Would you take an Ex FL as your GF?

[AlexV]

Originally Posted by Geiko

Who is losing the battle when your points of arguments are weak and so easily rebuked. I argue about typos? that just the reminder not to further embarrass yourself. Look at the people around you? ask yourself, do they like you. HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA

Wow, you've single handedly deteriorated the conversation to a 5 year old.

P.S. speaking louder does not make you more right so you can stop screaming at the computer screen now, my little chicken.

[Geiko]

Originally Posted by AlexV

Wow, you've single handedly deteriorated the conversation to a 5 year old.

P.S. speaking louder does not make you more right so you can stop screaming at the computer screen now, my little chicken.

Come come auntie mavis give small boy boy pacifier. Go sit in that corner and poo poo okie. Finish already I get doggie to lick clean you. Don't eat your own shit okie! its not chocolates.

[AlexV]

Originally Posted by Geiko

Come come auntie mavis give small boy boy pacifier. Go sit in that corner and poo poo okie. Finish already I get doggie to lick clean you.

I'm bored now...good bye.

[Geiko]

Originally Posted by AlexV

I'm bored now...good bye.

TATA, good luck growing up. Good Riddance.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by dk1903

boss, can show me where this huge pool is?
sounds so magical . . with so many angels . .
. . i also dying to find someone like this but have no luck

I've met many wonderful girls simply from going about my day to day activities. Examples :

1. I do 4 hours a week at the local SPCA and I've become friends with dozens of other volunteers who share my desire to nurse ill treated animals back to health.

2. My cycling group regularly attracts new cyclists of the female variety.

3. My sports club holds regular social gatherings eg BBQs, sports seminars, sports meets, workshops.

If you want a girl to share your life with, you need to find someone you can relate to. Relationships aren't about sex and sex cannot be the foundation upon which they are built. They revolve around companionship, mutual respect, common interests and shared values. Your life partner has to be your best friend in order for the relationship to work.

[sammyboyfor]

PRC wife dumped Singaporean husband after obtaining long-term dependent pass

Posted by temasektimes on May 4, 2012

A 32 PRC woman immediately dumped her Singapore husband after obtaining her long-term dependent pass to reside in Singapore.

44 year old Mr Chow managed to know the PRC woman through a marriage agency. She reportedly went missing after registering the marriage in Singapore and Mr Chow did not even consummate the marriage with her.

When he tried to SMS her, she scolded him, describing him as an ‘old bull’ which wants to eat ‘young grass’. She even asked him to go to Geylang to find a prostitute if he cannot control his ‘urges’.

Mr Chow said he married her because she appeared to be very ‘serious’ in starting a family with him. After he brought her to apply for long-term dependent pass, she claimed she was going to her aunt’s place and did not follow him home after which she became uncontactable.

When Mr Chow went to her ‘aunt’s place, he was told that there was no such person living there. The PRC woman told Mr Chow to stop looking for her as she has applied for Work Permit to work in Singapore.

[Shadow_warrior]

Sometimes your body is wet up to your neck in this situation,

take her as FB, have great sex, lots of it, she did with many guys too, why shouldnt you. Make sure you get GFE, lots of

men did too, but here's a word of caution, when FL becomes FB, they dont give you the kind of treatment they give others

that pay, they are no longer obliged to give you anything. You might try paying, see if you get better treatment

FL to FB, thats the best I can offer, GF sorry cant.

Its not about feelings.... I can feel for her, she can for me too

but I cant get past myself. I am sure she had her reasons for selling her body, I am human too

[bimpom]

Originally Posted by Geiko

What if the gal you are seeing or dating for weeks confesses to you that she was a ex FL. She wanted to tell the truth before accepting you as her guy. Will you as the guy accept her or U turn and dump her or take her for a FB only?


To answer why I ask this, I was a ex FL.

Yes I would love her until my dying day... I was in love with 2 FLs before and I really dont mind as Im a quite forgiving person. Because I always check on myself... I cannot expect to have a pure virgin pretty girl as my partner as I myself sleep around( juz like a playboy ) I drive my coupe around, screwing girls in my car, one night stands,going for commercial sex.....etc Even my wife has confessed to me she had sex with another guy, I got angry at first, there's a natural reaction but I still forgive her and we are still together today. After all, we are all human beings. Thats my point of view, others might disagree.

yours sincerely

[bimpom]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I've met many wonderful girls simply from going about my day to day activities. Examples :

1. I do 4 hours a week at the local SPCA and I've become friends with dozens of other volunteers who share my desire to nurse ill treated animals back to health.


If you want a girl to share your life with, you need to find someone you can relate to. Relationships aren't about sex and sex cannot be the foundation upon which they are built. They revolve around companionship, mutual respect, common interests and shared values. Your life partner has to be your best friend in order for the relationship to work.

