I fell in love with a ktv girl - need advice

[sropau]

Originally Posted by like2bonk

Aiyo, can spare more details or not. So far never heard of so serious before.

My friend know tis KTV gal when he visit one of the KTV in geylang n just like the threadstarter..They r so Click n They even went out for movie, shopping, sending the gal to work..jus like normal couple. later on...i discovered that both of them actually stayed together after sometimes n my friend even open a Bank acct under tis gal name n put all his $$$ into the Bank acct cos that KTV Gal claimed tat she will quit the job n married my friend!!! Gosh!!!
i tried to advise my friend to stop all these nonsense but he refused to listen to me and even said that i'm trying to interupt his life n to destroy his relationship with this Gal!
I gave up n stop contacting my friend for a few months until one day...his sister called me up n told me that he has comitted Suicide n has passed away

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by sropau

I gave up n stop contacting my friend for a few months until one day...his sister called me up n told me that he has comitted Suicide n has passed away

oh my..thats sad to hear of sia.hai..

[buzzing]

Brother... please dont one stick beat the villagers to death...

I have heard of several happy ending stories... still married.. very normal....

but girl not from geylang type lah... no offence to the girls in geylang..

wat i can say is that if you are prepared to enter the relation... be more prepared to end... many times when time to end relationship... tragedy strucks when one party is not willing to let go...

the girls sits with 8-10 tables a nite... meeting up to 50 guys trying to grob them.. they r more then capable to defend themselve... yet making the guys like them enough to pay money... if an actress.. acts for one movie at a time... they do it everynite.. 5-6 times.. and the oscar goes to ...... u get the picture.....

KTV... BGR... its a game... its mainly acting only... dont take it too seriously...

cheers!!!

[Cheri_Popper]

Originally Posted by sropau

Yes Bro...it has been so many years liaoz n i still feel sad abt this incident

Its really a very sad case for that friend of yours. May his soul find everlasting peace.

That gal must have not only cheated him a large sum of $ but also his feelings. Your friend had died because of a broken herat as well.

[tk-king]

u bonk her
she bonk u
u both bonk bonk family

bu zai hu tian chang di jiu
zhi zai hu chen jin bonk you

remember ur future is a degree not her

[Cheri_Popper]

Originally Posted by buzzing

I have heard of several happy ending stories... still married.. very normal....

There are succeeful endings but the unsucceeful ones outscore those succeeful ones by probably a score of 99 to 1!!!

The affairs of the heart is difficult to control but as a man we must 拿得起放得下!!!

The best policy is Fuck & Forget! Nowadays even if the gal use her tears on me, it also won't work!

[solidrock]

Originally Posted by sropau

My friend know tis KTV gal....
I gave up n stop contacting my friend for a few months until one day...his sister called me up n told me that he has comitted Suicide n has passed away

Haizzz.... so sad.

Contrary to popular belief, gals are not the weaker but the fairer sex. We guys can be just as emotional as gals. The only difference is that we don't cry when experiencing deep emotional turmoil, as prevailing social norms would brand us as sissies or weaklings.

Without a socially acceptable outlet of expression, our pains and hurts can be funneled into a horrendous rash action, as in the case of this poor chap.

Threadstarter: You may want to learn from the other person's mistake or else you might end up as the other person. Then it'll be a sad day for all of us to have to learn from you as a case study.

When we look at a lion we see a majestic animal. When a lion look at us, it sees food! When a KTV gal looks at you, she sees.... ?

Maybe, that's why they are called KTV gals. K.T.V. as in Kill The Victim.

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by speedrives99

We've met up twice eversince and on our 2nd date we had sex at my place. She didnt ask for any status as i told her i have a gf nw, but im ready to break up with her.

2nd time sex liao....

Let me tell u my story..Quite long ago, my friend jio me go to BS and i met a viet gal there...Name (K)....from the very start, i told K that I have a gf liao...and after HH, I ask K to go eat...she agree and later tell me she seldom go eat with customer....but she dont mind eat with me....then on that very night...i called her and ask her come my house and she came...but no sex but heavy petting....she say no no....then on my 2nd trip to BS i meet her again...then go dor dinner again....after HH she tell me she dont feel like working...ask me go out...but i never becos wanted to go home to Yahoo with gf....


