The one you marry, is not the one you loved most? - Page 47

surfer888 · #**691** 09-02-2007, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by jng1103

Same old story... Most of the men who were conned by PRC women coz they got "heart". Does it mean, I dont have a heart? No... it means, I got both heart and brain

Sometimes it depends which one was ruling the roost at that time. For PRCs most of the time a 3rd party makes the decision... the little head down there.

surfer888 · #**692** 09-02-2007, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

ask if its of any good to incinerate the entire forest, just so u can savor & appreciate that 1 pathetic blade of grass.

Its a 4 leaf clover... and still looking for that pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

suteerak1099 · #**693** 09-02-2007, 02:06 PM

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Its muddle-headed, alright. Sometimes I wonder if its retribution... after all, it was just days before we were supposed to meet her parents when I told her that I was going to marry someone else.

darn... that mustve been 1 hellava shocker for her... i wonder how she took that piece of news, considering she's probably sang your praises to her folks for sometime, before the "climax" (anti-climax) that, she's gone to the point of arranging for you to meet the parents.

suteerak1099 · #**694** 09-02-2007, 02:09 PM

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Its a 4 leaf clover... and still looking for that pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

4 leafed clover? then in that case, perhaps there's more than what seems to meet the eye, least for whatever sublime saving grace she deserves. but do keep an open mind, that there's also plenty of other clovers, where that came from....

*perhaps your inhibitance in that chosen field, could possibly unveil even more undiscovered gems.

surfer888 · #**695** 09-02-2007, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

darn... that mustve been 1 hellava shocker for her... i wonder how she took that piece of news, considering she's probably sang your praises to her folks for sometime, before the "climax" (anti-climax) that, she's gone to the point of arranging for you to meet the parents.

On top of cancelling plane tickets for her parents, she didn't set foot in SG for more than 5 yrs and just disappeared, moved house, changed numbers, etc. More than half a decade later she appeared as suddenly as she disappeared and we were back to square one... bonking away like long lost lovers although I was married to someone else. Her mum says I'm crazy as she knows and can see how much I love her daughter but still married someone else. During this time, we had a relationship of extreme ups and downs (or appearance and disappearance) though none lasting more than a few days.

A few years later, she disappeared completely again and I located her in the States... then last week I caught sight of her twice crossing the streets in SG while I was driving....

... and her mum thought I was the crazy one.

surfer888 · #**696** 09-02-2007, 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

4 leafed clover? then in that case, perhaps there's more than what seems to meet the eye, least for whatever sublime saving grace she deserves. but do keep an open mind, that there's also plenty of other clovers, where that came from....

*perhaps your inhibitance in that chosen field, could possibly unveil even more undiscovered gems.

Its a complicated affair (aren't all of them?) made worse with cultural and language differences, financial concerns, sex, drugs and violence (nah.. no drugs & violence)... with a dash of soju for that heady feeling.

.... now it sounds like a synopsis for something Sidney Sheldon wrote.

GhostRay · #**697** 09-02-2007, 03:04 PM

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More than half a decade later she appeared as suddenly as she disappeared and we were back to square one... bonking away like long lost lovers although I was married to someone else. .

... and her mum thought I was the crazy one.

I only love this part.

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... and her mum thought I was the crazy one.

And this.....

Muhahahaha

jintulan · #**698** 09-02-2007, 08:26 PM

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My brain learns from the past... my heart is another story.

Those two seems totally disconnected, aren't they?

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.... now it sounds like a synopsis for something Sidney Sheldon wrote.

you gonna miss him?

Shuang_Jie_Gun · #**699** 09-02-2007, 08:40 PM

[QUOTE=Deep Blue;1846230]Ok then, so this is the tough part. Perhaps it may be a better idea to keep your distance then, no point go tugging her heart strings, making both of you feeling so uncomfortable altogether.

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basically the distance is very far,just merely chatting on msn is the farthest we are going so far.up to now i still dun knw if i had made the right choice,its too late but always seem like i regretted my decision back then..

Deztruct · #**700** 10-02-2007, 12:53 AM

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Originally Posted by surfer888

I needed the safetywear as I have falling down for more than 10 yrs with the same girl. The worst part is that more than 50% of the time, I fall because I get pushed by her... plus get kicked by her when I'm down. Sometimes, I think I'm a sucker for punishment.

i understand how u feel..sometimes love make us do funny things..instead of protectin ourselves as we wld usually will..we keep letting pple hurt us..mayb all of us hv a hope tat the rainbow wld come after the rain tats why we keep goin back for more punishment

Deztruct · #**701** 10-02-2007, 12:55 AM

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Fate can be cruel sometimes. Just a few days back, I was driving and stopped at a traffic light when it turned red... and there she was, the love of my life from a distant land... crossing the road and just walked past my car. Mind you, it was a quiet road with not much pedestrian traffic and she does not live in SG but was just down for a couple of days to visit relatives. I was so shocked I did not know what to do.

Fortunately, she called me a few days later and we met up. Told her about the incident and she was shocked as well... destiny???

waa...like tat also can lar? i guess if u believe in fate and destiny..tat mean u n her fate are not over yet..either mayb u owe her alot in previous life or tat someone up there has somethin in store for the 2 of u in future

Deztruct · #**702** 10-02-2007, 12:59 AM

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... and her mum thought I was the crazy one.

bro..i seriously think tat ur story with the ger is like a love movie..even as outsiders readin ur story..i can feel ur sadness and hopelessness..i cant imagine how u can go thru all these

Deep Blue · #**703** 10-02-2007, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

basically the distance is very far,just merely chatting on msn is the farthest we are going so far.up to now i still dun knw if i had made the right choice,its too late but always seem like i regretted my decision back then..

Well, it's just only seems like it and not like it, afterall, you are still doing fine without her at the moment. Dont hesitate too much in decisions sometimes, no one is asking you to let go but simply keep it simple. Stay in touch and just be friends, you will know if the sparks will fly again.

Deep Blue · #**704** 10-02-2007, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Deztruct

i understand how u feel..sometimes love make us do funny things..instead of protectin ourselves as we wld usually will..we keep letting pple hurt us..mayb all of us hv a hope tat the rainbow wld come after the rain tats why we keep goin back for more punishment

Sad thing is that it is still raining for many of us till now.....

mantikore · #**705** 11-02-2007, 03:49 AM

A scenario for you guys to ponder and gimme some solutions

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If you are a gal, you are pregnant with your bf's baby; unplanned pregnancy. You've decided to keep the baby and go through the customary rites BUT not registering the marriage. What could be the possible reasons?? Would be good if the ladies in this forum give their views too.

This was told to me by a gal I liked and cared for a lot. She seems not too keen to proceed with the customary rites too but no choice..... Asked her why and she gave me a shitty load of excuses. I really can't fathom her reasons for doing so... Is it because her feelings for the husband-to-be has gone with the wind or is it because of me? I hope it's not second reason because although I really like her a lot and she knows it but I would want her to give the marriage a try before giving it up. Is it crazy/weird of me to think this way??? I know she likes me too but currently I can't promise her anything until I settled my side of things.
Losing sleep over this now