I didnt know u do volunteer work at SPCA, respect and salute you...for being kind to animals.. Sincerely wish u all the best in health, wealth and sex, friendship...etc

Cheers

[jimbotron]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

However, the traits that make them excellent whores let them down when it comes to being a good wife or faithful girlfriend.

An analogy can be found on the sports field. An athlete who is an excellent distance runner will never win the shot putt. The physique of a distance runner means they don't have the strength required to do well in throwing events.

Whores don't make good wives and good wives won't be able to perform well as whores. Life is all about finding the right person for the right job.

spot on.

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I'm sure there are but they are few and far between. Why bet on a horse with the odds stacked heavily against you?

can't argue against that logic.

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I've met many wonderful girls simply from going about my day to day activities. Examples :

1. I do 4 hours a week at the local SPCA and I've become friends with dozens of other volunteers who share my desire to nurse ill treated animals back to health.

2. My cycling group regularly attracts new cyclists of the female variety.

3. My sports club holds regular social gatherings eg BBQs, sports seminars, sports meets, workshops.

If you want a girl to share your life with, you need to find someone you can relate to. Relationships aren't about sex and sex cannot be the foundation upon which they are built. They revolve around companionship, mutual respect, common interests and shared values. Your life partner has to be your best friend in order for the relationship to work.

very true that.


interesting new perspective of sam, only knew him previously as the man who educates people on the difference between advice and advise


but getting back to the topic, to visit fl n fall in infatuation is stupid, however finding the person inside the fl is real n loveable is a different thing
at the end of the day, anyone who dates an fl whether ex-fl or not should know what he is getting into, many tricky roads down+more than usual amounts of effort to sustain it n to go in that direction blindly believing love solves all prob is silly

ps-topic a good thread all bros should read, pity petty squabbles ruining it

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I've met many wonderful girls simply from going about my day to day activities. Examples :

1. I do 4 hours a week at the local SPCA and I've become friends with dozens of other volunteers who share my desire to nurse ill treated animals back to health. - Me too

2. My cycling group regularly attracts new cyclists of the female variety.

3. My sports club holds regular social gatherings eg BBQs, sports seminars, sports meets, workshops.

Boss Sam, you didn't list out your Gardening and Flower Arrangement clubs These are excellent hobbies to know "Homegirls" (宅女)

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

If you want a girl to share your life with, you need to find someone you can relate to. Relationships aren't about sex and sex cannot be the foundation upon which they are built. They revolve around companionship, mutual respect, common interests and shared values. Your life partner has to be your best friend in order for the relationship to work.

A life partner has to be able to double our joy and share half of our sorrow. The best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other and any relationship primarily built on lust and physical attractiveness is predestined to be short lived and fake

[A+++]

Dear TS,

I believe every person will have their own different answers for u. For me, I would accept it if the GF comes clean.

U can take it as a test, if your BF couldn't accept & leave u, then u should forget about him then. If he truly loves u, he would try to accept it as past is past & move on to the future.

If u keep it from him, & he finds out after few yrs later or after u guys get married with kids, things just got shitted then

[eugene_wong]

Originally Posted by jimbotron

spot on.




can't argue against that logic.




very true that.


interesting new perspective of sam, only knew him previously as the man who educates people on the difference between advice and advise


but getting back to the topic, to visit fl n fall in infatuation is stupid, however finding the person inside the fl is real n loveable is a different thing
at the end of the day, anyone who dates an fl whether ex-fl or not should know what he is getting into, many tricky roads down+more than usual amounts of effort to sustain it n to go in that direction blindly believing love solves all prob is silly

ps-topic a good thread all bros should read, pity petty squabbles ruining it

Actually, a girl became a FL due to character flaw. Her flaw is not being a FL but it is the flaw that causes her to become a FL.

Being a FL is just a symptom. Within her lies big flaw. Not only she does not fit to be wife, she can be unfit for other things as well. I think bro sammyboyfor didn't elaborate but I wish he will.

It can be argued that she wants to earn some money to start a business back home. Once she earned enough, she won't become a FL again. Please remember a FL can be cocky too and won't simply have affair/sleep with people other than her bf/husband once she stopped being a fl even for money. But I still believe the flaw that caused her to become a FL in the first place won't make her a good wife or person. She may not sleep with other man but cause other headache for you. Bro sam, can you provide more advice to educate visitors here.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by eugene_wong

Bro sam, can you provide more advice to educate visitors here.

I've already covered this aspect in many of my previous posts eg

http://sbf.directory/showthr...ws#post7226422

Do a search.

[sammyboyfor]

Another http://sbf.directory/showpos...7&postcount=26