woes of a tirak

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Bangkok Master

Frankly speaking, I never regret to make the move to Thailand but regretted why didn't think carefully before making the decision to commit to my gf cos there are lots of hidden agendas which I had never expect to happen. So to all the souls out there, please make sure that you put on your thinking cap and think carefully before you make a decision cos it will affect your rest of your life. Once the commitment is made have to carry on all the way, although a bit regret but have to be responsible for your actions.

So as long that cometimes can still go out and play without any implications will be fine with me.................

Wah, like that I don't think you will be happy. Sometimes not being together might be better for both parties. Because being together after a couple of years, problems arises and women come along, that is when you might reallise the decision that u want to go on with it is actually not right

Until you can come to terms with the hidden agendas that you can carry for life, if not don't commit.

SC

[free]

Originally Posted by Bangkok Master

Where got "zai", cannot judge the book by it's cover, since I'm already here in Thailand may as well make the best of it. Frankly speaking, I never regret to make the move to Thailand but regretted why didn't think carefully before making the decision to commit to my gf cos there are lots of hidden agendas which I had never expect to happen. So to all the souls out there, please make sure that you put on your thinking cap and think carefully before you make a decision cos it will affect your rest of your life. Once the commitment is made have to carry on all the way, although a bit regret but have to be responsible for your actions.

So as long that cometimes can still go out and play without any implications will be fine with me.................

I hope you can make the best of it. Commitment, care and love all takes 2. My prayer for you is that someday, somehow, the 2 of u will be able to look at each other in the eyes and say "if we have to do this all over again, I still choose you". Close yr eyes and visualize what kind of life and future u want to have with her (better still, do it together) and make yr way there. U are a special person in my heart, I pray for and wish that yr innermost dreams be granted.

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by ruhua

Only one solution. One lump sum payment of 'jie shan fei'. Even if it exhaust 90% of your fortune. You never need to ever look back. Nobody loses face.

Money spent can be earned back. Investing in a time bomb is a lifetime of headache.

That's one of the options that I was contemplating to take but I feel gulity if I do that cos probably I had not found the correct time to do so. I admit that I'm soft-hearted but on the other hand I'm "Jao Chuu" so just remember the next time around pls be Strong if you want to be "Jao Chuu".....

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Wah, like that I don't think you will be happy. Sometimes not being together might be better for both parties. Because being together after a couple of years, problems arises and women come along, that is when you might reallise the decision that u want to go on with it is actually not right

Until you can come to terms with the hidden agendas that you can carry for life, if not don't commit.

Well what you said is correct as I had not been feeling happy together for quite sometime but it's the commitment that I had made like many Sg couples after they got married then they realised that it's not their cup of tea but they still carry on the journey due to different factors they faced.

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by free

I hope you can make the best of it. Commitment, care and love all takes 2. My prayer for you is that someday, somehow, the 2 of u will be able to look at each other in the eyes and say "if we have to do this all over again, I still choose you". Close yr eyes and visualize what kind of life and future u want to have with her (better still, do it together) and make yr way there. U are a special person in my heart, I pray for and wish that yr innermost dreams be granted.

Thanks for your blessing, last time I had felt the way you mention but as time goes by, there are no room for romantic issues liao, you will face a lot of problems which you would never thought of. Living in Thailand had taught me to be stronger in terms of handling problems, like the financial aspect plus many many more. I would also hope to close my eyes and think for the good but in reality things are not as expected.

The next move for me is too concentrate on my career first cos without many many "Thai King picture paper", even you got the best tirak in the world but life still sucks!

I hope that your fantasy journey will come true as based on your postings, I believe you're going to settle in Thailand one day and hopefully you're both mentally and financially prepared before you come if not you will be surprised what is in for you!

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Bangkok Master

Well what you said is correct as I had not been feeling happy together for quite sometime but it's the commitment that I had made like many Sg couples after they got married then they realised that it's not their cup of tea but they still carry on the journey due to different factors they faced.

I cannot give too much comments on this issue. But what i do know is if you really rak 100%, then you will not be bothered by the hidden agendas, but work harder towards it. It's because not 100%, thats why the hidden agendas tie you down. Leave the puying, you song sarn. Together, khun kor mai sabai jai. This is what I experienced before. My "grandpa" in this forum ever tell me, if love then together. As time pass longer n longer, very hard to leave and it becomes a burden in the heart. And 1 thing I realised, love do not develop over time for us. Because we are all cheongsters. We have a kind of genes in us that do not allow love to develop over time. If you love a girl, only over a period of time, the love will grow stronger. If you only like a girl and over a period of time, you think you will grow to love the girl, its actually not possible.

