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Old 29-01-2011, 02:38 PM
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

At the end of the day, as a consumer, one must know what he's goin into.
There are several type of cheongsters.

1) Fuck & forget aka pay to CUM
This type would belong to the not so seasoned cheongster
Cos after a long while of quickies, he'd face problems of maintaining erection or cumming
That's when some emotional needs develop instead of just meat!

2) Cheong all the way cos they like the WL
This type, extremely common, are very lonely individuals.
They come from all walks of life, from blue to white collars
Can be single or even married wif kids
Once they like the WL, they dun need to be KCed by the WLs but will instead, self KC
This type will burn worst and chances of them disappearing from friends and kakis after their pathetic ordeal is more than likely

3) The hunter
Just like the pursuit and all the games involved to make a kill.
Not outright transactional, but where both parties pit their KC wits against each other
The 1st one to give in, looses
But once meat taken, the interest is lost very soon
I belong to this category!
So must always be on the prowl for more foes
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

I belong or thought I belong to catergory Hunter for many years until recently, my prey turns out to be my predator.

My mind is still straight enough not to let if affect my normal life nor burn my finances but damn, I sure fell in love this time.



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At the end of the day, as a consumer, one must know what he's goin into.
There are several type of cheongsters.

1) Fuck & forget aka pay to CUM
This type would belong to the not so seasoned cheongster
Cos after a long while of quickies, he'd face problems of maintaining erection or cumming
That's when some emotional needs develop instead of just meat!

2) Cheong all the way cos they like the WL
This type, extremely common, are very lonely individuals.
They come from all walks of life, from blue to white collars
Can be single or even married wif kids
Once they like the WL, they dun need to be KCed by the WLs but will instead, self KC
This type will burn worst and chances of them disappearing from friends and kakis after their pathetic ordeal is more than likely

3) The hunter
Just like the pursuit and all the games involved to make a kill.
Not outright transactional, but where both parties pit their KC wits against each other
The 1st one to give in, looses
But once meat taken, the interest is lost very soon
I belong to this category!
So must always be on the prowl for more foes
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Old 29-01-2011, 11:29 PM
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

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Well, just this mindset about not questioning the source of income is already mind-blowing for me. I know of some WL being introduced into this trade by their relatives, aunties, etc. So I'm sure it's not just about not bothering, but a serious cultural and mindset issue.

I read from other threads that not having money is considered a bigger disgrace than selling their body for a living. So that's the upbringing thingy. We eat the same (thai) rice but cultivate different kind of human being. LOL
The mindset and culture of these developing countries are very different from us in SG indeed. Because of their poverty, the families are usually very closely knitted and unfortunately the womenfolk bears most of the bread-and-butter responsibilities. Face value is important too, so the girls just lie about what they do overseas. My ex-tirak told her mom over the phone (I was just next to her) that she was in SG to set up restaurant biz! bwahahaha

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well there are also cases where the mum is the one that request/force/introduce the daughter to it. (or at least that is what that few WL told me.
Mum even advise daughter to try to find a singapore husband while working here.
What also confuses me is that the same mum that forbid/or frown upon her own daughter to go to another guy place is also the one that encourage her daughter to be a WL in singapore, and discouarge her own daughter to go home earlier than the contracted period.

Please do however bear in mind that while I know for certain there are such cases, I however do not know the details and thought process nor the circumstances in detail as I do not understand thai language to have good discussion with the WL.
Really? I don't think so lah, bro. Face value is very important to them, and there is where the dichotomy lies... To escape poverty, the daughter travels to work as a WL to send money home. And in order not to disgrace the family (as gossips spread quickly) the daughter lies to say she is doing some "business" or work in some "restaurant" if she was to be questioned at all. And when she is back to her hometown she spends all the money she saved on her family and end up broke, only to be back in the trade again. That is why few of these WLs can ever break out of this poverty cycle without external assistance from *ahem* their tiraks! So guys, understand that the innate ability for WLs to seduce and KC you is a very important survival skill......
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Old 29-01-2011, 11:48 PM
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

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My 2 cents ...

Think of the consequence of a WL that is being KC'ed by you,
and assuming that you had not been KC'ed by her, and you
decide to dump her one day... can u predict for sure how she will react? could it be another "hell have no fury like a woman scorned?"
Good point here, bro. I believe that as long as we are not out to cheat the WL's hard-earned money, there is nothing to fear or hide. These ladies are also not innocent and they understand the name of the game: Every customer is just a customer...and their primary objective is just to earn our money. Every customer is the RULE rather than the exception, and KC/GFE etc is just part of the package. But if they fall for the exception, then they can really blame no one but themselves.
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Old 30-01-2011, 11:02 AM
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

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I belong or thought I belong to catergory Hunter for many years until recently, my prey turns out to be my predator.

