How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[warbird]

Originally Posted by decibel8808

I have read this thread and i find it most informative and helpful. Wish i have known about this website sooner. It would have saved me a lot of hassles and headaches. What i would like to add is that, when you want to play the KC game. Be prepared to be KC-ed too.................Thankfully it is in the past now and i can sometime look back and warn myself that it will happen again if i continue down on this road to oblivion because i am not able to control my emotions and thinking with my little brother...So..........sometimes it is hard to control our emotions when it comes to KC and from my past observations and personal experience........................................

Hi bro decibel8808,

The KEY to surviving this KC game and emerging unscathed is a man's ability to control his emotions. He must hv very good SELF MASTERY, the more the better. If a man can't control his heart, he will get hurt n suffer badly, hehe.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[teebs_darklord]

The No.1 rule to KC a gal is never to fall in love with the gal you are trying to KC. Once you fall for the gal, you are going to be KCed by her and not she is going to be KCed by you.

[decibel8808]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro decibel8808,

The KEY to surviving this KC game and emerging unscathed is a man's ability to control his emotions. He must hv very good SELF MASTERY, the more the better. If a man can't control his heart, he will get hurt n suffer badly, hehe.

Cheers!

Bro WB

Quite true bro warbird. Often when people feel anger or hatred towards them after they were KC is because they themselves open their heart to them and let down their guard. Somewhere in the midst of the r/s sometimes we will forget that this is a game we are playing with them and subconsciously we have clouded our judgement and treated them as a real relationship. Mostly i think is because our blood have went to the wrong head "Men cannot think with two heads and women cannot talk with two mouths" Haha. I do agree that somewhere amongst them will be a few who are genuine but its like one in a million.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

The No.1 rule to KC a gal is never to fall in love with the gal you are trying to KC. Once you fall for the gal, you are going to be KCed by her and not she is going to be KCed by you.

Well said bro.

Originally Posted by decibel8808

Quite true bro warbird. Often when people feel anger or hatred towards them after they were KC is because they themselves open their heart to them and let down their guard. Somewhere in the midst of the r/s sometimes we will forget that this is a game we are playing with them and subconsciously we have clouded our judgement and treated them as a real relationship. Mostly i think is because our blood have went to the wrong head "Men cannot think with two heads and women cannot talk with two mouths" Haha. I do agree that somewhere amongst them will be a few who are genuine but its like one in a million.

Very true bro.

Sometimes we all get angry which is OK. But it should be very transient. We should be relaxed, calm n happy within a few minutes, hehehe.

Hatred is a most negative n destructive emotion. We should harbor no hatred towards anyone, even our worst enemy...

Cheers!

Bro WB

[V|ernar]

Wow , see many senior around posting their story and teaching the new young blood . Mine is simple , I fall and took 2 years to raise back to be a more powerful man . I got nothing much to teach , just 1 short phrase I live on . That is 天下间没有白吃的午餐！I live on this now , you want something ? You got to pay for it ! Free bonks from a WL that has fallen into your kc trap ? You think too much my brothers , end of the day you will be paying it back maybe more maybe less ? iPad , iPhone , watches , perfume and etc start coming out from them . You know 放长线掉大鱼 , they also know the game ! Ask yourself why they choose to be a WL ? And the answer is just right there from the start .

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

The No.1 rule to KC a gal is never to fall in love with the gal you are trying to KC. Once you fall for the gal, you are going to be KCed by her and not she is going to be KCed by you.

200% agree with u bro. when it comes to KC game, the rule of the jungle applies.

[decibel8808]

Right now, am in a r/s again... Small head to convincing, can't argue with him no matter how hard i try. Though i am keeping my distance and emotion in check now. Have not spend much on her only for food and groceries shopping. She seldom ask for $$... sounds familiar.. Even if ask is a couple of hundreds only. Once i lost my wallet and she offered to give me some $$$ until i get all my documents and cards back. I hope that i wont end up in the same predicament again as last time. At the present moment things are progressing slowly. Just need more time to see where is this one going. Or should i say what kind of new tricks that i will encounter in the near future.

[vietboi]

hi bros, this is really an interesting thread, although i know contextually what the abbreviations mean, but i'm really interested to know what they actually mean.. sorry for the stupid question!

i know that FL is freelancer, but what's KC, RTF and WL? Thanks..

-supernoob

[eRicKz]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

The No.1 rule to KC a gal is never to fall in love with the gal you are trying to KC. Once you fall for the gal, you are going to be KCed by her and not she is going to be KCed by you.

Well said bro, this is the #1 rule that all bros need to instil in the mind.

IMHO, this KC game is just like any other BGR, except that the KC game involves 2 parties with hidden agenda. The man wants to KC the WL/FL/KTV gal but not KC-ed by her, and the WL/FL/KTV gal wants to KC the man but not KC-ed by him too. The man may feel that he has already KC the gal, but who knows if the gal is real KC-ed or just an act of KC-ed. Vice-versa, it can be the gal may feel that she has already KC the man, but is the man really KC-ed or just an another act of KC-ed too? Haha.. of course you can lay down all the rules, but end of the day, it really depends on how well you can control your emotions in the KC game. Many people can say that they won't be KC-ed not matter how, but no one knows for sure what will happen if you chanced upon THAT SPECIAL ONE gal (as they say in chinese - yi shan hai yuo yi shan gao mah). If you want to play KC, just make sure you are really prepared for it, and it is really not for people with wife & family/ stable GF loh I think.. Because you are risking a LOT more mah.

