Rather cheat than marry... - Page 4

no_faith · #46 27-06-2007, 04:28 PM

i dun tink bro acidman is going to test her sincerity.
it seems that even bro acidman know he will be cheated, he will rather to chose to take the gamble wif her.

he go fight his happiness even it is an illusion in the end.

i dun encourage such actions
eg this thread http://sbf.directory/showthread.php?t=70450
our bro also fall in love wif an FL.

at least one knows wat he wants.

Castrol · #47 27-06-2007, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by reuters

GCB + LP640 is also take care.

sorry bro, what are GCB and LP640?

Microsoft · #48 27-06-2007, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Castrol

sorry bro, what are GCB and LP640?

Lamborghini Murciélago LP640 Roadster?

Got dis type of car KC stick 2 u like super glue leow...

Acidman · #49 27-06-2007, 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by candidfan

They r actress. They r paid to act. As long as they r paid, they'll carry on with whatever role that is needed for them to earn their pay. You r the paymaster, as long as u pay them, they'll act for u. Once u stop paying them, naturally they'll stop acting too.Can they act for other paymasters? As long as there is no binding contract, of course they can & even if there is one, as long as they r not caught, they can still try it.

The interesting thing recently I treat her much better than before. Last time not so serious. Now buy quite a few things for her, SKII, phone, etc. But she treat me worse than before. That's why I doubt she's cheating me, more like scare I'll dump her one day.
If she's acting then champion liao. Play reverse psychology. But she continue like that I also feel like giving up. If she treat me nice, then surely I would lose more money.

soberguy · #50 27-06-2007, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Acidman

The interesting thing recently I treat her much better than before. Last time not so serious. Now buy quite a few things for her, SKII, phone, etc. But she treat me worse than before. That's why I doubt she's cheating me, more like scare I'll dump her one day.
If she's acting then champion liao. Play reverse psychology. But she continue like that I also feel like giving up. If she treat me nice, then surely I would lose more money.

So she is on ROI mode now?

candidfan · #51 27-06-2007, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Acidman

The interesting thing recently I treat her much better than before. Last time not so serious. Now buy quite a few things for her, SKII, phone, etc. But she treat me worse than before. That's why I doubt she's cheating me, more like scare I'll dump her one day.
If she's acting then champion liao. Play reverse psychology. But she continue like that I also feel like giving up. If she treat me nice, then surely I would lose more money.

Does buying her stuff show that she'll love u more? Nope. Just show's that u love her. If she love's u, she'll buy stuff for u too.
So what's she treating u worse than before? Demanding u buy her more stuff or demanding more of ur time & attention?
If she demanding more time & attention, then I suggest u go library & borrow books on how to manage a relationship liao. It might be she doesn't trust u enough or that she's just a power hungry queen like wu zhe tian.

Acidman · #52 27-06-2007, 06:40 PM

She didn't demand to buy anything. Sometimes very emotional and gets frustrated easily, saying things like difficult to marry here, all alone, not worthy of me, will I love her forever, etc.

no_faith · #53 27-06-2007, 07:17 PM

as a couple, very emotional and gets frustrated easily, not worthy of me, will I love her forever, these very common from a gals mouth.

the prob is if u have the strong will power at the first plc to know playing outside is juz a game, u wun get controlled emotionally.

the other prob is u are a too compassionate person, easily manipulate by emotions.
as long sum1 in ur life treats u better than any1, u crumble.

now u only can wish tat the gal is truely to you.

candidfan · #54 27-06-2007, 07:55 PM

That's normal for a boy-girl relationship. Go read a book on it, it'll help.As u progress, u'll learn & try out more stuff.It's all about trying, how many women have u met that don't worry about something? If it doesn't work out, just tell her & let her go find someone else.

BuNs · #55 27-06-2007, 08:25 PM

I really wonder why some PRC rather cheat your money than choose to marry you, after you have suggest marriage. Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown. Isn't life with a Singapore husband way better than a PRC husband?

From my encounter with PRCs so far, I concluded that majority of them come here for $$$, particularly S$$$ (S$1 = RMB4.97), unless you can provide them with both $$$ and marriage-with-comfortable-life. Otherwise, they will still prefer to earn S$$$ here and spend in China. Even some PRCs who got their PR status, they still send money back to buy property and assets, preparing to retire in their homeland one day. Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown? If you compare apple to apple (if S$1 = RMB1) and taken into consideration of their salary (basic salary ranging from RMB600 - RMB1200 in various cities), I think their living standard is higher than us, ie taxi fare starts from RMB5 - RMB12 depending on which city you are in.

Lord Imperious · #56 27-06-2007, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Acidman

That's where their economics fail I guess. Let's say you have a above average income. By staying with you all the way their life will surely be better. The money they cheat sure will used up one what. They are only in their early 20's still have 50 more years to go man.

Well they depends on how they spend their money. The clever ones buy apartments and stores to live off the rent. The not so clever ones save it in a bank. Then there are those that open shops and do business. Most however end up living it up for a few years and then go back to selling.

curious75 · #57 28-06-2007, 02:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Niceman

hi Acidman...
Let me guess you are in ur early 20s. No offence , but i think u r tooooooooo naive. Any PRC ger can sweet talk u and u most probably will give her all ur saving.

Most, NOT ALL, i say again, NOT ALL, are here to make quick bucks and convert to RMB and go home be kings and queens. Being here, they are still average. Gone back, their lives and livelihood will change, drastically... go china and see for yourself.

Is about experiences. If u dun experience yourself, is hard for us to explain also. Be there and done that.

Is just like frog in a the well, if u dun jump out of the well, no matter how others explain or describe, you still will believe that the sky in your eyes is only that big.

bros,well said

when i was in china,from there i realised the prc in singapore tell us a different story.in china especially these not high educated prc,they are just like a slave some even beg(where i ever met 2 young ladies ard twenties come to me ask for food n $) the prc are so damn desperate for $ where they can do anything to get you hooked.

for bros that are still single n never go to china,it will be the better to fly there have fun n see the very true color of PRC.then you will know what's the actual PRICE for them.dont think too high for them........

no offence,just to share.....

curious75 · #58 28-06-2007, 02:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Acidman

She didn't demand to buy anything. Sometimes very emotional and gets frustrated easily, saying things like difficult to marry here, all alone, not worthy of me, will I love her forever, etc.

its all abt acting in life,is there true love forever?bros,its all depends where or how you meet your gal.if she is from ktv,then forget it because she might be cheating on you or if she is true to you,your future life of cheonging will be not easy like now.just a point of sharing..........