Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[MicroTommy]

Originally Posted by naemlo

"how abt u". She sent wrong msg to u. Cos "Chi" should be for elder female.

thanks for the quick translation....

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by MicroTommy

thanks for the quick translation....

wrong thread...post your questions or translation in this thread "Tieng Viet Lovers Club".....

[jackbl]

No need to have ba xa also can be good in vietnamese too.... Some have bx who can speak mandarin or english, dun know much vietnamese cos they dun bother to learn since their partner can comm wit them in local languages

Originally Posted by MicroTommy

....so i am thinking maybe u guys are quite good in vietnamese especially those with ba xa ones....

[jackbl]

Since no one reply, i kaypo a bit. IMHO I think the money she brought must be able cover her expenses in sgp.... Hotel=$100 per day; Transport; Food, etc...
If ICA want to check her cash, it is best to hv S$1500-$2000.

Originally Posted by justin

Can anybody help?

My friend a vietnam gal want come singapore.How much money must she have to come singapore?

After her stay in singapore(after Extension of Short Term Visit Pass) and went back vietnam.Must wait how long then she can come to singapore again?

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Since no one reply, i kaypo a bit. IMHO I think the money she brought must be able cover her expenses in sgp.... Hotel=$100 per day; Transport; Food, etc...
If ICA want to check her cash, it is best to hv S$1500-$2000.

not don't want to reply but damm busy for past weeks. Log in forum only once or twice a day, but no time to reply most of the time

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by SingViet

not don't want to reply but damm busy for past weeks. Log in forum only once or twice a day, but no time to reply most of the time

Too many posts on this topic liao...just have to search the thread and answers will be found...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

3 years up liao... her ban is over, but i am not happy.
She keeping asking me when can bring her over... Sep? Oct?

This time I am not ready... somethings from previous marriage are not solved yet

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

maybe can try to test the ICA see if any problem in coming in Singapore 1st?

First step taken. Filled in form14 and send in...
cross finger, pray hard

[chanyboy]

Originally Posted by albert141

Wah lau eh! 125 million VND is more than 10k SGD at current exchange rates!

* faints *

yeah..fainted. I heard of 500...

[ives08]

Originally Posted by naemlo

A normal 24 yrs old graduate earns about 200-500USD. Take your time to observe her and welcome to Hanoi.

Thanks for the quick information.

When we were introduced after the 3 girls accepted our strawberry wine, the girl dressed in orange asks me her first 2 questions:

<1> Where are you guys from? - i replied Singapore, from a boring country.
<2> Are you married? - i was taken back awhile, and i told her i am single.

After that, she asks about our jobs - what industries we are working in. I was quite surprised bcos, the previous 2 groups of girls that we met, did not ask us such questions.

So i guess dating a OL might be a harder target after all?

Anyway, i have sent her an email liao - let's see how it goes.

I would like to ask a few more questions about Vn culture.

<1> What is the norm age for VN OL girls to get married?
<2> Izzit normal for girls to pop that question when we first meet - are you married?
<3> I think i ought to go and visit her to see how things are - which month in Hanoi would be a relatively cooler period?
<4> when i'm there, should i try to act poor - i.e not going for all the expensive place.

Thanks.

[VietnamLover]

Originally Posted by ives08

<1> What is the norm age for VN OL girls to get married?
<2> Izzit normal for girls to pop that question when we first meet - are you married?
<3> I think i ought to go and visit her to see how things are - which month in Hanoi would be a relatively cooler period?
<4> when i'm there, should i try to act poor - i.e not going for all the expensive place.

1) For Vietnamese office lady, the normal average age for them to get married is from 25 years old onwards unlike the countryside women who may get married from 20 years old onwards. I have some Vietnamese female friends in HCMC who got married at 25, 26 or 27.

2) It depends for different women. They will ask you in different ways like 'Do you have any girlfriend?', 'Do you come to Vietnam to see your girlfriend?', etc.

3) Hanoi has 4 seasons which is similar to China, Korea or Japan. So from December till March is cool period of around 10 degrees to 20 degrees.

4) No need to act poor or rich. Just be yourself. Try not to go for expensive places all the time. Once in a while is ok. Cheap places are also ok.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by ives08

So i guess dating a OL might be a harder target after all?

