why would people are like that? im confused

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by sane

I believe with a partner like that, it will take a toll on anyone eventually, heading to nowhere.

confirm will lead to nowhere but for girls more to lose cos youth is their greatest asset.

[PikachuDoraemon]

Originally Posted by HCKing

i got an ex gf like that when i was young. even when i was dating her never once i intended to go serious with her. play play can oredi la.

so which mean is like pay to have sex to her?

no true feeling at all?

but will she really change? but i doubt so lah, maybe you are carrot

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

so which mean is like pay to have sex to her?

no true feeling at all?

but will she really change? but i doubt so lah, maybe you are carrot

hehehe try looking at things from another perspective...maybe he/she doesnt see the need to change? even if i dumped her she might just see it as we r not compactible n move on with another guy she thinks will accept her as she is? dont u think that's what majority of the ppl will believe?

[sane]

Originally Posted by ColdBlood99

I got online mah but nv see you leh haha else can talk 心事 with u lol

Definitely will have chance

Originally Posted by HCKing

confirm will lead to nowhere but for girls more to lose cos youth is their greatest asset.

That's why TS have to make a decision first, don't waste her youth.

[PikachuDoraemon]

Originally Posted by sane

Definitely will have chance



That's why TS have to make a decision first, don't waste her youth.

but what if i choose to broke off, but he keep pester me and wouldnt want me to leave? i'm way too soft hearted and just worry it might go back to square one.

[Greenfrog]

My boyfriend is pretty sticky, always wanted to meet, which make me very tired of him. All he was playing game all day but never go out find job to work.

wow..sis, sticky and play game all day? that is the makings of a useless man. how old is he?

[sane]

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

but what if i choose to broke off, but he keep pester me and wouldnt want me to leave? i'm way too soft hearted and just worry it might go back to square one.

make new group of friends n they will give u moral support

[muscleboi]

dating is a game. to make it enjoyable, one must learn to be sticky only at the right time.

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by sane

make new group of friends n they will give u moral support

nowadays making new friends is like making 酒肉朋友.

[ColdBlood99]

Originally Posted by muscleboi

nowadays making new friends is like making 酒肉朋友.

Are you sure about that?

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by ColdBlood99

Are you sure about that?

actually i wish to be proven wrong on that, bro.

what's your experience on making new friends nowadays?

[ColdBlood99]

Originally Posted by muscleboi

actually i wish to be proven wrong on that, bro.

what's your experience on making new friends nowadays?

My experience very good, all friends didn't take advantage of anybody, that why we became close friend almost go out 1 week twice or so, still intend to go holiday as well

Come join my BBQ event if you need sincere friend who 讲心不讲钱 can come join us, you will change your mindset.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

why would man / woman go out to cheat? be it married or attached. no more good man and woman in this world? to stay faithful how hard can it be or they are bored with their wife/hubby or gf/bf?

Many reasons for a person to cheat. Not just being bored. From lust and temptations, thrill seeking, seeking emotional comfort to sexual satisfaction.

There are still good apples in a barrel. However whether the apples are good enough to stay good is another question.

A relationship has 6Cs as well, Compromise, Care, Communicate, Contentment, Cooperation and Complacency. They are simple points but its a constant upkeep to maintain.

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

if is married go outside cheat, why bother to get marry in the 1st place? didn't they promise priest that will take care of each other no matter what?

Promises and vows are easily broken when one is weak in mind and body especially compromised by lust and temptations.

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

what type of hubby you are looking for?
what type of wife you are looking for?

I can say most people are looking the the above.

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

how do you salvage your marriage if you happen to know your hubby/wife is cheating outside? if you are man i believe you will be piss off if your wife if she go out cheat but why are you still go out and cheat behind your wife?

Its hard to forgive and forget. Damage once done, there is always a scar. No cosmetic surgery can fix it cos it hurts from within. Time might help, loving and repent might help, but it depends on how much effort is put in. Still there is no promises all this will salvage the marriage or relationship.

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by ColdBlood99

My experience very good, all friends didn't take advantage of anybody, that why we became close friend almost go out 1 week twice or so, still intend to go holiday as well

Come join my BBQ event if you need sincere friend who 讲心不讲钱 can come join us, you will change your mindset.

thanks for the invitation, bro. but no thanks, this account is just for sharing opinions.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

but what if i choose to broke off, but he keep pester me and wouldnt want me to leave? i'm way too soft hearted and just worry it might go back to square one.

Just to help offer an answer to TS's question abv...most of the time tis happens after a r/s break-up...the party dumped esp the guys would try to cling on...there was a fren like tat...but unlike TS, she was strong willed like most pple...once they hv made a decision, there's no turning back...after some time, it was alrite but the r/s was never like b4...hope tis helps

Originally Posted by jasdude

Many reasons for a person to cheat. Not just being bored. From lust and temptations, thrill seeking, seeking emotional comfort to sexual satisfaction.

There are still good apples in a barrel. However whether the apples are good enough to stay good is another question.

A relationship has 6Cs as well, Compromise, Care, Communicate, Contentment, Cooperation and Complacency. They are simple points but its a constant upkeep to maintain.

Promises and vows are easily broken when one is weak in mind and body especially compromised by lust and temptations.

Its hard to forgive and forget. Damage once done, there is always a scar. No cosmetic surgery can fix it cos it hurts from within. Time might help, loving and repent might help, but it depends on how much effort is put in. Still there is no promises all this will salvage the marriage or relationship.

Wow !..a very good summary write out of r/s truths by bro Jasdude ...a recommended read esp for gals wif r/s problems