I am ashamed for unknowingly committing incest - Page 4

Botakhead · #46 17-02-2012, 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Rayrush

Hi bro botakhead,good to hear that you are not ending your life and is moving on with it and treasuring ur love ones. I agree on what bro sean69 said and I'm actually quite worried about the baby.
Sincerely hoping that you will have enough courage to pick yourself up from where you left off and overcome this obstacle in your life and that both your family and the baby would be fine =)

I've now cleared up my mind, sorting out the priorities, to divide my dedicated love equally, treasure what had been given to me. Regarding the child's health issues, I'll let C decide, whether to go for further checks or not.

Thank you for your concern and consolation.

Botakhead · #47 17-02-2012, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by nokia88

Whats done cannot be undone .

Take care of c and f and little grandson .

shower them the love you did not give them before and i suggest you to be truthful to your current wife and let her know what you had done and seek forgiveness .

After there you will know where to proceed .

Yes, I'll definitely love all of them with my heart fully. About the truth to be told or not, I'm still thinking about it......eat and clean up its ok, but to eat and eat your so dear child and to bear your fruits....that's not going to be easily forgiven, even though F and C had forgiven me....my beloved wife had been through thick and thin, rich and poor, hardship and good life with me for so many years.....I really don't know how to let the secret be known. Not for now I think.

Subaru75 · #48 17-02-2012, 03:04 PM

Bro IMHO I will not let my wife that went through so much wif me cos if not handle properly ur wife may really go insance so do think twice before saying anything ,I think what done is done and all u can do is to take good care of the 2 family well and what u can do now is really shower ur love and care for them

Botakhead · #49 17-02-2012, 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Subaru75

Bro IMHO I will not let my wife that went through so much wif me cos if not handle properly ur wife may really go insance so do think twice before saying anything ,I think what done is done and all u can do is to take good care of the 2 family well and what u can do now is really shower ur love and care for them

Thank you for your concern. Will keep loving both sides of the family. They are now all that I have and I must not let any misfortune to befall any of them.

Sen5eS · #50 17-02-2012, 07:02 PM

加油!
I'm sure no one is able to fully understand this situation you are in.
But whatever it is, you've managed to figure a way to handle it all in whatever way you can.
So good luck Bro ... all the best

siambee · #51 17-02-2012, 07:06 PM

not good wif words, upz u for support

Botakhead · #52 17-02-2012, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Sen5eS

加油!
I'm sure no one is able to fully understand this situation you are in.
But whatever it is, you've managed to figure a way to handle it all in whatever way you can.
So good luck Bro ... all the best

Thank you for your concern, good luck to you too.

Botakhead · #53 17-02-2012, 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by siambee

not good wif words, upz u for support

Thank you for visiting my thread, and for your 8 points.

jamesdeak · #54 17-02-2012, 07:54 PM

i don't normally post replies, just enjoy the reading. but i guess when a bro is in need, the best is to give encouragement. suicide is only going to make matters worse for everyone except yourself. y torture them more now? instead, think rationally and live with it. heads up and stay strong!

sky_liner2 · #55 17-02-2012, 10:57 PM

TS Botakhead, why didn't you use CD? What a mess.......

ugotbabe · #56 17-02-2012, 11:09 PM

after reading the story. find that this is simply too hard to believe.

Botakhead · #57 17-02-2012, 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by sky_liner2

TS Botakhead, why didn't you use CD? What a mess.......

Thank you for your concern, at that very moment all parties involved, agreed to go raw. Yes it's a mess now, but if CD was used, will it help to lessen the guilt? I was doing unknowingly, but that should not be my excuse to shirk responsibility for causing all a miserable life.

greddy · #58 18-02-2012, 12:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Botakhead

Thank you for your concern, at that very moment all parties involved, agreed to go raw. Yes it's a mess now, but if CD was used, will it help to lessen the guilt? I was doing unknowingly, but that should not be my excuse to shirk responsibility for causing all a miserable life.

bro, through I seriously find this story unbelievable but I am gald you are coping alright and assumed responsibility for the act you have done unwittly, you gained my respect for this. kudos....

Johnston · #59 18-02-2012, 03:36 AM

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Originally Posted by n30n

OMG, why no protection.

Tell the two mothers to teach the small child well. Don't let the child fall into the same path as all of you.

OMG because fucking with protection feels different from fucking without protection and OMG TS when young probably wouldnt have a condom in his
wallet

Jokings asid : TS your calm and comfortable life must suddenly be now like a very complicate taiwan drama.... i wouldnt wan to be in your shoes now.

Stay Safe.

FarAway · #60 18-02-2012, 05:04 AM

TS bro, this is indeed a tricky situation no one should ever get himself in, well in your case you just have to do what you need to do.

Well I seriously think you should not let your wife know about your 'other family' and also never should your grandchild know that you are the biological father, as this will cause a permanent scar. One can hardly imagine a child growing up knowing that his father = grandpa. Let the child go for more thorough checkups too just in case. These secrets you may torment you every now and then, but that's for everyone's best interests.

Financially wise do what is necessary to sustain your families, best of luck and may the force be with you bro.