16 years old and pregnant

[sootongs]

I think the fella very scared kanna rotan arh since under age. But if parents agree to tie the knot and approve you might be spared the rotan.

NO gynae will keep under wraps if under age unless you know the doc.

Abortion has long term effects esp when you say you love her. If done wrongly or left stuff inside and got infection of womb etc, you got a million dollars also cannot give birth when ya older. Some risks not worth to take. No matter how minor a surgery, its never 100% risk free.

[izerkudie]

TS, every replies in this thread is helping you, hope u take our advice and seek ur parents advice all the best

[xiaonic]

hellopanda,talk it out wif your parents, u still young to handle all this.
do you know abortion can harm your gf!
if she is pregnant, both side parents must be involved to help both of u decide.
she can born the baby and let others adopt or u let her born e baby and when u both are older and stable u get married?
do you really love her or jus bonk her for fun?
A moment of pleasure can lead to the creation of new life.
Dare to bonk, must dare to bear the consequences and responsible for ur actions.
btw sg just change the penal code

[zapme]

hi just something to share,

When a abortion or miscarriage happen, its not the end of any problem. The unfortunate child spirit will not rest and will be hanging around the parents.


The spirit will grow up just like a kid and if its revengefu,l in years to come the parents will encountered problems caused by your own child. By then it will not be a problem anyone can help with.


It doesnt matter wats is your age, but a person should be braved enough to be responsible.

[pingone]

bro ts,

here are my humble views. i havent read finish the whole thread and just on your post alone.

first thing you should do is to get a pregency test kit. thereafter abortion or to keep the baby, decide later.
just get it test.

i am super and super against abortion. if you love your gf, think for her. abortion isnt so kind on a lady's body.
she will suffer a lot on both mind and body.
i seen my friend went through abortion before. she is a different lady after that. from a very cheerful lady to a lady suffering from depression.

if the ultimate decision is still abortion, are you going to just fuck off after that? please do mind that you are still responsible for her after abortion.

the best is just consult your mum. if her parents cant know about it, just let your mum accompany her to do pregnancy check.

i really hope the best for you, in your case, you dont want her to get pregnant. for other people, want to get pregnant also have to try few years.

and please, dont try to use 'studies' as an EXCUSE. and i say it again. EXCUSE.

[torak]

I wonder how many ppl here read ts's post... guys, ts is underaged, not his gf. Read properly.

Anyway ts, as long as ur gf is above 16 when she's pregnant, she can go to any clinic which has such ops. The doctors are only required to report if girl is underaged. Above 16 they won't care since its not a requirement.

No particulars will be taken down,they only see the girl's ic to verify the age.

I'm not encouraging abortion, but I wanna tell u the correct information.

[foooah]

I'm sorry but TS really deserves a good telling off. Too late then you start realize and want to go for abortion blah blah...

Still can have the cheek to ask whether can go one month after birthday month. (hello, by that time your gf stomach start to show, it's not gonna be you walking around in public but her) Still dare to say you love her very much.

I've spoken to countless teens like you, have always encouraged condoms if you can't resist temptation. As always, they say they're too shy to buy condom or not shiok if use condom.

Now see who's shy and how's the shiok feeling.

I hope you settle this properly, be a man and face the parents if you have to.

[takomiSan]

I faced the same issue, 1yr back, and am now a married man.

I was 22, and my wife was 19. I could still remember the moment, when we sat down on the table and broke the news to them.

I remembered having my face, facing down and head being very heavy. But! in the end, we were given the blessing from both parties' parents, and we got officially married on the 23rd March 2007.

I was still in my first year NS, how siong it was? IT WAS bloody siong, running and attending to both sides. BUT now, looking back at it, ok la, siong once, siong twice, not siong anymore.

SO! bottom line, if you confirm KANA, please keep the baby, and tell your parents about it. By the way, my wife gave birth to a baby boy.

Fatherhood to me, now 23yr old, is kinda taxing but yet i'm happy to be in that shoe. Weird, but just remember, every decision made, decide the unforeseen future, that is in your hands.

GOOD LUCK PAL. =)

[takomiSan]

I faced the same issue, 1yr back, and am now a married man.

I was 22, and my wife was 19. I could still remember the moment, when we sat down on the table and broke the news to them.

I remembered having my face, facing down and head being very heavy. But! in the end, we were given the blessing from both parties' parents, and we got officially married on the 23rd March 2007.

I was still in my first year NS, how siong it was? IT WAS bloody siong, running and attending to both sides. BUT now, looking back at it, ok la, siong once, siong twice, not siong anymore.

SO! bottom line, if you confirm KANA, please keep the baby, and tell your parents about it. By the way, my wife gave birth to a baby boy.

Fatherhood to me, now 23yr old, is kinda taxing but yet i'm happy to be in that shoe. Weird, but just remember, every decision made, decide the unforeseen future, that is in your hands.

GOOD LUCK PAL. =)

[sootongs]

Just occured to me some sasmters are dads here....Hope non of you kanna top prize by getting some guy telling you he knocked up your daughter and prego now....

[sootongs]

Originally Posted by torak

I wonder how many ppl here read ts's post... guys, ts is underaged, not his gf. Read properly.

Anyway ts, as long as ur gf is above 16 when she's pregnant, she can go to any clinic which has such ops. The doctors are only required to report if girl is underaged. Above 16 they won't care since its not a requirement.

No particulars will be taken down,they only see the girl's ic to verify the age.

I'm not encouraging abortion, but I wanna tell u the correct information.

Ah you read David Eddings's Belgarion :P

[zapme]

Hi bro pingone,

You have mentioned that your friend changed from a cheerful lady to one who suffered depression.

In medical science thats what we called depression.

But sometimes its the child spirit with her that its causing her problems, she likely to have changes in character and like eating lots of sweets stuff. Easy way to find out is when you encountered plp with yinyang eyes, they will saw wats with her. It maybe this way or may just be pure depression.

A friend of my done abortion about 8yrs ago unwillingly cos the child is diagno by 3 doctor adnormal. After that she suffered from depression at times. When i know her abt 4yrs ago, she is perfectly normal to me.


However 2 yrs later she had major changes in her character. To cut it short, actually she was affected by the spirits with her. Y i so sure was, my frd with yinyang eyes told me he saw a roughly 7,8 yrs spirit boy with her. And once was hafing palm reading by a fortune teller, the fortune teller oso saw the child spirit.

[zapme]

I will like to give an example, when we died, we suffered the punishment in hell.

One day our ordeal ended and was given a reborn chance as human, however during pregnancy the parents done abortion. Our limbs and head squashed by the gyno and there we are out, not as a human but as one been dismantled.

Will we have hatred? Will we haunt out parents cos its this decision?

Thats the reason y abortion or miscarriaged, the spirit will hanged ard the parents, reason simple cos coming to this world the parents is their only kin.

[torak]

Originally Posted by sootongs

Ah you read David Eddings's Belgarion :P

So serious topic going on u come and oot lol.
Anyway ts just go and buy test kit. I've experienced before gf late for one month. Gave me a false alarm.

[hellopanda]

Dear sammyboy brothers

thank you for your care and concern and suggestions and feedback and all

i really appreciate it.

today i went to buy a testkit for her,

came in a pair, she took it both negative.


Is there any more reason for worry.

she hasnt had her period for 2months + alr.