Loving someone is to let the person FREE. Set them FREE.

* I am building on good karma to earn my ticket to HEAVEN.
SC

[poolhot.]

Originally Posted by Flying

I'm not suprised u didn't bonk her...but I'm suprised that u didn't SLAP HER....to wake her up...hahaha...coz u nowadays obsessed with slapping people

I didnt slap her cos I like her deep deep...

While I slap u is to WAKE U UP

Haha
PH

[Flying]

Originally Posted by poolhot

I didnt slap her cos I like her deep deep...

While I slap u is to WAKE U UP

Haha
PH

KNN...here u go again...OLE OLE OLE OLE....OLE OLE...

Lanjiao...if history were to repeat itself...I oredi can hear.....

PIAK! PIAK! PIAK! PIAK! PIAK! PIAK!

The more u like her...the harder u will slap her...haha

Piak Piak!!

[suteerak1099]

seems to me that there's alota irrelevent stuff in view of the topic for this thread. just a gentle reminder.. would be nice of u guys out there to share ur woes n joys here, so that we can all learn from each others mistakes. thanx

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

seems to me that there's alota irrelevent stuff in view of the topic for this thread. just a gentle reminder.. would be nice of u guys out there to share ur woes n joys here, so that we can all learn from each others mistakes. thanx

I do many things which cannot reverse anymore. But what I can say is this. EVERY THAI WORKING GAL will LIE. WHOSE TIRAK DON't LIE? Don't be afraid, just say. I will prove you wrong.

SC

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

I do many things which cannot reverse anymore. But what I can say is this. EVERY THAI WORKING GAL will LIE. WHOSE TIRAK DON't LIE? ...SC

SC, seems to me u've survived many perils of tirakship- sometimes unscratched sometimes wounded, nevertheless still alive n kicking. not say i wanna "or-lor" u, bt it seems many words of ur's r nevertheless very true.

i too have experienced n heard alot of sugar coating in the journey of my TRCR (tirakship roller coaster ride), the motion-sickness of the roller-coaster ride is most definately nt for the faint-hearted. well, i presume either many of the fellow samsters here r either too engrossed in their TRCR or not, wounded n licking the battle wounds.

watever it is, sure hope that we dont lose too many warriors in the scene...

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

SC, seems to me u've survived many perils of tirakship- sometimes unscratched sometimes wounded, nevertheless still alive n kicking. not say i wanna "or-lor" u, bt it seems many words of ur's r nevertheless very true.

i too have experienced n heard alot of sugar coating in the journey of my TRCR (tirakship roller coaster ride), the motion-sickness of the roller-coaster ride is most definately nt for the faint-hearted. well, i presume either many of the fellow samsters here r either too engrossed in their TRCR or not, wounded n licking the battle wounds.

watever it is, sure hope that we dont lose too many warriors in the scene...

The times when I was left wounded was when I put my heart into it. And the times when I left unscratched is when I never put my heart into it.

The times being wounded are always more memorable than the ones without.

I still green, building on experience. Not like my "grandpa" 20 years playing thai girls and still going strong. His tirak thesis I think will be no less than our LKY's memoirs

hahaha
SC

[Konkek Johnson]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

The times when I was left wounded was when I put my heart into it. And the times when I left unscratched is when I never put my heart into it.

SC

hiya Sc...didnt know u also in SBF....some more sooooo senior...

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

The times when I was left wounded was when I put my heart into it. And the times when I left unscratched is when I never put my heart into it.

The times being wounded are always more memorable than the ones without...SC

cant say u're wrong. cos when more is invested.. there's more to burn too. bt then again, rships/TRCR would mean nothing if its too smooth sailing n easy going. the more thrills n spills, the more cohesive activites take place...then there's some value in it at the end of the day.

analogy: which is worth more? oil or sugarcane juice?
it takes tonnes of effort to rig black gold, process it into combustable fuel to make things happen. sugarcane is just milled to pulp, n the juice is for drinking or processed into sugar for smaller things in life.

both r just to fulfill mundane needs on daily basis, bt the tougher the results is earned, the better the level of achievement.

so i guess in rship/TRCR, u pay peanuts - u get monkeys lor.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

cant say u're wrong. cos when more is invested.. there's more to burn too. bt then again, rships/TRCR would mean nothing if its too smooth sailing n easy going. the more thrills n spills, the more cohesive activites take place...then there's some value in it at the end of the day.

I do not agree with u on this, there r smooth n easy going relationships. The couples still love each others.