My mind is still straight enough not to let if affect my normal life nor burn my finances but damn, I sure fell in love this time.

Quoting from one of my earlier post in HFJ to share:
Hunter or hunted,
They are but moments in our journey of life.
There is no absolute hunter nor hunted.
Wisdom is in recognising those moments,
an instinct horned by battle scars

Am glad that you DO recognise the moment when your prey becomes your predator and reduce damage to the bare minimum.
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Old 30-01-2011, 11:17 AM
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

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At the end of the day, as a consumer, one must know what he's goin into.
There are several type of cheongsters.

1) Fuck & forget aka pay to CUM
This type would belong to the not so seasoned cheongster
Cos after a long while of quickies, he'd face problems of maintaining erection or cumming
That's when some emotional needs develop instead of just meat!
......

3) The hunter
Just like the pursuit and all the games involved to make a kill.
Not outright transactional, but where both parties pit their KC wits against each other
The 1st one to give in, looses
But once meat taken, the interest is lost very soon
I belong to this category!
So must always be on the prowl for more foes
Good categorisation from a seasoned cheongster...

Thinking abt Cat 1 and Cat 3.
Cat 1 is focused on the end game (the act) and the process is transactional.
Though bonks may not be as satisfying, it is up to individual to inject KC, GFE in that short one hour of engagement (some term it got chemistry lah)

Cat 3 enjoys the process of getting to the end game, and each conquest is a new high, and hence is addictive. Do require good strategy and financial power to defeat the competition in the process. The resulting bonk should be more sextifying. The meat would also realise that they have to give more
GFE bonks since it comes with a premium and they would do all it takes for "customer retention".

Whatever category we belong, cheong with care... and be happy
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

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Good point here, bro. I believe that as long as we are not out to cheat the WL's hard-earned money, there is nothing to fear or hide. These ladies are also not innocent and they understand the name of the game: Every customer is just a customer...and their primary objective is just to earn our money. Every customer is the RULE rather than the exception, and KC/GFE etc is just part of the package. But if they fall for the exception, then they can really blame no one but themselves.
Yes, WL fall for us thinking that our KC is real.
Even though we can say, from our vantage point, that the WL
can really blame no one but themselves if they fall for us,
but that may not be what the WL think (from their vantage point)
when you want to dump them. Their actions are driven by what they
think and not what we think.
Hence my caution about thinking ahead about how they will
react when u dump them.
bro hamsapkwai painted a scenario in an earlier post on how a WL reacts.
These types of reaction may be a minority but they are out there ....
Cheong with care and good luck to all bros in this game.
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

Thank you to all who share experience and knowledge here especially to bro Harvest *clap*

And I can say that I've been KC-ed-proof from the beginning thanks to other cheongsters aka my best friend who pretty much more experienced than me.

IMO, for beginners, you need to have at least a confidant so that they're able to guide you on the do and the don't of this dangerous world!

And it's true what bro Harvest mentioned. That refraining from emotional attached to the WL is important unless you want to get your heart detached from your body. ONLY use emotion during and leave it out when you're done!
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

I think i'm pretty good at KC a WL without being KC by her. Up to date, I have bonked one for free just before she was due to go back...with special treatment which I shall not elaborate. We spend the whole morning and afternoon and afternoon in the room doing nothing but just hugging, cuddling and of course fucking like our lives depend on it. I ended up with a sore waist for 3 days after that.

I got another one 'sexually assaulting' me the moment I got into the room and would not let me get out of the room or her pussy for that matter even though her boss was smsing and calling her like crazy that the time was up. We went on for close to another hour before she reluctantly let me go. Even then, she urged me to give my msn contact so that she can contact me.

I got another one who give me the sex of my life with her special skills which she does not do to other customers. She could even tell me it was getting boring and suggest some kinky stuff. The same thing, we bonked way...beyond the timing..it was a good thing she got no customers lined up.

I have to clarify all the above-mentioned are RTF.
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Good morning! This is a great thread.

I just like to add my 2 cents.

KC-ing is a fun game.

What hv I learned in 24 months of BY-ing PRC MMs?

When a man becomes enamored w/ a gal for whatever reason, he loses his objectivity n rationality n will attach great value to her pussy...and he will end up paying dearly.

