feasible to start a relationship with FLs?

[shyboy252001]

think TS left this forum liao after all the negative comments.. hahaha

as the chinese says, 忠言逆耳, well meant advices can pierce into your ears, and it aint pleasant to hear such advices.

but bro explorez, it is YOUR LIFE, bros here can only dispense advices based on their experiences, ultimately, you gotta make your own choice.. just that now you are clearer of the possible consequences of your actions..

whatever the case, please come back and share with us the story! good or bad, it can always be a good case study for other bros out here

[hock19]

My feeling is that relationship with FL is not a good route for all the points that was raised. But I have found (maybe lying to myself) that there may be a few who are here working in KTV as opposed to proper FL and there may be some of these who do not "go out" with other people. They just earn money from tips etc.

But then these tips may not be enough to sustain them so they may try to tie themselves with a guy who wants to look after them. That is to say, they will not go out with other men but only to this person. The draw back is that this guy may need to give the girl money monthly. I beleive there are geniune girls in this catagory. SOme of these girls eventually go back to CHina as they find it difficult making money withour resort to free lancing.

But I must admit, it is difficult to find these. In my case, I found 2 over the past year.

Off course there are other girls who make money by being baoed by more than one guy. OR else being baoed by one but make money on the side line by doing FL.

[KangTuo]

If you have a strong heart, nothing better to do and want to feel crazy like me. By all means, start the relationship.

[MrFit]

For me, as a friend I will be more than welcomed, GF for perhaps some experience, see how, wife = no.

However I would not stop you from trying infact I would say you should give it a try, but please be smart. Look at the stories around. Learn from them and are you ready to face the same shit they went through?

At least if you try, you will know that you confronted fate before and probably wont regret much because you tried. You might perhaps learnt a lesson because she is faking, or maybe it just dint work out somehow at least you gained some experience.

[mg8888]

There is little chance of finding a fl who is not out for money .

Unless she dun want ur money and never ask u buy things for her .

Fuck and forget what happened in the room stays in the room and best is not to linger for more else u will get hurt more .

Why not consider the non-fls ? At least there is better chance they are willing to try for companionship and not moolah .

[Super White]

Please go ahead. This forum needs more people to laugh at when they try something so foolhardy as dating a freelancer. Good luck.