Need advice on sex life

[MrMartell]

somebody probably said this or something along this line, but got for a vacation or staycation... go the the adult shop and get some vibes, lube, uniforms, etc basically get out of your comfort zone and something which would seem fun yet new to both of you

go back to the hotel and take your time - soak in the tub, give her a massage, foreplay a bit more, slowly bring in the vibe (or whatever toy you got), basically get it to a crazy high level before you even start with the sex. then the actual sex after that well, hope you don't get a heart attack bro lol

[sammicheng1000]

No feeling becoz of condom is it?

[marzsomeone]

@basara_evil
Haha I have tried before, all she wanna was me to be the one taking the lead.

@randyrockhard
Ya I will try out losing weight and also the green tea you recommend. Maybe the apple cider too. However, my wife made me promise to eat normal and not take pills. So I can only reduce or change my diet when I am not with her.

@MrMartell
We tried that during our honeymoon. But will try again on our next vacation and after a period of exercise to get my testosterone level high again.

@sammicheng1000
Kinda plays a part, aussie condom kinda thick. I prefer using japan's. Haha, currently we just wish to enjoy 2 years of couple life before moving up to create a family. So gonna play safe

[duoc]

Originally Posted by marzsomeone

@sammicheng1000
Kinda plays a part, aussie condom kinda thick. I prefer using japan's. Haha, currently we just wish to enjoy 2 years of couple life before moving up to create a family. So gonna play safe

Married and still use condom. Then why bother to get married?

[MoodyBlues]

Originally Posted by duoc

Married and still use condom. Then why bother to get married?

Only a fucking cunt head with cunt logic will ask this question.

[xucker]

Originally Posted by MoodyBlues

Only a fucking cunt head with cunt logic will ask this question.

[heavenmothz]

Originally Posted by MoodyBlues

Only a fucking cunt head with cunt logic will ask this question.

i dunno why but reading this just cracked me up.

[MrMartell]

Originally Posted by marzsomeone

@MrMartell
We tried that during our honeymoon. But will try again on our next vacation and after a period of exercise to get my testosterone level high again.

yea go for it. better if you make it a big deal then surprise suddenly.
make it seem like ad hoc if not her hopes up, your hopes up, then end up the bar may set too high to enjoy it. hope to hear your good news bro

[VincentnYu]

Some suggestions :
- let her know that you love her and that you are concerned and want her to enjoy the sexual intimacy with you
- that u are not doing it for your own physical enjoyment only as a Husband u want her to feel good doing with you, don't rush her and don't show your frustrations
- if she is a decent girl quite likely she may feel v shy in watching porn with you. Don't go for the hardcore type, start with some sensual movies with storyline
- go online shopping for lingerie with her, surf and show her the sexily dressed models, let her choose the peices she likes and make her promise to wear and let you see her in them
<<note : better don't show her how desperate you are after watching these as she may feel that you crave for those girls. Give her confidence! Don't let her feel inferior>>
- btw, r both of you staying on your own or with parents/in-laws? Having ur own privacy plays a part also. But also quite costly to always go staycation right?
- know her monthly cycle. She may not b in the mood or convenient on certain days
- spring her some simple surprises eg candle light dinner at home (food cooked by u), date her like you as if u were courting her

Wish you the very best, this should b the sweetest time, enjoy!!

[MaoSanWang]

i second wise words from Bro.
First, try a whore to determine where went wrong.

Yes, mine goes soft too sometimes when i'm tire halfway through.
You may need some cardio exercise to build stamina and lose weight at same time, and i can vouch for the no-carbo formula.
Meanwhile, consider positions that doesn't requires too much exertion (Women on top, women at corner of bed for your easier movement).

Other times, my wife make some weird comments that turns me off and it goes soft.
Unfortunately for man to maintain wood, he must be in the state of mind.
Yes, it takes 2 hands to clap in love-making.
Watching porn is a good start, to try the stunts in the AV.
Can consider fulfilling her sexual fantasy, and than get her to do yours.
Keeping it exciting may help keep your erection.

The blue pill when all else fails.

Have fun!

[nigripes]

He not even 50 years old why need blue pill.

[NemoDory]

Originally Posted by nigripes

He not even 50 years old why need blue pill.

Not even 50 years old need what colour pill.

[chrys]

call me traditional, but if you are married, I believe its not wise to seek a 'whore' simply for comparison's sake. It might created other problems in the marriage.
i.e. disease, infidelity, KC..etc.

May I suggest you try couple sex therapy consultations?

Look it up online. There are professionals who can listen and offer solutions to the problem without bringing about additional issues.

And If you and your wife feel embarrassed to discuss such matters in person with strangers, do think about what those other suggestions here entail.

Hope you and your wife achieve a proper, healthy and happy sex life. cheers bro.

[marzsomeone]

@MrMartell
Haha, occasionally will surprise her create new romantic moments. But life love challenges, especially now i just managed to get a 3 months contract job after 6 months of being jobless. Still try my best to create surprises with the limited resources i have.

@VincentnYu
I am honest with her with my concerns and try my best to make her feel and understand i am doing it with her as a husband. We watched "50shades" and "the boy next door" when on our honeymoon. Really does build up the mood, however, we staying with my parents till our HDB is ready

@MaoSanWang
Now my first goal is to exercise and lose weight. Considering whether to take tongkat ali and maca from herbolab. Not sure if it helps thought.

@Chrys
Sex therapy consultation will be our last straw. Will go if all advices by bros here fail *hope not*

[Burnley]

TS, just try some of the suggestions here.