Hi, I've been around this forum for quite sometime and this is my first post ... Well as I'm typing this .. I just can't stop crying ..
Me and my gf have been together for about 5 years already . She's really an Awwesome girl . Always been there for me though the ups and downs . She's been there for my graduation , POP , ORD. She will always make herself available for me.
Things took an unfortunate turn around March 2011, where out of the blue. She just asked for a breakup . I was shocked and wanted to know why. I called her but she refused to answer my phone and even when overseas for 3 months just to avoid me . I know her as she's not the type that would just leave without a word. I begin to pester her parents day and night about her whereabouts ..but they just tell me for forget about her as she's married to an Ang moh overseas.
Well, obviously they are hiding some facts as I know she would NEVER just leave without a world
After about 6 months of constant pestering her family , her sister finally told me that my girlfriend had been diagnosed with leukemia . It was a total shock to me . I couldn't accept what her sister told me.
She wanted to breakup with me because she doesn't want me to be upset and cry over her when she's gone. She would rather play the "bad guy" role and want me to forget about her .
I resigned my job and flew over to Australia to find her .. She was alr all bald (due to chemo and radiation ). Well.. We cried when we saw each other . What kind of man am I to leave my girlfriend in her most difficult moment of her life.
Well, cut things short , I spend the last 6 months with her travelling around and just spend time with each other .
She passed away on December 2012 after fighting cancer for nearly 2 years.
Friends , really do cherish your love ones . Your wife / gf. Life is short and really do spend time together .
I'm currently still griefing over her.. Hopefully I will be able to move on soon...
09-05-2013, 12:27 AM
Re: My girlfriend just passed away...
