23 year old still no girl friend , no sex experience... - Page 5

CrisRonaldo7 · #61 04-03-2012, 08:12 PM

First time aint so important. lose it to prostitute or gf or ONS it's entirely up to u. it is ur self belief n self confidence that is the most important. if u have that, u definitely will attract the people around u. males want to be you, females want to be with u. so right now if i were u, i will continue improving my skills, education, social activities. Over time, it wont be an issue anymore.

eugene_wong · #62 04-03-2012, 10:47 PM

Hey, you are 23? So what!

I didn't know how to masturbate until 24 and never know how to make love until 27......i'm over 40 and still single

tamtam · #63 04-03-2012, 10:52 PM

I still think you better off find someone much older, say around 28~32 years of age, they are generally more experienced than you, and it will be a unforgetable session for you to remember.

Can't imagine that you bang someone your age, both green horns, and be done in 5 min, you will regret this.

Spend quality time with those older ladies, most time they really need someone to talk or listen to, be attentive and caring towards them, when they trusts you, the rests comes naturally even without you asking for it.

Do not always hints them for sex, once a while just drop a hint, see their reactions, too forceful, they will turn off totally.

Go find a place to drink, bring her along...end of the drinking session, is always the best time to make bodily contact (excuses), then see where you both ends up. Good luck bro.

Macadonia3 · #64 04-03-2012, 10:58 PM

Be honest, rate 1-10 on how much you'll rate your self

Your looks
Your body type( 1-5 for fat,5-7 for normal,8-10 muscular)
Your wealth
Your height

frivolous_ami · #65 06-03-2012, 11:38 PM

Better never have before than to waste time on the wrong gal....

I had dated quite a number of local gals and also msian as well. Its all the same. Date liao, hold hand. Later, dun work still come back to square one. If you are a player, then you wont care. But if you dating with hope of a serious companion, then it may be quite frustrating.

Gals are not quite a simple species. Even if america were to direct all r&d resource into discovering how a woman works, it will take an eternity for anyone to conclude any findings on how to hook up a gal.

Lagi better yet. When you thought you have done your best, some other already hook her up on facebook. Not very easy one. You can choose and hope to get, but remember also that the gals also choosing you.

sgjoey · #66 07-03-2012, 03:12 AM

TS....

23 years without bonking is a very long time already. You shouldn't waste any more time. Your body was designed to bonk. You know you want it. You need it. Employing the services of sex workers allow you to do what you want. Treat them with consideration and you will be amply rewarded.

Think about a girlfriend afterwards. You may never have one -- so are you going to spend the next 23 years subjecting your body to another drought?

You only live once -- take charge of your life. Take advantage of the fact that in Singapore, it is not illegal to have sex with sex workers.

And don't listen to all that nonsense about saving it for someone special and what-not. Even if you have a girlfriend or even a wife later on, the sex you have with them may never be as good as your trysts with the professionals.

Don't waste anymore of your youth!

lovongster · #67 07-03-2012, 04:34 PM

Dear TS, i m similar in situation... n i c many others in same situation.
but i guess u have to be urself n confident about urself. =)

While I do not have gf yet, the girl i wooed for a long last time share with me one thing which i think is very useful, be nice and be of use to others (esp the gals, add value to them, but dun be despo to earn their favors). Then you will create a positive image of urself in front of the ladies... will help u in the long term.

Finally, do what u like in life, relax, chill n be happy abt it. E.g., go lim teh or whatever... kai kai or wat...

get ur classmate/schoolmate (girls if there is) with u... it will take take sometimes but u will slowly enjoy the process =)

lovongster · #68 07-03-2012, 04:35 PM

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frivolous_ami

wa bro... i like ur analogy =)

JohnLau · #69 07-03-2012, 04:43 PM

Dont worry bradder, train your stamina first...... before go for a first time bonking..... no rush..........first thing u need to do is masturbate everyday it will help you bonking longer...

joemac21 · #70 07-03-2012, 04:56 PM

Agree with Mr Lau.

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Originally Posted by JohnLau

Dont worry bradder, train your stamina first...... before go for a first time bonking..... no rush..........first thing u need to do is masturbate everyday it will help you bonking longer...

cloudangel · #71 07-03-2012, 05:16 PM

The only advice i can offer to the bros here who has been single since day 1 would be........ Girls can easily tell when they meet a guy who reeks of desperation, and the thing about this is girls get very turned off by it.

Its understandable that you're kinda "desperate" since you probably had not have a gf since day 1, but you need to really learn not to show it (E.g. hounding the girl non stop with text or msn messages, keep asking her out non stop after she rejected you once or repeatedly...etc)