My Story.... And I hope bros will not make the same mistake as me.....

[porscheclub]

TS, you are very "lor soh". Sorry but I have to be blunt here then listen to your stories as it seems that you are the one unwilling to let go now.

Your situation should be reversed as most guys cannot accept a women's sexual history but she's acting childish now. If one really loves another, he or she will accept who she/he is now & look forward to future rather than digging graves.

5yrs is no big deal. One of my girlfriend was 14yrs younger than me & we almost married. Remember this. When you marry a person, you marry his or her family as well so do a background check, spend time with them. If the situation don't work out then bail out.

So, stop whinning here & move along. Don't marry till both parties are absolutely sure of the commitment. If she cannot accept your past then tell her "Good bye".

Having multiple sex partners, ONS & visiting pros are no big deal as it's all part of growing up & most women in 21st century are very experienced as well so grow up & look beyond.

[woohooo]

What a coincidence... was just reading this thread -- http://sbf.directory/showthread.php?t=378190

That was about a guy who couldn't get over his GF's past. Opposite of yours

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

TS, you are very "lor soh". Sorry but I have to be blunt here then listen to your stories as it seems that you are the one unwilling to let go now.

LOL my good bro porscheclub, u so bad

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Dear pitaboom, a few words from an old man hehehe.
There're 4 kinds of women out there.

1st kind is the type you can hv all the fun in the world with but never get emotionally attached with them. They do make wonderful COMPANIONS and nothing more.

2nd kind, the kind you can get raunchy wif and will reciprocate but never get emotionally attached wif these type, for they're in for the HIGH and not the commitments thus u hv FBs

3rd kind, the kind that is mentally matured in an extent they know what they want in their life. This meaning they know the cycle of life and they believe in marriage, having a family...basically settling down n being a typical wifey.

4th kind, so full of themselves, ego bigger than their CB hole, want to be treated like a freaking princess, men must provide all, listen to them and be below them so even think about equality

Finding a partorlogy partner is one thing, but wif experience from partolorgy, one should then hv mastered how and wat trait to look for in a potential wife. This dept, as u mentioned in ur initial post, u clearly lack.

From a man wif wives, allow me to share something with you which I dare say, which i know bro proscheclub will attest to, the 1st department in being a man is, BE A MAN.
Giving in is not a wrong thing but one must know where to draw the line. A good example of what your current relationship is now is, she's stabbing u ever so often wif a dagger, u try to control ur temper, if u loose it, u walk away n u plaster ur wounds only to return for more stabbings.
Where's the fucking logic in this? That's Y i mentioned above, BE A MAN!

Sometimes, women can bicker, granted but there's also a line to be drawn here. There's a limit. The prob is, u gv in until u hv placed urself in a corner.
This my friend, is not ur crazy bitch's doing, it's ur own. U had that space but u gv it all to her to maneuver instead.

A statement u said in an earlier post about wat ur mom told u, tat's fucking priceless. Its a statement that has hidden meaning. When I was younger, I had something like ur relationship but of coz, she wud nvr dare to speak to me the way she did to u, coz she knows, I for one will not hesitate to slap a bitch. Never say hit women is wrong. No, I am not saying it's fine or perfect to do so, but some bitches DO DESERVE A BITCH SLAP to put them back into place, or like u say, BACK IN PERSPECTIVE.
My mom said the same thing to me when I was freaking several times a day coz of her then.
The exact words were: Boy, ur always so happy n strong minded, how come u let her come into ur life n u loose urself? Is tis how u want ur rest of ur life to be? Do the right thing boy, mom's behind u all the way.
Then she walked out.
I was like, OMFG, my mom is right, she come into my life, honeymoon period over, worse than being dead. Am I goona let her torment me for the rest of my life. Fuck, I'm only 22. That was more than 20yrs ago lol
Next day, she called to F me for not reporting good morning to her, told her to go F herself n hung up. She tried many times later to patch back, even coming to my house to apologise, but I made up my mind and tat was it.
I found out she married at 40 to a balding man almost 50 and became a mom at 41. No brainer to this conclusion either.

I hv written this many times in this forum. We r the captain of our own ship. We dictate where it heads to where it docks. A wife is one who will compliment ur ship, better if like me, ur wife can make a ship to a fleet hehehehe. But even before being a wife, instead or trying to keep ur ship trim n proper, she starts making holes to let water come in. My friend, u think this can be a wife? U probably won't make one nautical mile before ur ship sank coz of her! N let me make this crystal clear for u. Even if ur ship sinks, SHE GONNA FUCK U HARD N SAY ITS ALL UR FUCKING FAULT THE SHIP SANK!

Rethink wat u mom said to u. Use that as a point of consideration. A person, male or female, is loved for what they are. Yes, we all hv a history. A person who learned from their own history n that of others, is a wise & better person. But, if one doesn't learn from it or uses it to attack another like u, it's like forcing 2 pieces of a puzzle that's not meant to fit, but the abrasion that is created coz it's being forced to fit. This is a very big obvious hint for you

So bro, U being the captain of ur ship, decide it's fate!
Good luck man.

PS: Pls man up or else, u can never make a right choice in such situations
Last but not least, read my siggy!

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Dear pitaboom, a few words from an old man hehehe.
There're 4 kinds of women out there.

So bro, U being the captain of ur ship, decide it's fate!
Good luck man.

PS: Pls man up or else, u can never make a right choice in such situations
Last but not least, read my siggy!

Wah lan eh bro! You are lagi more Lor Soh but we're all old men so I'd have to agree

Hey you have a wise mum. Thumbs up to her!

You know, I once slapped a girlfriend who went overboard & she hit me back! Women :/

[littleleroy]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

We r the captain of our own ship. We dictate where it heads to where it docks. A wife is one who will compliment ur ship, better if like me, ur wife can make a ship to a fleet hehehehe. But even before being a wife, instead or trying to keep ur ship trim n proper, she starts making holes to let water come in. My friend, u think this can be a wife? U probably won't make one nautical mile before ur ship sank coz of her! N let me make this crystal clear for u. Even if ur ship sinks, SHE GONNA FUCK U HARD N SAY ITS ALL UR FUCKING FAULT THE SHIP SANK!

So bro, U being the captain of ur ship, decide it's fate!
Good luck man.

PS: Pls man up or else, u can never make a right choice in such situations
Last but not least, read my siggy!

Good Advice Bro. Well played (said)! I agree we are captain of own ship and should not let others dictate and be a man! Cheers!

[peekaboo]

Dear TS,

After putting bites and pieces together, I find it is the emotional of you playing tricks on you.

Having to help people is a very nice gesture. But helping for life is really unacceptable.

She got no hand and leg? The bloody mouth is so deadly where are the manners?

[PowerTAN_P_W]

this thread would not have existed if all men have half the 'seh' of Power Tan. The truth hurts.

Rgds,
Ah Wee

[Janet_W]

From wat I read, she is insecure. Abt ur feelings n commitment towards her. N u bid 2 reassure her of those 1st b4 u can even go nxt step.

[mentholfresh]

Bro DO_YOU_BJ, you are a wise old man...

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Dear pitaboom, a few words from an old man hehehe.
There're 4 kinds of women out there... ...

[hotbodz77]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Sometimes, women can bicker, granted but there's also a line to be drawn here. There's a limit. The prob is, u gv in until u hv placed urself in a corner.
This my friend, is not ur crazy bitch's doing, it's ur own. U had that space but u gv it all to her to maneuver instead.

Totally agree to this point. Nobody can push u into a corner if U dun let them.