Should I continue with this unsure r/s with Viet girl?

[racerboy]

ok, but she is one helluva good fuck! i was fucking her will always give her cim.

any good ways to make her go hotel with me again?

come to think of it, perhaps i dont love her. i love myself because she can satisfy my sexual needs.

[MIFAcafe]

What you type in a sex forum let me feel you are a weak man.

Don't reveal everything about yourself. You do not need to prove anything.

Unless what your say is not the truth, which also make you also a weak person.

Originally Posted by racerboy

Hi TS, sorry, this thread abit become my problem/solutions liao!!

thanks to kind bros who up me

to H88,

about the marriage :

in fact is no. i am on the verge of divorce, but during this 6mths, i told her i reconcile with my wife again. of course she was angry/sad, but she still hold on to loving(i guess) me.

regarding the last resort should all others failed, at this point of time when i am writing this post, there are one late 20s, one 30plus man and one 40plus man willing to marry her anytime. and for what i know the 20s and 30s are single. not too sure about the 40s. in terms of looks, i would say typical face of sg men la and should be normal build. (cos i can see from the wechat photo mah) in fact, i met up with one of her 'boyfriend' at the airport. he was normal build. in fact, it was me who was a bit chubby . his bf was sending her off, while having lunch, she excuse herself to toilet, but we are frenching in one of the staircase

u see. this is why i am having cognitive dissonance. i mean, i am cool with people saying that viet girls are XNN, but at least i need to know what is the reason mah. just like u go take driving test. u fail the test, but u want to know u kena minus what points..

knn, i was still pondering over whether to return the $200 she gave me to take back my samsung tab. (i bluff her i pawn the phone, but in actual fact, i just lazy to let her check my phone and gotta answer many question)

now i feel like taking the $200 and spend on drinks!

[racerboy]

yeah,true. but also can be false.

like what i had posted earlier, everything is questionable now. i will not defend myself.

[mackewell]

Bros, dont mean to sound naggy but i kinda free now as i wait out for Brazil to LOSE later LOL..... i think we need to stop losing our cool and analyse what the lao jiao chiongsters are hinting us lol. But its ur choice aniway. I am just saying how i feel lah, dont get it wrong...

This are all IMO, so dont get pissed, no right or wrong, everyone is different.
5 Pointers from me to get yourself back to the right track.

1. Go chiong a good 5 years not only in singapore, but in Wetnam too. Gain experience and understand how the girls mentality works. U go down there then you will understand. Do not settle for anything serious in this next 5 years, go explore their kampongs with some girls, go brush up some average viet speaking language, go chiong their nightlife(i strongly believe u will pui chao nua(spit saliva) on the Bullshite u are getting from sg nitelife, expensive and boring...). This is how i felt about thai discos in sg when i went to Pattaya for already up to 2 months in 4 trips! lol good things await outside stinkapore...

2. Dont make your life like korea drama show or wad. No need to sensationalize your life one to gain ppl's attention or to bolster your ego. Take a step back and learn first, dont complicate things, you do not get Emmy Oscar awards like Neymar for diving 4 rounds after any tame tackle in almost all world cup games of late lol... Just be yourself, listen to some things here with a pitch of salt also sometimes. Enhance your education status and intellect so that you know what is right or wrong for your life.

3. Build your financial status first. Its all about the money first. Build up your career so that you can make life easier for yourself even if u want to marry some foreign spouse or even chiong like nobody business as you venture outside of your bloody boring ass sg KTVs by going overseas. I am already planning to do this becuz thanks to our anti-vice, JC is dead whilst Geylang surprising is not for the low income IMO(just look at the cat150 wif crappy service).

4. Make more male friends who have been through that path of marrying foreign spouse. Interact with them, understand how they communicate, get along and adapt in their r/s with their wives. Also, best is go down hanoi and hcmc both sides know more viet girls. For instance, i am getting the feel that hanoi girls are ang-moh educated and more materialistic whilist hcmc is a mixture type. However, it depends on individuals. It is just like how i am understanding bangkok city girls think different of pattaya girls who come from udon thani, esan and so on.

5. Lastly, it is all in the mind! Be firm and protect your damn wallet first, be tactical, however expect sao nieu nieu(drama fake stories) from all kinds of 'working' girls. LOL even normal PRC and local girls are cheating stinkaporean man becuz we are so dumbass and nice and typical and narrow-minded and can't say NO and cant express ourselves and too ego-driven and love to kiss ass sometimes thanks to the influence of pap and this society driven by capitalism.

OK, Chill bros, i hope the best for all. Cheers. And for me, i am not going to settle for foreign spouse or a real r/s wif foreign chick until i clock that good old 10-15 years outside singapore( prolly the LOS lol) and garner all the experience i can and be ANTI-stinkaporean for good(sorry guys, just speaking my mind, no offense...)

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by mackewell

For instance, i am getting the feel that hanoi girls are ang-moh educated and more materialistic whilist hcmc is a mixture type. However, it depends on individuals.
5. Lastly, it is all in the mind! Be firm and protect your damn wallet first, be tactical, however expect sao nieu nieu(drama fake stories) from all kinds of 'working' girls. LOL even normal PRC and local girls are cheating stinkaporean man becuz we are so dumbass and nice and typical and narrow-minded and can't say NO and cant express ourselves and too ego-driven and love to kiss ass sometimes thanks to the influence of pap and this society driven by capitalism.

quite agreed with all your 5 points...and had done all you mentioned...

just want to correct you...xao nhieu nhieu...or tell lots of lies...

difference between Hanoi and HCM gals...

this is I quote my good fren...bro deptrai...