Since then i dont go into BS but whenever i wait downstair coffeshop...she saw me she sure come to me and go eat...after eat tell me dont want work again....it is on my 3rd meeting with her...she ask me to go movie...after movie...she say she dont wish to go home....then we go hotel....and sex....

After that night...it is always free sex and sex....to the extend that after sex i say i go home talk to gf...she show me a sad face...but i do nothing....

Then one day i hear someone told me that this gal is telling pple that i am going to marry her then i got shocked....after that when she sms me , i told her i cannot meet her anymore...becos i in debts need money....after that she also stop contacting me

sad....should tell her later so can fark more.....

But then to me...i also very scared....1st time meet such FOC....totally nothin i give her except the 2 times tips in BS which abt $40 total....even sometimes meals she pay herself....except hotel i pay....

So u think a girl which u sex on 2nd time how? my advice to u is fark more and dont scare....fark till u shiok....if it is FOC...dont regret like me later...get free also scare....

[AdGuy]

Originally Posted by speedrives99

We got to know each other and i can also feel that she is interested in me. I caught her looking at me many times while playing and drinking with my friend.

No offence to you bro. You could be one hell of a good looker that she keeps on looking at you.

On the other hand, and the more probable explanation, is that she's wondering whether you'll make a good carrot.

When I chiong BS, some of the other bros girls touch my balls too when they walk past me. I would like to believe that they are really itching for some action with me too. The truth is, it's just their way of saying, "come find me the next time you come". It's like casting their net further.

Nothing hurtful I hope, but reality can be quite a pain in the ass.

[Merl]

Originally Posted by AdGuy

When I chiong BS, some of the other bros girls touch my balls too when they walk past me. I would like to believe that they are really itching for some action with me too. The truth is, it's just their way of saying, "come find me the next time you come". It's like casting their net further.

Nothing hurtful I hope, but reality can be quite a pain in the ass.

Very true indeed! Hope yr balls didnt swell too much with all those caressing

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by solidrock

Contrary to popular belief, gals are not the weaker but the fairer sex. We guys can be just as emotional as gals. The only difference is that we don't cry when experiencing deep emotional turmoil, as prevailing social norms would brand us as sissies or weaklings.

When we look at a lion we see a majestic animal. When a lion look at us, it sees food! When a KTV gal looks at you, she sees.... ?

Maybe, that's why they are called KTV gals. K.T.V. as in Kill The Victim.

excellents points u mentioned there bro.Gers cry,its as if its our fault to make them cry,if we cry ppl say we useless,so easy cry. Guys do hv their emotional side too,just that the way we show it out differs a lot frm gers.Kill the victim aka ktv,now thats a gd one bro.

[Wins88]

Originally Posted by speedrives99

she plan to work for 2 years and save up $ to set up some business. In fact she decided not to have any relationship during these 2 yrs so she can concentrate til she met me

Wonder how many times I've heard that soppy line before!?! The only advice I can give you is - stay the hell away from her! 2 years will turn into 3, then 3 into 4 and before you know it, she will be mamasan! You are still young, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Take your time.

[like2bonk]

Originally Posted by sropau

My friend know tis KTV gal when he visit one of the KTV in geylang n just like the threadstarter..They r so Click n They even went out for movie, ...
I gave up n stop contacting my friend for a few months until one day...his sister called me up n told me that he has comitted Suicide n has passed away

Thanks for sharing. Taking "hits" like this is like a person's body immune system - some people catch a flu more easily than others. This guy seemed weak emotionally. I think if he wasn't screwed by this girl, he will probably be screwed by someone else. That said, bless his soul. R.I.P.

[Punder]

Bro, after reading all the advices, i hope u can move on.

Dun go there anymore and for ur future sake, change ur contact number.

All the 5 page full of advices are not there for nothing. Read em', burn em', stir into ur drinks and drink up. then u forget any of this ever took place..

Seriously, dun get deeper into this emotional thigy la.

u got better things to do like completing ur degree..

dun believe all those girls sweet +++..

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by like2bonk

Thanks for sharing. Taking "hits" like this is like a person's body immune system - some people catch a flu more easily than others. This guy seemed weak emotionally. I

while u mention this,i used to be like wat u said,i am emotionally very weak even thou my build dont make me seems like it.me as of now still a bit weak but much better than the past after countless attempts.