Does a 20-year age gap between bf-gf matter? - Page 4

Medusa · #46 24-10-2010, 07:24 AM

i have a bf who is 10 years my junior....and i must admit it aint easy to handle at all...cos he's like a kid most of the time and im seriously feeling the stress

jon2000sg · #47 24-10-2010, 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Medusa

i have a bf who is 10 years my junior....and i must admit it aint easy to handle at all...cos he's like a kid most of the time and im seriously feeling the stress

wow! 10years ? you must be good !

big wood · #48 24-10-2010, 09:48 AM

whether u look young or old is not really very important your heart and mind must feel young and than u will start to see things more difference

aakumu2 · #49 24-10-2010, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Medusa

i have a bf who is 10 years my junior....and i must admit it aint easy to handle at all...cos he's like a kid most of the time and im seriously feeling the stress

Hi sis,
Women tends to be a bit more mature than man, plus being 10 years his senior would make you about 15 to 20 years gap..............right.

My humble two cents.

tamlv69 · #50 24-10-2010, 11:08 AM

The age gap seems to be fine if bf is 20 years older than gf, but probably not the other way around. Men don't age very much between 30 and 50 years old if one keep fit and healthy. I meet my ex-girlfriend (5 yrs older than me) on the street recently, she looks like OLD untie. Quite sad actually because she was a looker then.

Due to our less harsh life in Singapore, Singapore men tend to look much younger than our age

. So 20 years younger gf just about right for us

.

Medusa · #51 24-10-2010, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by jon2000sg

wow! 10years ? you must be good !

hahaha... u mean good in which way?

sundance · #52 24-10-2010, 08:23 PM

I've been with my gf for 2.5 years and we have a 24 year difference. It depends on the outlook in life and having common interests. So far, I have no problems here and we have a pretty good understand of what's important to each other. So I don't see much of an issue.

Peggie83 · #53 25-10-2010, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by jon2000sg

i was in love with 2 PRC girls before

both about 15 years my junior

I don't think this will be an issue

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Originally Posted by justl00king

Only 2 things will cover the gap, true love or money.

I agree on these 2

sun814 · #54 25-10-2010, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by sundance

I've been with my gf for 2.5 years and we have a 24 year difference. It depends on the outlook in life and having common interests. So far, I have no problems here and we have a pretty good understand of what's important to each other. So I don't see much of an issue.

sorry, but did u consider marrying her? for me being bf-gf n being husband n wife are very different.

KinJioKar · #55 25-10-2010, 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

The age gap is an issue for some but not for others.

it is as good as telling chicken rice is nice but not how nice :S

sundance · #56 26-10-2010, 01:19 AM

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Originally Posted by sun814

sorry, but did u consider marrying her? for me being bf-gf n being husband n wife are very different.

Yes, I plan on marrying her next year. The age difference is not a problem, but I think she is very mature for her age.

simple2kee · #57 26-10-2010, 08:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Medusa

i have a bf who is 10 years my junior....and i must admit it aint easy to handle at all...cos he's like a kid most of the time and im seriously feeling the stress

choose me coz im definitely >10 years ur senior.

TS, seriously a 20 year age gap is too wide but it works for some couples.

Register · #58 01-11-2010, 11:43 PM

Well.... I guess LOVE is a very hard thing to understand and calculate......

There is a chinese saying 'If you don't start a relationship, how do you know it will turn out bad'?

A suggestion to TS and those that have big age difference. Ask your very good friends to give you advice, listen only, coz the choice still lies on yourself.

peanut123 · #59 02-11-2010, 01:52 AM

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Originally Posted by billgates

I would like to know, for all those guys whose gf's are at least 20 years younger, what is your experience like? Is there a communication gap, difference in thinking, etc?

Thanks for sharing.

I don't think it will be a problem. It really depends on the individual. Girls tend to be more mature than guys. There are some young girls who behave like kids, always on the hunt for trinkets and holidays. But there are also young women who are very mature and serious. I personally have several female friends who are easily 12 years or more younger than me, and we get along very well (better than women my age), and chat about anything under the sun for hours whenever we catch up over drinks. For some reason, some of my closest friends are young chicks. Maybe they like mature men ?

If I were you, I would go for it. Whats the worst that could happen ? That you get to bang a young pussy, fondle stretch-mark-free body and grope firm boobs ? My God, most of us here would pay good money for it, and you are wondering if you should go for it ? It's a no brainer.