Hanoi gals have pretty faces...HCM gals have great bodies...


in reality there are good mixes...many are exchanging places to work in nite life...that is hcm gals traveled to Hanoi to work and Hanoi gals are going down to HCM to work in entertainment industry...not true that hanoi gals can speak better ang moh...

in fact the mekong provinces provide 90% or the hcm workers...

[MIFAcafe]

Play responsibly. We all human.

Don't live to regret.

[S.B.Y.1]

TS should feel good becos many Viet thread seniors here care
to hand out valuable advis to you

Spare a thought to what they're trying to tell you and make
the right choice for yourself

Pak wish you all the best in yr endeavor

[MIFAcafe]

Terima kasih pak.

Usually newbie will not listen. Thought they found new love.

Originally Posted by S.B.Y.1

TS should feel good becos many Viet thread seniors here care
to hand out valuable advis to you

Spare a thought to what they're trying to tell you and make
the right choice for yourself

Pak wish you all the best in yr endeavor

[racerboy]

yes, thanks to all old timers for taking time to explain to us.

at the end of the day, we must always protect ourselves first, be it physcially or financially, or even emotionally. nobody is going to pity u or give u some money if u are being conned by vb ur life savings.

anyway, the vbs also have to do their best in these few years. because their shelf life is short, same as footballers. once their prime had past, they have to think of other ways to earn money.

not sure about how TS feels or think, not for me, i had thrown her out of my life. yes, the occasional song that i hear will sure relive some memories, but to me, they are just memories. its what make us humans. so TS, depends on how u view the memories. can take it as a sweet memory, or a painful lesson. it all depends on how u view LIFE

and with this, i will become dormant again. Good luck in ur life, happy experiencing the nightlife and the vice life of ktvs.

[BobDole]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

http://sbf.directory/showpos...ostcount=18994
http://sbf.directory/showthr...wl#post9568139
http://sbf.directory/showthr...wl#post8172340
http://sbf.directory/showthr...t=wl&page=1178

Bro H88, Your links don't work leh.

[Bibibabiboo80]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

young man...think ok to call you young man since you just finish NS...let big Bro give you advice la...concentrate on your career...earn as much $$$ as you can...then you dun worry you have no gf/wife...

very soon this thread similar to other threads like this...will have no activity...hahah...

bro, lol, not young le. I said I went after reservist, not after NS xD
And that was my last reservist. MR loh!~

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Bibibabiboo80

bro, lol, not young le. I said I went after reservist, not after NS xD
And that was my last reservist. MR loh!~

anyway you still younger lol...write clearly la next time...dun misled us...

hope u dun mind i brought in the Viet veteran to come to your thread to comment...but you still have to make the right decision...

welcome to comment in my HCM thread found in my signature...

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

http://sbf.directory/showpos...ostcount=18994
http://sbf.directory/showthr...wl#post9568139
http://sbf.directory/showthr...wl#post8172340
http://sbf.directory/showthr...t=wl&page=1178

I would have thought a senior member like yourself would know better than to copy and past truncated urls.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I would have thought a senior member like yourself would know better than to copy and past truncated urls.

Originally Posted by BobDole

Bro H88, Your links doesn't work leh.

oops...just edited...the link is working now...

[LooksLikeJesus]

Originally Posted by Bibibabiboo80

A couple of months back, after my reservist, I went partying with the mates at one of the KTVs famous for the wild Viet girls. During selection of gals, I realised one of the girls kept looking and smiling at me and me only. Mind you, I don't consider myself handsome, average at best, and I'm more on the chubby side. Most of my mates were younger and some were quite good looking. So I quickly pick her. She was really into me for some reason we exchanged numbers and had our hands over each other and she didn't butterfly much the whole night. I didn't want to finish there so we agreed to go to a hotel after that. She even reminded me to buy condoms.
While we were making love, could tell that she enjoyed it very much, to the point that she inserted my condomless dick into her. I was abit taken back at 1st but small head soon took over the big head(as usual) and we went raw and finished COB. We stayed till times up, paid her and sent her home.

Soon after that we exchanged SMSes of "I miss you" "You miss me" and agreed to meet again the following week. Went to pick her up after her working hours and went hotel again. This time we didn't talk about the $, however I was abit worried and still paid her.

So after the 2nd meet up, we started seeing each other on weekends outside of her work-time. Went dating at ECP, Bugis and other places. But each of our meetings ended up on bed, all condomless.(she even asked me to shoot inside saying she wants baby, which I refused of coz, since I still wasn't sure of my feelings for her, and also how my family would react to me marrying a Viet girl) But most of the times were initiated by her. So when I say I want to send her home after the dates, she will give me a sad face and say things like "you don't love me that's why don't want to accompany me?", "I want to stay with you" etc. so I Lanlan.

Anw, after dating her abt a month she found out she had to go back to Vietnam early coz her boss booked a return flight the next day for her already. That night I went to meet her and hugged each other and cried. It was also during this time that I realised that I had feelings for her and not just for the sex(can't blame me we fuck EVERYTIME we meet!) I sent her off the following day and I agreed to fly to Vietnam to see her whenever I am able to.
Even when she went back, we constantly keep in contact thru Wechat and sometimes she'll call me. And yeah, I do miss her from time to time.

So now my dilemma is, should I continue seeing her and risk my mother's fury?(I told my mother about her and she was very against it...)
Or move on with my bachelor life?(she told me recently she will not be coming SG to work in the near future)
The only thing I didn't like about her was her pte ltd English, communication is a big problem for us.
Any kind and experienced bros wish to give me advice on this? Seriously lost now..

Hey Bro, remember to go for checkup. Your own life matters the most. These women are just in for the money for sg citizenship.