Your thoughts please..

[Stud00]

one more quote:
I don't get jealous when I see an EX with someone else, because my mum always told me to give my old toys to the less fortunate.

[blohsg]

hahahah less fortunate hahaha good one !

“Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worse kind of suffering.” - Paulo Coelho

We move on once we're done waiting ...

[Criminalz]

Last time when i broke up with my girl, my frd told me, dun worry, still got plenty of fishes out there and i broke down and cry like hell.......I dun fuck fish.

[blohsg]

Haha bro hope you are having a good laugh now thinking back ...

[LoveAngel]

Originally Posted by Stud00

. i tink i juz be a player from nw on.
knn..

Originally Posted by HungerAwaken

I think this kind of situations born a player from a very caring and faithful boyfriend!
I feel like being played!
I rather b a player!
That hateness born!

I know how that feels.
Sometimes when I feel we've been taken too much & too often for a ride,
when people play on your soft-heartedness & kindness,
when people take you for granted,
I always wish & hope that I can just harden my heart, be mean, be heartless,
for my own good, to protect myself.

But sigh .... that's so difficult too ....

Originally Posted by Stud00

If u're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward u with a new hello. -Paulo Coelho..

Yes .... it just takes courage to say goodbye & determination not to retract it ... then it takes new courage to face the new hello & new beginnings ....

Originally Posted by Criminalz

Last time when i broke up with my girl, my frd told me, dun worry, still got plenty of fishes out there and i broke down and cry like hell.......I dun fuck fish.

Thanks for making me laugh .....

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Stud00

Dear Bros/Sis..
Just wanna your honest opinon on this:

Gf tells Bf that the reason why she strays and fucks another guys is because:

1) You are always too busy for me, you got no time for me.
2) Your work is everything.

What do you guys think?

Yes, tink its true for a lot of pple here in SG esp for the guys...work is very stressful & demanding...requires a lot of one's time & energy..worse if u wanna climb up the corporate ladder...but no choice have to do it, sometimes just to make a decent living...

Originally Posted by LoveAngel

I know how that feels.
Sometimes when I feel we've been taken too much & too often for a ride,
when people play on your soft-heartedness & kindness,
when people take you for granted,
I always wish & hope that I can just harden my heart, be mean, be heartless,
for my own good, to protect myself.

But sigh .... that's so difficult too ....

Yes..it is usually easier to be mean, uncaring & taking others for granted...but for some like sis LA & myself, we find it difficult to just to do just tat...cos of our soft & kind nature...sigh

[relaxguy]

- is what she say true?
- did you do your best effort and make her understand?
- do you sleep around too?
- do you still like her (or to fuck her)?

i think from the above you can find your answers. cannot change the past but can at least save your future.

Originally Posted by Stud00

Dear Bros/Sis..

Just wanna your honest opinon on this:

Gf tells Bf that the reason why she strays and fucks another guys is because:

1) You are always too busy for me, you got no time for me.
2) Your work is everything.

What do you guys think?

[relaxguy]

hi angel,
i understand and see where you are coming from.

people tend to take kindness for weakness, emotional for childishness and heartless for professional but in this world there is all kinds of people and eventually these people will seek each other out. kindness begets kindness, and heartless begets heartless. what goes around comes around. karma works, sort of...

dont be too jaded, just be enough to understand the law and then be the person you want to be. be yourself, be presistent enough and always know that there are people out there like us. just be geninune, do what is right and dont really care what others think.

in the end its only yourself. hey, we should meet up again sometime.

Originally Posted by LoveAngel

I know how that feels.
Sometimes when I feel we've been taken too much & too often for a ride,
when people play on your soft-heartedness & kindness,
when people take you for granted,
I always wish & hope that I can just harden my heart, be mean, be heartless,
for my own good, to protect myself.

But sigh .... that's so difficult too ....



Yes .... it just takes courage to say goodbye & determination not to retract it ... then it takes new courage to face the new hello & new beginnings ....



Thanks for making me laugh .....

[Stud00]

[QUOTE=LoveAngel;6012762]I know how that feels.
Sometimes when I feel we've been taken too much & too often for a ride,
when people play on your soft-heartedness & kindness,
when people take you for granted,
I always wish & hope that I can just harden my heart, be mean, be heartless,
for my own good, to protect myself.

But sigh .... that's so difficult too ....



Ehh Sis, i don't think i can ever be a player. Too soft hearted, just cant do it.

[LoveAngel]

Originally Posted by Stud00

Ehh Sis, i don't think i can ever be a player. Too soft hearted, just cant do it.

I know what u mean. We don't want people to play us, so we don't play people. Do not do to others what you don't want others to do unto u. We live by that I guess.

[acidicavex]

good choice just want to relate something or share.

