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Old 12-11-2008, 04:04 AM
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Re: A painful decision

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he can never win, so does Ekin. suppose the negotiator guess the right answer it will be Ekin's turn to HOPE. the girls involved in KC shits also have their own HOPES of winning over the guys and getting wat they want. tats y i think wat sammyboyfor said make some sense lah, one should be realistic when come to commercial sex.
You need to go watch it online or something. Quite a few movies use mindgames as the centre stage but 暗战 1 and 2 really emphasize on it.

To answer your question, the person setting up the stage for the opponent will know the rules and bottomline of the game. Therefore there is very little chance of the game master falling into the same trap which he has been using against his opponent. Applying this on the scene, Ekin knows he can control the outcome, therefore he plays it. He will never lose becos his opponent will never win. If there is 1% chance that he will lose, he will stop the game and start another one which he is confident of 100% control. Again he will never lose. This is not a defensive strategy, this is an offensive strategy. When a person is able to control the outcome he can get anything he wants in the world.

Money is a currency for normal people to get what they want. Mindgame players can persuade his target to give him what he wants, including their own lives.

Problem is, we think talking is cheap. Worse still, we think talking is just their way to get close to us and help to give us our relief.
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Oh about that free time. Sam's right to a certain extent, living down under has a different pace & no much meimeis to lure him
No meimeis down under??? You gotta be kidding! They have flooded the major cities here just as they have the world over.
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Old 12-11-2008, 05:03 AM
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Now that is a class act all by itself. Not for us mere mortals to replicate.
Thanks hor Slider for the under the belt punch.

Bro porscheclub, the above is not possible.
The above takes alot of patience and grooming....yes grooming...it can be achieved.
Lastly, for those who wish to apply the above, you need the following criteria to be met:
1) You must be in ABSOLUTE control of everything
2) You wife must belong to those who are thinkers, not the old fashioned types who just nag and bitch abt everything under the sun
3) Your mistress to be must have nerves of steel, brains and lots of it, patience and knows how to win the hearts of your wife n family n children if any

As for you, your job is to ensure there's a code of conduct to be met in your harem, know how and who to do wat and wif who........allocation of responsibilities will and must be based on hierachy
Last, once blended in, you leave them to sort everything out, you just be the king for your kingdom is well ruled by your new board of directors who will fuck themselves up shud they try to screw or undermine the kingdom!

Last n most important, tell your wife that in due respect of her position, NO ONE else can bear your children except her.
As for the mistresses, tell them that in due respect to your 1st wife, their curse for being wif you is to be never be allowed to bear children for you, but you'll love them more than your 1st wife...hehehehehe

Basic fundamentals only hor....many will be created along the way to suit and passify situations that will surely emerge from time to time.
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Re: A painful decision

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Thanks hor Slider for the under the belt punch.

Bro porscheclub, the above is not possible.
The above takes alot of patience and grooming....yes grooming...it can be achieved.
Lastly, for those who wish to apply the above, you need the following criteria to be met:
1) You must be in ABSOLUTE control of everything
2) You wife must belong to those who are thinkers, not the old fashioned types who just nag and bitch abt everything under the sun
3) Your mistress to be must have nerves of steel, brains and lots of it, patience and knows how to win the hearts of your wife n family n children if any

As for you, your job is to ensure there's a code of conduct to be met in your harem, know how and who to do wat and wif who........allocation of responsibilities will and must be based on hierachy
Last, once blended in, you leave them to sort everything out, you just be the king for your kingdom is well ruled by your new board of directors who will fuck themselves up shud they try to screw or undermine the kingdom!

Last n most important, tell your wife that in due respect of her position, NO ONE else can bear your children except her.
As for the mistresses, tell them that in due respect to your 1st wife, their curse for being wif you is to be never be allowed to bear children for you, but you'll love them more than your 1st wife...hehehehehe

Basic fundamentals only hor....many will be created along the way to suit and passify situations that will surely emerge from time to time.


Than where should TS stay???

1st home or 2nd home???

I think its not possible.... cant be sometimes here and othertimes there.....

How can 1st wife accept?????

And in TS's case, 2nd wife also cannot accept.....

Is this a way out??? i dun think so....

