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Re: Heart broken....
过来人有两种
第一种是称,过来的成功,成长的人 第二种是称,过不来而走火入魔的人 呵呵 U r not wrong in ur statement. Guess it depends from which angle this statement is applied from ba. From 2 consenting parties, u r rite. From external parties looking in, chances r, they'll say it's not morally rite
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的,就是你的。 不是你的,不要抢! 人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene |
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终于有一句说的有理,明天自愿赏你两分。
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大哥,无恨哪有情
无打哪有爱 无闹哪有平静 hehehe
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的,就是你的。 不是你的,不要抢! 人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene |
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的,就是你的。 不是你的,不要抢! 人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene |
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也许那时侯,应该我还在操场上和我的朋友玩"咯庆" catching" 吧。
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俗话说得好,冤家宜解不宜结. 难道是小两口吵架? But Da ge DYBJ has always show me that whatever he says always has a reason behind it. He often proved himself to be correct in the angle he viewed the issue. Maybe try looking thru his lens and you might understand the reason and learned a few things. After all the pride in all of us might disillusion our vision.
In my case, I did learned much things from him and I'm glad as his things become mine. |
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Eyer, you don't por can a not very er xin lea. later mr do_you_bj cannot digest his dinner properly after reading your post then you gonna be responsible for his medical fee ?
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I will try to see using his lens and perhaps learn a thing or 2 from Dage 人生一世,如草生一秋。是匆匆而麻烦的短暂。活得糊涂的人,容易幸福。活得清醒的人,容易烦恼 。 難得糊塗: 聰明難、糊塗尤難、由聰明轉入糊塗更難,放一著、退一步、當下心安,非圖後來福報也。 |
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黑是黑 白是白 你要把黑看成白 这是你的选者能力和自由 可是 黑还是黑 白也还是白 Truth hurts Reality hurts 逃避是后悔的开始 面对是幸福的开始 人生的意义 How many can even understand this, let alone practice it? Not an argument but let's call it a case study The Notion of Drug Addict Everyone on earth can advice tat addict to quit But no one can ever make him quit Unless he himself wants to quit Force him against his WILL He will find all opportunities to get his or her FIX But If he has made up his mind, AWAKENED n decided to quit for good Put the drug infront of him, he will still avoid it. Relate the above to many debates I've participated in Apply my siggy to any argument N u will see it applied non stop Bro <<totally>> is not (Por)ing me He is not the 1st who has benefited from some of these posts I too have benefited from some of 大哥 <<totally>> n 大哥 IK's wisdom n many other more wise bros in this forum. We learn, we share, we contribute. Right is right, wrong is wrong. Same logic applies of the 黑 n 白 These are not my teachings FYI If one seeks self awakening n religious understanding Regardless of Faith They'll see what I say n only thru some form of awakening at a certain level, can one understand the essence or the message behind the postings
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的,就是你的。 不是你的,不要抢! 人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene |
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两位大哥别误会,都是高人,小弟心领了
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的,就是你的。 不是你的,不要抢! 人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene |
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让我在加多一句,"逃避只是战时的决绝办法到总就还是要去面对"。
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I did learned a couple of things from him and not ashamed to admit. We are born with nothing into this world so whatever you learned along the way will be yours to keep and no one will be able to take it away from you. Unless you are unable to accept and shut yourself in the world you are in, I believed I will no longer required to say much as the doors only allow passage out but not in. If you managed to understand, even though there are differences in your positions, a different point of view do helps to see things better. You will stand to gain and nothing to lose. Consider my questions. 1)What is everything? 2)Ask yourself if you really saw everything? I can tell you, Dage DYBJ and I did exchanged a series of firings before but we are on talking conditions and we knew each other better. If there is a need to proof our cross firings, I will be glad to show you but the pms will be processed with discreet contents omitted. |
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可是你知不知道,逃避是无期限的. 有的人就是用尽一身的时间,还是选择逃避. 什么叫总就还是要去面对. 如果他选择死,他需要面对吗?就是他不要面对才会选择死亡,所以我才会说是无期限.
可是有的人勇于面对. 遇到问题的时候,他就是追根到底,打破沙锅问到底的态度. 这样的人是不是会显现的出比较成功吗? 小姐hurts,你的观点早已被我的推理摧毁了. 到底能不能接受,就在于你自己. 我是已一个中立人的身份来说话,要是我靠过去,你还有机会说话吗? |
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勇敢面对的人是能在社会上生存的人也是个成功的例子。因为他们敢去面对掺绔的事实接受失败,把失败改正成功 。 这句我不明白。translation please.
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