do u expect your wife to maintain her looks?

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by riqw

Ah really? I should try to have a gym with her and spent more time as well. Compare than I waste money with FL

oh yes! plse do n u get to destress, keep fit n spend time with wifey. 1 stone 3 birds.

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by PPGirl

My bf mentioned b4.. everyone gets old for a reason.
Its a natural process that everyone goes through.

Agreed with Bro Hurricane88 that stay healthy n happy are the most impt.
As money cant buy these 2 factors above.

Some people age gracefully, some people just age. A lot of my female friends once they hit 28 ,29 mark. you can see the ageing signs.

[jc_wtc]

Return 11 bullets to u

Originally Posted by Greenfrog

Some people age gracefully, some people just age. A lot of my female friends once they hit 28 ,29 mark. you can see the ageing signs.

[dreamlover2010]

Every woman must maintain and improve her looks and figure.

Not only for her hubby but also attractive to other guys.

That's the only way to hold on to their hubby.

Also learn to improve her sexual magnetism.

Will be a plus plus to enhance her sexual skills.

Hubby will eat less outside. Homecook meals better.

[lobowolf]

Originally Posted by Edyta

for those brothers who have been married with kids, do u expect your wife to maintain her looks?

1. yes v impt, she has to maintain both her face n body pretty well
2. not really as long as not too ugly not too fat
3. doesn't matter she gave me a few beautiful children n I love her inner beauty
4. other opinions

Just asking out of curiousity.

thanks

In my opinion, it is important for a lady to maintain herself even after marriage, especially after giving birth (without going through the knife). I would prefer that the wife maintains herself naturally and not a one time shot under the knife. This is important from a physical point of view. By maintaining onself, I am not referring only to the face but the overall outlook of the body. It does take commitment and efforts for that too.

Now having said that, it should not be only the lady who has to maintain herself in a relationship. Even the husband should maintain himself, especially with the waist line. It is not fair on the wife if the husband is not maintaining himself but expects the wife to do so. It has to work both ways.

Of course, looks are not everything in a relationship, otherwise, marriages of Hollywood celebrities would have been a dream marriage ... Haha. So, it takes more than physical appearance to commit to a relationship and stay committed till the end. Besides the physical maintenance, both parties should put effort to give time together (in a fast paced world) to keep the relationship healthy and the intimacy intact. It is definitely not healthy, when both parties cannot stand the sight of each other living under the same roof and stress themselves out.

But, again, relationship is very complex and varies from couple to couple, so it not a simple few steps formula that needs to be practiced. Coming to the query of the TS, yes I do expect my wife to maintain her looks, just as I will do too (not that I am married but in the future ).

[Dytheceath]

My expectation is 2 but my preference is that she able to maintain and stay attractive.

I think the sacrifices that a wife has made for the man and bearing him beautiful kids are too great to even have expectation. I still accept her for who she is.

But One of the factors of continual romancing, despite having kids, is to be physically attractive to the other half. Having said that, I am all for paying for wife to go to slimming centre to recover her shape.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by lobowolf

In my opinion, it is important for a lady to maintain herself even after marriage, especially after giving birth (without going through the knife). I would prefer that the wife maintains herself naturally and not a one time shot under the knife. This is important from a physical point of view. By maintaining onself, I am not referring only to the face but the overall outlook of the body. It does take commitment and efforts for that too.

Now having said that, it should not be only the lady who has to maintain herself in a relationship. Even the husband should maintain himself, especially with the waist line. It is not fair on the wife if the husband is not maintaining himself but expects the wife to do so. It has to work both ways.

Of course, looks are not everything in a relationship, otherwise, marriages of Hollywood celebrities would have been a dream marriage ... Haha. So, it takes more than physical appearance to commit to a relationship and stay committed till the end. Besides the physical maintenance, both parties should put effort to give time together (in a fast paced world) to keep the relationship healthy and the intimacy intact. It is definitely not healthy, when both parties cannot stand the sight of each other living under the same roof and stress themselves out.

But, again, relationship is very complex and varies from couple to couple, so it not a simple few steps formula that needs to be practiced. Coming to the query of the TS, yes I do expect my wife to maintain her looks, just as I will do too (not that I am married but in the future ).

of course looks is only 1 part of the relationship. actually maintaining looks is more for self esteem than anything else. u like your own looks u also feel more confident. plus it seems like men do like their wives look great so its a plus bonus!

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by Dytheceath

My expectation is 2 but my preference is that she able to maintain and stay attractive.

I think the sacrifices that a wife has made for the man and bearing him beautiful kids are too great to even have expectation. I still accept her for who she is.

But One of the factors of continual romancing, despite having kids, is to be physically attractive to the other half. Having said that, I am all for paying for wife to go to slimming centre to recover her shape.

u would pay for slimming centre? wow u are so sweet to your wifey.