If a man realizes that all pussies, including very beautiful ones, are fungible commodities n are expendable, he will never be KC-ed by any of them.

IMHO, if a man is perceived to hv high ranking on the Male Dominance Scale n if he maintains excellent self mastery throughout the RS w/ a gal n at the same time gives her regular COS, she will be KC-ed. Period.

It makes no difference if she is a WL/FL or non-WL. Her age, educational level n social-economic status r totally irrelevant. He really doesn't need to say or do anything special or be nice to her. He can even treat her quite badly. She will fall for him bcos she can't help it, hehehe.

Cheers!

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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[QUOTE=warbird;6020381]KC-ing is a fun game.

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Simply throw $$$ at her feet & she will KC u, bj u etc
KC-cing is a fun and simple game, provided u hv $$$ like oil brokers, insurance agents, bankers and of course property consultants to throw $$$ at the face of those money-face KTV girls
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

Warbird,

I have been working in Singapore for a long time now and, If I were to recommend anybody new to the area to understand one thing, it would be what you had just written.
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KC-ing is a fun game.

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Simply throw $$$ at her feet & she will KC u, bj u etc
KC-cing is a fun and simple game, provided u hv $$$ like oil brokers, insurance agents, bankers and of course property consultants to throw $$$ at the face of those money-face KTV girls
Hi bro,

I take exception to ur assertion that throwing money at these mercenary PRC gals will get them KC-ed. Quite the opposite really.

To KC these pussies, money must be spent judiciously...establishing rapport n making emotional connections is the way to go...

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Warbird,

I have been working in Singapore for a long time now and, If I were to recommend anybody new to the area to understand one thing, it would be what you had just written.
Bro pwduncan,

You make my day!!

Cheers!!
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

I have read this thread and i find it most informative and helpful. Wish i have known about this website sooner. It would have saved me a lot of hassles and headaches. What i would like to add is that, when you want to play the KC game. Be prepared to be KC-ed too. I would say expect the worse that can happen to you if you are into KCing them. That way when things go awry, somewhere in your heart that you know it might happen and it will ease the pain and suffering which we will encounter. During my recent years of tryst. I have encountered and suffered a lot of it. Up to the extent of borrowing money from friends and financial institution to finance my escapades. Thankfully it is in the past now and i can sometime look back and warn myself that it will happen again if i continue down on this road to oblivion because i am not able to control my emotions and thinking with my little brother. Just a reminder to all the brothers out there. Try to not get too deeply involved whether if its a WL, GRO, ML. Sometimes it is hard to control our emotions when it comes to KC and from my past observations and personal experience, We will sometimes be in a state of denial about our real feelings towards them. For those who have a family, try to think about what will happen to your family when if you have spend the last of your moolahs on the girls. I would like to thank all of those who have contributed to this thread which will be helpful to me and a lot of the brothers still lost in the woods. May all of us comeback only with flesh wounds and not battered bodies.
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

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I have read this thread and i find it most informative and helpful. Wish i have known about this website sooner. It would have saved me a lot of hassles and headaches. What i would like to add is that, when you want to play the KC game. Be prepared to be KC-ed too. I would say expect the worse that can happen to you if you are into KCing them. That way when things go awry, somewhere in your heart that you know it might happen and it will ease the pain and suffering which we will encounter. During my recent years of tryst. I have encountered and suffered a lot of it. Up to the extent of borrowing money from friends and financial institution to finance my escapades. Thankfully it is in the past now and i can sometime look back and warn myself that it will happen again if i continue down on this road to oblivion because i am not able to control my emotions and thinking with my little brother. Just a reminder to all the brothers out there. Try to not get too deeply involved whether if its a WL, GRO, ML. Sometimes it is hard to control our emotions when it comes to KC and from my past observations and personal experience, We will sometimes be in a state of denial about our real feelings towards them. For those who have a family, try to think about what will happen to your family when if you have spend the last of your moolahs on the girls. I would like to thank all of those who have contributed to this thread which will be helpful to me and a lot of the brothers still lost in the woods. May all of us comeback only with flesh wounds and not battered bodies.
Nicely put, but I would like to add that it would be easier if it was an WL or FL; because you know it is coming.
If we are engaging so call normal girls, you do not see it coming, when you are being KCed. And it would a whole lot more getting broad sided......
Case in point, people who are blind from birth or those who lost their sight gradually can accept it much better than those lose out of the sudden.
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