Which thing 1st for marriage?? - Page 4

tellmiwhy · #46 01-08-2006, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by jng1103

well, if her in-laws requested a big splash party, i'll just walk away and see who is crying

jimbo

wah...bro u are good. just like my friend who recently got married. he not on reali good terms wif his in-laws bcoz of similar stuff. but i think this can onli applies if ur CO is not those kind who always listen to their parents especialli mother. (my 'wife' is this sort of person. mum sure win me if she has a decision.

) therefore, i m praying hard that they will not make a 'big hole' out of our pockets.

interested · #47 01-08-2006, 10:06 PM

I dun really like big party also. My going to be wife's in-laws are in business type. Traditional chinese business. So rather hard to say no. Hope they will assist esp. for the business partners side while we only handle relatives and close friends.

They 'face' rather hard to say no. If I have the option, those money can go for a better honeymoon and our home which is coming.

Still got spare to save up for our children in the future. If can invest also can. Currently, the only thing is if only you invest smartly then go chance.

jng1103 · #48 03-08-2006, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by tellmiwhy

therefore, i m praying hard that they will not make a 'big hole' out of our pockets.

the theory is very simple: who has the upper hand. Not sure about ur case, but i hv the upper hand as far as she is concerned. So, if her parents asking for sky and moon, i'll tell them to F.off and let's see who has the final laugh.

Remember, you are marrying a nice lady, NOT BUYING. Therefore, i rather spend those 'ang pao' money on investment or honeymoon.

jimbo

tellmiwhy · #49 03-08-2006, 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by jng1103

the theory is very simple: who has the upper hand. Not sure about ur case, but i hv the upper hand as far as she is concerned. So, if her parents asking for sky and moon, i'll tell them to F.off and let's see who has the final laugh.

Remember, you are marrying a nice lady, NOT BUYING. Therefore, i rather spend those 'ang pao' money on investment or honeymoon.

jimbo

agree wif u bro. but mine her mther has the upper hand.

but so far so good. hopefuli nothng happens. my friend also tell me, if her mther demand too much jus go straight to her and ask "auntie, r u selling ur daughter to me or is ur daughter marrying me?"