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23-01-2005, 10:06 PM
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In the end, lots of instances whereby guys are actually being "bullied". 
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24-01-2005, 09:32 AM
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Actually there is really nothing much left to say in this situation. Single, with a stable job, reasonable income will make one more than desirable bachelor but the binding rope is the GF. I guess lots of us face the scenario; it is not that we simply enjoy cheonging, or a hardcore sex addict but the lure of commercial sex bundle with GF feeling is simply endearing. What does this boils down to? Social problems I guess.
Society improves and advance, women get educated, know their rights and have the power to demand for more, while we men had always been the dominant figure around and still are in some cases. What do you make out of this? Seems that the liberation of feminine rights had boosts the ego of the gentle sex out of proportion. Men remain as where they are while women status rise among the ranks at the expense of men’s respect and appreciativeness. Men learnt to grow to be delicate, like a good old wine, it gets mellow with age. We try our best to handle the gentle sex in a melodious and tactful manner, not too submissive and not too subjective, for you never knew what those years of education had taught her. Like the running water, it can float a boat, it can capsize it too. We all fall victims to the storm of “ET” (emotion and temperamental), unaware of where and when it strikes. Such undesirable experiences had compel men to seek sanctuary in the arms of other companies even we all know all these are driven by money. For the temporary pleasure, we are willing to inject our hard earn cash in exchange for what we lust for, the GF feeling. Why, one may ask? The simple and straightforward answer, is simply we do it get it from our partners. We tried to care and love wholehearted but was shown to the door when ET strikes. What do we demand from a hard day’s work, some concern and care perhaps, not another demand to pick her up after work half way across the island. Once is ok, twice is coincidence but thrice is enough to break the straw. Decades ago, women stay home, run the family, does the housework while the men provides for the family as the pillar of the house. Now, the men’s stand is still the pillar of the house, bring the dough back but additionally must do the housework, see to the need of the wives as well while the women, lessen in housework, earn and spent their own dough and expect to be well taken care of. So may I ask, where is the equality? These also explain part of the reasons why men stray. 
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#588
24-01-2005, 12:22 PM
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#589
24-01-2005, 12:30 PM
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Problem is the gals 4got what is called relationship, they 4got the word romance ..... Taking a leaf from some past relationship.... barely a month or 2 into a relationship...the gals in sg will start asking things like...in my case i have been self-employed 4 a long time .... "U mean u have no CPF...how to buy a house? It's not fair cos I have to use my CPF to pay" - cheez r we planning marriage soon ???? "I m a U grad and u only diploma" - so what if i make more dough than U "U r self-employed and your income not stable. How can u afford to support me in future" - sure sure .... but my annual salary still more than u ... they wan commitment and sure they got one but then romance is what keep relationship alive ..... No doubt man plunge into commercial sex cos relationship with an sg gal is also nothing short of commercial too .... in most cases i mean
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#590
24-01-2005, 12:47 PM
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#591
24-01-2005, 01:10 PM
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Seen friends who got sucked into this turmoil, like a cancerous tumor, it just keep spreading. I can never fathom the morale of spending $10K on a photo shoot where the most glamorous moment is when your guest prior entry to the dinner table, stole a few glances and ending up underneath the pile of old magazines deep in the storeroom. The only superlative excuse I can gather is that this is a once in a lifetime matter. I was left laughing hysterically upon hearing this for I believe this is also a once in a lifetime most expensive photo shoot. Like the peace before the tsunami waves, first the water receded so fast way beyond you imagination, just like the cash in you bank. Next you went thru the banquet and flew off happily for honeymoon, to a place that sucks up your two months’ salary even before you set foot on that land. Like the fish left high and dry when the water receded, you gasp for breath when you see the price tag on the things there. Like the ignorant child seeing the marine life on the beach, fascinated by the view, she urges you to further on, again “Once in a lifetime” at helms again. Blinded by the love and not wanting to disappoint her, you say to yourself, no worries, I can manage the cash, I can still max out the cards. Hence the both of you went chasing the depleting water, it was fun, absolute beyond words can describe. Slowly you see the sea birds fly and the faraway white line of the waves, it get bigger and more, just like you bills laid before you. You flew back to your new home, sat down and start worrying about the white line you saw as it seems to get higher, when finally the bill came, for the banquet, for the honeymoon, for the expenditure. Like the ruthless waves, the figures sent you spinning, gasping for air, you heart pound like…. Well “Once in a lifetime” again. So where is the ignorant child? She continues to act “ignorant”.
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#592
24-01-2005, 03:14 PM
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1. Nice Photo Shoot ( 3k - 10k) 2. Wedding Dinner in Hotel no Restaurants (500-800 per table and minimum 40 table => 20K - 32K) 3. House (180K - 250K - can pay installments) 4. Renovation on house (20K - 100K) 5. Honeymoon ( 3K - 10K) 6. Diamond Ring (2K) To marry a sg gal requires lots of monetary committment ....
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#593
24-01-2005, 04:14 PM
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24-01-2005, 04:16 PM
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if not wait long long Go dutch the best thing i tink....hehz
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#595
24-01-2005, 04:18 PM
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Wah change avatar liao.  I always pay for the girl unless her attitude sucks, but so what in the end I ended playing carrot head.
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24-01-2005, 04:20 PM
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24-01-2005, 04:22 PM
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24-01-2005, 04:22 PM
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24-01-2005, 04:23 PM
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24-01-2005, 04:25 PM
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曾经沧海难为水， 除却巫山不是云。取次花从懒回顾， 半缘修道半缘君。
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