Of cos OL is more difficult than WL... if u r looking for real love, OL will be a safer bet. Of cos there r good n bad OL, good n bad WL.

Originally Posted by ives08

<1> What is the norm age for VN OL girls to get married?

I have talked to my customers in Hanoi. Most of them mentioned abt 25 yrs for gers in Hanoi.

Originally Posted by ives08

<2> Izzit normal for girls to pop that question when we first meet - are you married?

Never encounter this b4 in Hanoi or HCMC.

Originally Posted by ives08

<3> I think i ought to go and visit her to see how things are - which month in Hanoi would be a relatively cooler period?

Later part of Oct.

Originally Posted by ives08

<4> when i'm there, should i try to act poor - i.e not going for all the expensive place.

No need to act... most viet gers dun always go ex places.

[iCoPuLaTe]

[QUOTE=SingViet;4011724]I the difference in how viet gals and local gals treat their husband is great. [QUOTE]

I totally agree, my buddy tat hv a viet wife everyday like king, his wife 老公前，老公后，(his wife chinese not so good,english also sound abit slurring?)reach home help him take of socks & bring slippers, prepare food & lay dinner nice nice wait for we guys for dinner..somemore not spendtrift, i hv seen many fren's wife..personelly i tink to treat guys better are, 1) viet then 2) thai wifes...prc erm... stil can lah..but of cos i hv also seen some bad from viet, after get PR and of cos pampered by husband, often kpkb...but again, on the whole still better then alot.Its boils down to the nature,characteristic of the girl bah.

Me,my fiancee & other buddies & wife(all local), all see the viet wife treat her SG husband（buddy) till eyes big big,sometime unbelivable 体贴, shed chicken meat for him,cut fishball into smaller pieces etc...when we guys all ask for same treatment, sg females all ganged up say "night sleep dun find sissors under pillow good liao lor, ask for so much." sigh....

[ekemono]

Yes. Most viet wife do treat their husband better.
I am a lazy eater so the wife always peel off prawn shell and QC the fish meat of bones before putting it onto my rice plate. But those royal treatment like take out shoes/socks for me and bring my slippers that one dun have la.
Maybe if I strike 4D then she'll do that Wahahaha...

I appreciate her for her thoughtfulness

[Hurricane88]

[QUOTE=iCoPuLaTe;4025963][QUOTE=SingViet;4011724]I the difference in how viet gals and local gals treat their husband is great.

I totally agree, my buddy tat hv a viet wife everyday like king, his wife 老公前，老公后，(his wife chinese not so good,english also sound abit slurring?)reach home help him take of socks & bring slippers, prepare food & lay dinner nice nice wait for we guys for dinner..somemore not spendtrift, i hv seen many fren's wife..personelly i tink to treat guys better are, 1) viet then 2) thai wifes...prc erm... stil can lah..but of cos i hv also seen some bad from viet, after get PR and of cos pampered by husband, often kpkb...but again, on the whole still better then alot.Its boils down to the nature,characteristic of the girl bah.

Me,my fiancee & other buddies & wife(all local), all see the viet wife treat her SG husband（buddy) till eyes big big,sometime unbelivable 体贴, shed chicken meat for him,cut fishball into smaller pieces etc...when we guys all ask for same treatment, sg females all ganged up say "night sleep dun find sissors under pillow good liao lor, ask for so much." sigh....

Originally Posted by ekemono

Yes. Most viet wife do treat their husband better.
I am a lazy eater so the wife always peel off prawn shell and QC the fish meat of bones before putting it onto my rice plate. But those royal treatment like take out shoes/socks for me and bring my slippers that one dun have la.
Maybe if I strike 4D then she'll do that Wahahaha...

I appreciate her for her thoughtfulness

hahaha...that is why good Viet wife is precious...when I am in HCM, I am treated like that...

[happy000]

When I was in PRC recently when my gf call me 老公前，老公后 I became worried as I know my pocket will burn a hole. For PRC when the gal is too good to you, you need to be careful of your pocket

Originally Posted by iCoPuLaTe

I totally agree, my buddy tat hv a viet wife everyday like king, his wife 老公前，老公后，(his wife chinese not so good,english also sound abit slurring?)