Also, the chances of a WL/FL/KTV gal being real KC-ed by a man is extremely low and in most cases it is the man who is real KC-ed by the WL/FL/KTV gal. I think this is because humans all have emotions and feelings mah, and especially SG guys because we are all so kind-hearted hahaha.. Lonely guys get easily KC-ed too, IMHO.

A man wants to KC a WL/FL/KTV gal for the thrills,fun and excitement, without being KC-ed by her. But there may be a 1% chance (or more??) that someday, somewhere, someone may finally KC you back lor.. LOL..

If really by chance any bro here are KC-ed by THAT ONE WL/FL/KTV gal, just try not to be deeply KC-ed until out of control (wu fa zi ba). Make sure you still got that one last resort that you can parachute yourself out of the situation (like a pilot in a crashing airplane). Or like in a casino, make sure you do not bet away your one last chip, saved it for another good day.. haha

But life is short and we only live once, so just enjoy the fun while you can, but be prepared for the unexpected since you choose to play the KC game.. hehe..

[Gaofar]

And I was wondering why such a wonderful thread would be escaping from my radar.. Oh yeah, this thread is from 2009, the year that I was "mortally injured"..

Anyway fast forward to 2011 (phew, what a blast those past years!), this KC thing is sure to be forever on-going issue, with newbies coming in and learning the art of KC or kenna KCed, this subject matter will never be stale!

I'll bring my analogy of futures trading into this context:

. First cut is always the best cut
Many a times there will be people whom believed that they can "read" the market and able to anticipate the movements, but when all indicators are telling you to abort, and yet they are blinded and stoically believe that it is not happening, they will tends to rely on their "instincts" to go against market. Many have died just like that.

In short, when shit hits the fan and you have a sinking feeling about the relationship is going to cause you further agonies in the future, and with all "indicators" telling you to abort: Need to lend money to friends who needs it; needs money to renovate house or shit like that; saying that you are the only one for her and she serves no one but you; etc., etc.

EJECT NOW and get out!

. When the market turns either bullish or bearish, YOU BETTER TURN ALSO!

In like minded concept as above point, this is to further emphasize the flexibility of oneself to able to pull out when required, instead of blindly believing that the market will return to his favour in time. It never do.

So yeah.. Just some "ikan-bilis" pointers from me to all newbies whom wanted to take something away from here.

Due credits must still give to senior bros like DYB, warbird, Harvest, goodpartner, aczeta76 and so on for their contributions to this thread thus far..

So to the "Glorious Dead"!

[eQuipment]

safest bet of not wanting to get KC is to leave your heart, emo & morals locked up at home & enjoy yourself like a sex fiend.

there's an old saying, bad woman like to find good man, bad man like to find good woman. if u want the leg spreading woman to take interest in u, u act blur, act virgin, act gongtutut, and if u have some $$ to burn, she will try her best to corrupt u.

[Harvest]

Originally Posted by warbird

...
IMHO, if a man is perceived to hv high ranking on the Male Dominance Scale n if he maintains excellent self mastery throughout the RS w/ a gal n at the same time gives her regular COS, she will be KC-ed. Period...

Bro WB

Bro Warbird, glad you are still active in this forum! BTW what is COS eh?? Me KC newbie blur blur....

[warbird]

Originally Posted by Harvest

Bro Warbird, glad you are still active in this forum! BTW what is COS eh?? Me KC newbie blur blur....

COS = Continuous Orgasmic State = Continuous Oxytocin Surge

Oxytocin is the bonding hormone or love hormone. I call it the sexual addiction hormone, hehe.

My hypothesis is that if u give a gal regular COS, she will be sexually addicted to u, hehe.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[RealEstateGuy]

Brother, if you were already in a normal relationship with a healthy and active sex life you wouldnt even be debating KC this and that nor asking for advice on KC this or that. Instead of guessing if she is outfoxing you, why not just pursue the known and what is good for you? The time, money and energy you put into chasing KTV girls could be shifted into meeting a nice gal at a cafe, gym, church, etc. If you are not looking for a relationship but still desire and need an active safe sex life, why not find a good FB? I dont understand why you choose misery and problems for yourself when there are other options with lower misery?

[shctaw]

Spend a good 2 hrs on this thread.... really gain a lot of knowledge.

I usually use another phone number for a new KC. After I am sick and tired; or sianz already I will simply disappear by throwing away the sim card.

I always have 2 sets of new and un-used mobile number with me all the time. I find them more important than condom.

When I step into Cheongster world; I found myself becoming very cold blood. Especially toward WL and FB. I may appear to be concern and loving; but deep inside I know I am only playing a game.

And when I play game; I play to win.