It was a damn long time ago where i work in this company which rent of shop office in IMM. So came along afew new colleague. We were all young below 30 above 25. During that time our shop office is near to the IMM management office. So there this chick not pretty one but got this most bro will say CFM look. My colleague was very very into her so he start wooing her. After that i left the company and didn't receive any info of them whether together or not. But i did met the gal 1 day along scotts road. She was with another gal and a guy shopping in town. So she stop and chat with me to my surprise she was married to my ex colleague. I was happy for her and hiim although i have lost touch with them. But i can sense she was pretty unhappy cause she ask me this question (Are ppl in your trade always that busy and got no time for family??) I told her that depend but naturally yes. So she just like kept quiet but before she can say more her and the guy is rushing her off. So we bid our farewell. I thought nothing of it until i met my ex-colleague and sent him my wishes and complaining that he didn't invite me for his wedding. What shock me was he was divorce already........... with that gal......... So we went to a nearby kopitiam and chat. He say his divorce was due to his work...... (That make me realise what the gal have ask me) So he go on to explain although it a 1 sided story but it was the gal choice to leave him.

1) He was working employee..... they both own HDB 5 room
2) Gal complain want to live better as my friend told her don't work (she not higher educated just secondary level)
3) So my friend decided to sell off hdb invest in condo but the gal got no money so my friend rope in his sister to co-invest.
4) With some extra money and a loan from the bank my friend decided that he want to make life better.
5) So he went to setup his company and being from scratch as a new company everything you need to handle yourself especially in my trade.
6) So he manage to secure some good contract for than still authority before they got privatise.
7) So day in day out out he slave on the company to perform so that he can secure more contract.
8) That is when the gal start to complain even more why he always no time for her to bring her holiday,clubbing,dating etc. (WORSE still ask him earn so much for what don't even bring her out) ???? But he did pamper her with expensive stuff like bags,clothing all branded.......
9) Fight go on for 1 yr
10) 1 night he was due for overnight work so at the midnight time he felt unwell decided to go home. What he saw almost sent him to hell...... His wife was in a car in the basement carpark smooching with guy.....
11) Came confrontation....... gal say she was high etc. And since he no time for her she seek comfort outside......
12) wife want out of marriage.... what is shitty is she want a share of the condo which she never foot a bill she want to keep the car that my friend bought for her...... etc.

The rest is history my friend went thru a very very touch phase close to losing his business and facing shutdown... Lucky his sister back hiim up and wake the crap of him and pump in the money for the sales of the condo into my friend business.

End of the fact. It is not a excuse but life still need to balance out if you constantly really need to work and slave for a better life for both of your future than let her understand it. If she still take it for granted than it is time to say bye bye.

[blohsg]

wow ... that's some tough ride your ex-colleague had ... maybe the "X-wife" didn't appreciate what he had done for her ?

Maybe if they had lived within their means, he wouldn't have to work so hard and spend less time with her ?

Or was it her own fault coz she demanded for luxury and you exchange if for opportunity cost in terms of time.

oh well ... it's hard to have quality life in Sillypore ...

[blohsg]

Originally Posted by LoveAngel

I know what u mean. We don't want people to play us, so we don't play people. Do not do to others what you don't want others to do unto u. We live by that I guess.

It's hard to see what games the other side is playing. Especially when you're deep in it ... the waters could be nice and warm ... you dun see it till someone hits you over the head with a bat ...

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by acidicavex

1) He was working employee..... they both own HDB 5 room
2) Gal complain want to live better as my friend told her don't work (she not higher educated just secondary level)
3) So my friend decided to sell off hdb invest in condo but the gal got no money so my friend rope in his sister to co-invest.
4) With some extra money and a loan from the bank my friend decided that he want to make life better.
5) So he went to setup his company and being from scratch as a new company everything you need to handle yourself especially in my trade.
6) So he manage to secure some good contract for than still authority before they got privatise.
7) So day in day out out he slave on the company to perform so that he can secure more contract.
8) That is when the gal start to complain even more why he always no time for her to bring her holiday,clubbing,dating etc. (WORSE still ask him earn so much for what don't even bring her out) ???? But he did pamper her with expensive stuff like bags,clothing all branded.......
9) Fight go on for 1 yr
10) 1 night he was due for overnight work so at the midnight time he felt unwell decided to go home. What he saw almost sent him to hell...... His wife was in a car in the basement carpark smooching with guy.....
11) Came confrontation....... gal say she was high etc. And since he no time for her she seek comfort outside......
12) wife want out of marriage.... what is shitty is she want a share of the condo which she never foot a bill she want to keep the car that my friend bought for her...... etc.

tks for sharing , hope ur fren find a better one next try

[nubox]

If a girl wants to cheat on you, nothing you do can stop her