knowing your wife is not a virgin afteir marriage. what will u feel?

[relegated]

Originally Posted by strike1stprize

Marry a virgin is harder than strike 1st prize

Wu ya bo?

[JimBeglin]

Originally Posted by kopigahdai

Once married, wife is not refundable, returnable or exchangeable.

Have you heard of these 7 letters: D I V O R C E ?

[TR8R]

Originally Posted by JimBeglin

Have you heard of these 7 letters: D I V O R C E ?

[keigo]

Well, have U guys talked abt past relationship? If yes, U should know that most likely they may have sex especially the ones that last quite long and they go on holiday together. Understand this maybe painful to U if ur expectation is a V. Nevertheless, like the bro n sis here said. U marry her not coz of V but U love her.

Try to let it go

[lickapuss]

Originally Posted by TR8R

????

[sopmayone]

Originally Posted by strikeback4

TS damn innocent to ask this kind of question

Many innocent ppl or acting innocent.

[sexcision]

So TS, after soo many suggestions, questions, assumption, any toughts? Are your gonna give more background on your question?

[traveleg]

In the animal kingdom and ancient time, all females are meant to produce offsprings.

[strikeback4]

Originally Posted by sopmayone

Many innocent ppl or acting innocent.

Agree..... come SBF ask this kind of qn

[aakumu]

Originally Posted by sopmayone

Many innocent ppl or acting innocent.

Hi bro,
Agreed, I think TS's question intention was let put it this, the question is:
"How many men here would prefer a Virgin wife if given a choice compare to a non virgin...."
The answers I read, most of it is "there are very few Virgin now a days"
What if what if.....hahahaha....


My humble two cents.

[strikeback4]

Originally Posted by aakumu

Hi bro,
Agreed, I think TS's question intention was let put it this, the question is:
"How many men here would prefer a Virgin wife if given a choice compare to a non virgin...."
The answers I read, most of it is "there are very few Virgin now a days"
What if what if.....hahahaha....


My humble two cents.

Hymenorrhaphy solve all the problem for those seeking virgins

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymenorrhaphy

[aakumu]

Originally Posted by strikeback4

Hymenorrhaphy solve all the problem for those seeking virgins

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymenorrhaphy

Hi bro,
Is it politically incorrect for any guy to search for a virgin???
Or is it so wrong to be a Virgin???
I personally not looking for a Virgin, but why is it I get the sense that TS is discourage to look for a Virgin.
I do not agree if a man just go out looking for a virgin just for the sake of the sensation, but as a gauge of the love and faithfulness to the husband, it is not a must but it is one of many tools and gives a clue to the girl's mindset.
Giving something dearest to oneself to another is the true reflection true love.
Example, If you have 50 kg of rice ready to eat, giving out 50 bowls would not much of a sacrifice....but If you have a bowl of rice give it to someone else to eat is a whole lot more of a sacrifice.....
It could be anything, but regarding to TS's thread, it is Virginity....


My humble two cents.

[pensex]

you feel she ‘misled’ you. But is this what really happened? Didn’t it actually go more like this: your girlfriend told you she had had a few partners in the early stages of dating or worst divorced?, but over time, as she’s come to trust you, she has been specific about her sexual past. Rather than this being dishonest it might be seen as her clarifying things as your relationship became more serious.

Maybe she’s never considered the number of partners she’s had before as important. Perhaps she didn’t disclose much before because it just wasn’t an issue for her. Or was focused more on enjoying a blossoming relationship with you?

To move forward can you think about things more positively? That she had obviously come to trust you enough to share past experiences and felt it was important to disclose this to you? Aside from this recent problem is the relationship good overall? Can you focus on all the positives you have together rather than dwelling on things that happened with other people before she even knew you?

You worry you may not compare well with her past partners but it is worth remembering that we are all different and what worked or was enjoyable with one person may not be so good with someone else. It’s not just about how bodies fit together, techniques, or shared turn-ons but the wider relationship – how you communicate, show affection share values, interests and so on.

She has clearly told you she does not want to discuss this further and given she probably feels judged for being open with you it would be sensible to respect this.

Hopefully by thinking about why you hold these views and reconsidering how you view her and the relationship you can move forward. If you feel you are still judging her, are angry with her, or cannot stop thinking about her past it would be better to end the relationship while you address these issues yourself. else u wont be able to take it as u would visualise how she had sex with her many ex and the number of times they have the wonderful moments together before marrying you!

but first intercourse after weddding dinner.... hmm.. hard to believe. not unless she did it hundreds of times till she is not interested in sex...but on the positive note, since she tells u the truth. she will listen to u and treasure u more.

[sexcision]

Originally Posted by pensex

you feel she ‘misled’ you. But is this what really happened? Didn’t it actually go more like this: your girlfriend told you she had had a few partners in the early stages of dating or worst divorced?, but over time, as she’s come to trust you, she has been specific about her sexual past. Rather than this being dishonest it might be seen as her clarifying things as your relationship became more serious.

Maybe she’s never considered the number of partners she’s had before as important. Perhaps she didn’t disclose much before because it just wasn’t an issue for her. Or was focused more on enjoying a blossoming relationship with you?

To move forward can you think about things more positively? That she had obviously come to trust you enough to share past experiences and felt it was important to disclose this to you? Aside from this recent problem is the relationship good overall? Can you focus on all the positives you have together rather than dwelling on things that happened with other people before she even knew you?

You worry you may not compare well with her past partners but it is worth remembering that we are all different and what worked or was enjoyable with one person may not be so good with someone else. It’s not just about how bodies fit together, techniques, or shared turn-ons but the wider relationship – how you communicate, show affection share values, interests and so on.

She has clearly told you she does not want to discuss this further and given she probably feels judged for being open with you it would be sensible to respect this.

Hopefully by thinking about why you hold these views and reconsidering how you view her and the relationship you can move forward. If you feel you are still judging her, are angry with her, or cannot stop thinking about her past it would be better to end the relationship while you address these issues yourself. else u wont be able to take it as u would visualise how she had sex with her many ex and the number of times they have the wonderful moments together before marrying you!

but first intercourse after weddding dinner.... hmm.. hard to believe. not unless she did it hundreds of times till she is not interested in sex...but on the positive note, since she tells u the truth. she will listen to u and treasure u more.

Did I missed any of TS reply? I dun think he gave so much details.... Especially "
She has clearly told you she does not want to discuss this further and given she probably feels judged for being open with you it would be sensible to respect this." this part. Or do u know him personally to know the actual issue?

[strikeback4]

On the serious note, how do you judge if a girl is a virgin or not?

looking at her hymen is a myth, as a "Virgin" girl may break it due to sporting or fingering herself
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/ques...ties-other-sex

And some girls can have multiple sexual intercourse and will not break it as its elastic
http://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/i...reak-the-hymen

And even if the girl hymen break, she can "repair" it thru Hymenorrhaphy

And if you love at girl base on chemistry and her character or outlook etc... not if she is virgin or not, respect and mutual understanding will result in a happy marriage... If you keep suspecting in her virginity.... it will not lead to a happy ending.

And before guys demand for a virgin girls... 1st of all did the girl demand you to be a virgin guy? Not going around fucking other girls?

long story short, regardless of answer, you will still love her and accept her for who she is