable to go on. But the relationship will never end. Because she's your SIL. For the months following you just can't get over YOURSELF. Deep down you had feelings for her. She made you feel alive again. But due to obligations to your wife, your marriage, etc. you had never dared to give yourself permission, to put her number 1. Until she cut off communication with you, you felt rejected. And started chasing her back. She was what you wanted now.

That dinner together with M was never a coincidence. J called for it. You felt mind-fcuked and anxious because you couldn’t find the answers you were seeking. You definitely felt jealous. J knew it too. J wanted to see it too at the table. Had you understood it you would have resolved that feeling and be at ease in that situation. That would have scored points with J and she would respect you more after that.

But you had been affected and she could see that you were fighting with yourself inside. To a certain extent she wants to see that too. I believe every woman wants a man that’s not afraid to go after what they want. And they want to be swept off their feet. You were not that guy at the moment. It just reinforce to her that she had not made the wrong decision.

In your latest update, you hangover and she came over to your place. My guess is that whether she has bf already or not isn’t that important. You are probably the man that has significantly changed her life. And that’s most important to her.