Man have not emerge with a way out of this tricky situation yet...
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Old 12-11-2008, 08:23 AM
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Re: A painful decision

Than where should TS stay???
At home la

1st home or 2nd home???
No 1st or 2nd, his own home

I think its not possible.... cant be sometimes here and othertimes there.....
Of cos not, but can, if all under 1 roof

How can 1st wife accept?????
That' y i said GROOM


And in TS's case, 2nd wife also cannot accept.....
Also need to groom

Is this a way out??? i dun think so....
Everything in this mortal world has a way out! Just bcos u tink it cant be dun, does not mean it aint possible

Man have not emerge with a way out of this tricky situation yet...
HAHA I have....I have 3 staying under 1 roof wif me now! Read my siggy dude!
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HAHA I have....I have 3 staying under 1 roof wif me now! Read my siggy dude![/COLOR]
Bro DYBJ....you're my idol Way to go!!!
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Bro DYBJ....you're my idol Way to go!!!
Pls pls never say that again....cos me shy shy
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You need to go watch it online or something. Quite a few movies use mindgames as the centre stage but 暗战 1 and 2 really emphasize on it.

To answer your question, the person setting up the stage for the opponent will know the rules and bottomline of the game. Therefore there is very little chance of the game master falling into the same trap which he has been using against his opponent. Applying this on the scene, Ekin knows he can control the outcome, therefore he plays it. He will never lose becos his opponent will never win. If there is 1% chance that he will lose, he will stop the game and start another one which he is confident of 100% control. Again he will never lose. This is not a defensive strategy, this is an offensive strategy. When a person is able to control the outcome he can get anything he wants in the world.

Money is a currency for normal people to get what they want. Mindgame players can persuade his target to give him what he wants, including their own lives.

Problem is, we think talking is cheap. Worse still, we think talking is just their way to get close to us and help to give us our relief.
tats true. the targets can be different but the same old coin can be used over and over again, until the day he meets one lao jiao who has seen it all to counter him. one needs alot of understanding of his ownself and his strength and weaknesses to play the game. problem with talking is we often have the habit of just believing watever others says, no matter hw BS they r. try telling an ugly charbo she is SYT i believe she will also blush.
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Bro DYBJ....you're my idol Way to go!!!
That is why I said he is a class act all by himself which us mere mortals cannot hope to replicate. Bro DYBJ, its not a below the belt punch. On the contrary, it is an expression of my sincere adolation and admiration. You the man.
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Bro DYBJ, its not a below the belt punch. On the contrary, it is an expression of my sincere adolation and admiration. You the man.
Tks my brudder, very paiseh though.....but tks tks
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No meimeis down under??? You gotta be kidding! They have flooded the major cities here just as they have the world over.
Boss, not that I would argue with you but I was quite surprised when I read that there are currently about 100,000 Chinese Nationals working/residing in Singapore which has a size of no more than 700sqkm.

I can't find the news but it was released recently by the Chinese Embassy commenting about the increased murders in SG involving PRCs.

They do adapt very well, I was in several parts of European cities & they're fluent with their languages.
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Than where should TS stay???
At home la

1st home or 2nd home???
No 1st or 2nd, his own home

I think its not possible.... cant be sometimes here and othertimes there.....
Of cos not, but can, if all under 1 roof

How can 1st wife accept?????
That' y i said GROOM


And in TS's case, 2nd wife also cannot accept.....
Also need to groom

Is this a way out??? i dun think so....
Everything in this mortal world has a way out! Just bcos u tink it cant be dun, does not mean it aint possible

Man have not emerge with a way out of this tricky situation yet...
HAHA I have....I have 3 staying under 1 roof wif me now! Read my siggy dude!
U buggers make me laugh! Thanks for that.

Anyway, just a short update. I've made a little leeway by having the 2nd one easing off a little now. Reminds me of negotiating a contract. Phewww.... time for a break.
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Phewww.... time for a break.
Good...take this time to cool your mind and come up wif the ultimate PLAN!!!!
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U buggers make me laugh! Thanks for that.

Anyway, just a short update. I've made a little leeway by having the 2nd one easing off a little now. Reminds me of negotiating a contract. Phewww.... time for a break.
Alll of us have been negotiating since we know how to talk! hahahaha...
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Anyway, just a short update. I've made a little leeway by having the 2nd one easing off a little now. Reminds me of negotiating a contract. Phewww.... time for a break.
Bro Porscheclub.....you can consider to try negotiating with your two wifey about housing them under the same roof, just like Bro DYBJ. 'Crazy' idea it may seem but it works in Bro DYBJ's case.
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